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[β]Maiden_AyawolfThrowaway Account121 points122 points123 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
It took a while, but I will be damned if I comfort a man who's hurt because I called him out on how he hurt me.
It's so odd. They get apologetic and hell, even if they mean it, why am I the one comforting you for you finally regretting your behavior? Nonsense!
[β]HaveNoIdeaWhatToPickFDS Newbie[S] 33 points34 points35 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The fact that he at least apologized is already a lot lol. I barely get even that. It's always turning the whole situation against me. No matter what he does it's always everybody else's fault but not his.
[β]SpaceC4seFDS Newbie18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's literally never their fault.
[β]ENTJ-MEDThrowaway Account13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. I hate it when they act like hurting you broke them do they don't get completely dragged. Like dude, own ur shit and shut tf up. If you really sad cuz u hurt me, go mourn that by YOSELF
[β]CrazyPaineFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I dealt with an ex like this and he got upset because I pointed out that he hurt me continuously over and over again. Whenever he was done with hurting me he would then try to justify it like I was the one who made him do it.
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[β]notreallyhere123456FDS Newbie92 points93 points94 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My ex did that. I didnβt have a baby, I simply moved away as a mutual decision. First he told me that βporn was my best friendβ as it would help him to not cheat on me. Then he cheated on me and blamed me for not being understand of his cock needs.
[β]SpaceC4seFDS Newbie46 points47 points48 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If they outline a strategy to avoid cheating, they will cheat anyway. Always
[β]melonmagellanFDS Newbie75 points76 points77 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I don't know why men think we will want to fuck anyone who calls us gross, fat, etc.
How stupid can they actually be?
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[β]hilariouslystatedFDS Newbie189 points190 points191 points 3 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
He said you post-partum body was "gross"? This is exactly why every man does not even deserve the RIGHT to reproduce.
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[β]Watchyourback1121FDS Newbie85 points86 points87 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am so sorry you had to go through this, it breaks my heart.
[β][deleted] 82 points83 points84 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Iβm a firm believer in manipulating these guys into paying for plastic surgery βto look good for themβ & then discarding them. I know the FDS way prob would be to just tell them to go fuck themselves, but I am who I am lol.
[β]SirCrowDevoidOfCornFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He said that? Oh honey I am so sorry. I hope you are doing better now.
[β]Lily618FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OmG horrible
[β]skyerippaFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Please tell me hes not the father of your baby
[β]SpaceC4seFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You speak nothing but facts
[β]sashimi_girlFDS Newbie92 points93 points94 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Idk where men got the idea that BIRTHING A HUMAN is easy and doesnβt change your body at all??? Let alone that you should be able to find time to βsnap backβ to your pre-baby body when youβre literally still ripped apart
[β]CocoaangelFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
celebrities and their team of surgeons, and/or surrogates.
[β]CarmelPeachFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Since men are such fixers couldnβt he have gotten you plastic surgery, a faja maybe? Even just spa treatments/ skin treatments to help you bounce back?
[β]Sakurablossom90FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Did you and I date the same guy??
[β]shaquielle0atmealFDS Newbie109 points110 points111 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm all too familiar with this
[β]MargotteLFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Aren't we all...
[β]bluedreamdreamFDS Newbie54 points55 points56 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
My ex blamed me for making him "react." Essentially it was my fault for his abusive behavior π
[β]SpaceC4seFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Glad you counter-reacted by leaving his ass
[β]bluedreamdreamFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Heck yeah!
[β]keeponkeepingup8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I had this too. He could turn absolutely ANYTHING around onto me.
[β]bluedreamdreamFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Those people lack empathy. It drove me insane before i realized what was happening.
[β]Optimal_Grapefruit_5FDS Newbie43 points44 points45 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmfao an ex blamed me for making him feel like dead weight in the relationship. He was dead weight and he came to that realization all on his own.
[β]BellaMobFDS Apprentice142 points143 points144 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Many men truly have a great talent for gaslighting.
