While black and Asian women obviously get this MUCH worse, white women don't be complacent. You will be fetishised for your race too! (e.g. in Britain/Europe especially, some asian men see 'white women as whores')

So I was having a nice chat with a doctor on OLD, all seemed well, then we chatted briefly about religion and he said he had a strict religious asian background, but how that all changed when he "found booze and white women" and became 'spiritual'. Then when I called him out on it (just with an innocent sounding "white women?" reply) he said he was "joking" yet STILL proceeded to 'joke' how "white women have loose sexual morals" and said he got horny and rebelled from his religion because he wanted to "sample the forbidden fruit". GROSS!!!???

But omg he's jOKinG so CHiLl and said to me how he's a 'hyper liberal hippie-esque ex Christian' which is why it's SUCH a funny and ironic JOKEEE and "if you have this delicate a humour, then we're definitely not a match mate". WOW.

I would never make racial comments/'jokes' about any group? ESPECIALLY in the context of dating. ESPECIALLY in my first few messages to someone? It just makes you sound gross and objectifying.

I don't know if this is more a British thing, where we're brought up to not really discuss race and see everyone equally (and yes, being 'colour blind' has it's own issues...) whereas the US seems more open about it. But in Britain, the attitude of 'white girls are whores' has become more prevalent and has repeatedly been the justification IN COURT from pedophile rape gangs to traffic and rape 10,000s of white young girls over the past decade. Maybe I should just take the 'joke' but the ramifications are anything but funny. Incels et al. are also very keen to give the same reason for why they cannot get 'don't want' western women.

When people make racist jokes so quickly and easily, it shows their open association and their internalised racism. This guy even said how 'that attitude was definitely true in my old community... but I'm lIBerAL now'. People don't quickly shake the attitudes they grow up with.

Whenever people have these attitudes, it shows that they just see the race, and what it means sexually (madonna/whore), rather than the person. Incels and gamers fetishise Japanese women and black women are treated awfully by men/society.

Bonus tip: if someone has the 'white women are whores' JOKE attitude, that means they will very likely see white women as 'toys' (or 'forever girlfriends' at most) but will settle down and marry someone 'respectful' from their own race, so do watch out for that too. The same can happen with Christian men dating atheist women but wanting 'the Christian wife'.

Oh also, politically, I have always found the 'super hippie liberal' types to be the MOST sexist and disrespectful towards me. Could it be that they promote LibFem so hard because women giving them free easy sex might be in men's interests???? Even Marxist guy friends have essentially prude shamed me for NOT sleeping around.

It's all sad :(