[β]2340000Ruthless Strategist30 points31 points32 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men are sadistic sociopaths. Gaslighting women gives them pleasure. It makes them feel powerful and lets them ignore the reality that they're subpar. It may sound cliche, but people who are secure in themselves and who are truly good have no desire to mistreat others.
[β]4everdoeFDS Newbie106 points107 points108 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Iβve learned not to underestimate men period. They are capable of anything really. Even if they promise to love you, they may turn right around and feed you to the wolves.
[β]Random1928591844 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Itβs often the men who say they love you who are the most dangerous too :(
[β]4everdoeFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That fact just makes the whole thing even more sad. One must always be questioning whom they can trust.
[β]jchvrxo_FDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex of 7.5 years cheated on me twice, maybe more, God knows, but it was βmy faultβ I became insecure & jealous. The only fault I had was staying after he first cheated on me, and not packing up my bags.
[β]ThrowRA745318FDS Newbie31 points32 points33 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yup. My ex called me "difficult" for wanting basic respect and asking that he didn't continuously put me down and neg me. Never his fault. Always me being too sensitive about something that "other girlfriends" had never had a problem with.
He'd always say "do you really think I'm being serious" as if I was somehow stupid by being hurt by a man I was dating insulting me under the guise of "just a joke".
[β]mourningxdoveFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's exactly what I went through, it's horrible.
[β]ThrowRA745318FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm sorry you went through this too. It really is horrible and it just wears you down.
[β][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I abso-fuckin-lutely cannot understand how Chris 'Woman-Beatin- Brown hasn't been cancelled as hard as R Kelly. It blows my mind. Like everyone is cool with how evil he is?
[β]enigmaticHOEFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ahhh I feel this so much
[β]aqua_not_capriFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seriously. They will have you think you're own eyes have deceived you. That you're crazy and need therapy. Don't do it!
[β]Northern_LMT10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had an ex cheat- he had a threesome while we were dating. I only found out after we'd broken up for other reasons and he was trying to win me back. His excuse- I didn't want to have a threesome so he was trying to respect my wishes.
[β]robinbyrdy7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it's your fault that i'm physically and mentally abusing you (not that i'm doing that, but i'm saying if i was) and completely forgot your birthday because you're crazy and mentally unstable, so i have no other choice but to treat you like trash, duh
[β]yourscreennamesucksFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, they can only try. I will never feel guilty for their mistakes. They do try hard though.
[β]KzunzhFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
when I was sexually assaulted he told me it was my fault for making it look like i wanted it and for the longest time I believed him, I'm so glad I found this sub
[β]Street_Narwhal_3361FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex told me it was my fault he drank cause I was pregnant. Have fun living in your basement apartment and your dead end job, shit balls.
[β]HornetKickFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. I had a friend whose boyfriend cheated on her and blamed her for his dick slipping into someone else. I could never understand it and it's been over 10 years.
[β]areyoureadykidss4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
too real.
[β]texasmushiequeen3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hah. I never feel guilty for his dumb ass mistakes. Thatβs on him.
[β]mourningxdoveFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My ex was planning on cheating on me and the only way I found out was because the girl sent me the screen shots. It came out that I was sexualy assaulted many years ago and I became numb and I mentally shut down for a while. My ex said this is the reason he was going to cheat because he didn't feel loved. Here I am speaking to professionals and going through one of the roughest times in my life and he goes and makes it about him. Here I am traumatised and disgusted by my body and because I'm physically not showing him love, he was the nerve to blame me after everything I'm going through. It gets even better, he then says he is suicidal and regrets it, I come running to the rescue to make it all better. Never again!!!
[β]HaveNoIdeaWhatToPickFDS Newbie[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow what an asshole, absolutely zero empathy. If he was so unhappy he could just leave.. Oh I forgot that men are incapable of controlling their urges so it's always woman's fault lol. Anyways, he should have been honest about the whole situation and also try to understand your struggle. There is no excuse for him to lie like that.
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[β]Maiden_AyawolfThrowaway Account121 points122 points123 points (5 children) | Copy Link
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