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Wife asked about using a rabbit vibrator.

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February 4, 2020
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This has me perplexed. I find a vibrator kinky, but I am torn.

What is other men's experience with Vibrators within marriage ?

As rolo said, don't believe shit you read about women articles, as it is some nasty women writing to encourage something bad.... and I read nothing but positive articles.

Story: My wife have a very low libido, she never masturbates and is pretty open and honest about that and general.

I have been discretely pushing ways to increase her sex drive.

Likewise, I have been trying to discover her gspot. She has never squirted, and is uncomfortable with the sensation of her gspot.

I told her we need to do it every other day, and she agreed.

I told her I read mastubation for women can increase female libido.

When he have sex, she always climaxes, but through clitoral stimulation.

When I finger the G, or use dick on the g, she doesn't like it.

So today she mentioned a vibrator, specifically a rabbit. I checked it out, it looks fun, but wow does that take a hit to my manhood. Makes men look replaceable.

So my questions:

  1. Should I say yes to this vibrator?
  2. Can it help her discover pleasure from her gspot?
  3. Is their marital problems where the perfer a vibrator, secretly use it, and decrease intercourse ?

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Title Wife asked about using a rabbit vibrator.
Author MassiveLeftist
Upvotes 10
Comments 65
Date 04 February 2020 10:20 AM UTC (8 months ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/329586
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/eyo21f/wife_asked_about_using_a_rabbit_vibrator/
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[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret29 points30 points  (15 children) | Copy

My wife have a very low libido

All I needed to know.

This has everything to do with you and how unattractive and insecure you are, and nothing to do with a vibrator.

Sidebar.

[–]Cam_Winston218 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy

Stood out to me, as well.

Plus:

When he have sex, she always climaxes, but through clitoral stimulation.

My man, read up on some David Shade stuff. Your wife has a low libido because you/her are doing one and only one thing to get her off.

The day I introduced my wife to a vaginal wall orgasm via the "spiderman method" followed by another orgasm on the rear vaginal wall via the "reverse come hither method", she begged to empty my ball sack into her mouth instead of having sex because her nerve endings were too tender & engorged.

You're being lazy, come on, clitoral climaxes are for quickies.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

While other types of orgasms are great and add variety, clitoral only orgasms are not a direct correlation to low libido or lack of variety. Plenty of fun and variety to be had there.

Just stating the obvious for some autists here that are planning on going all crazy with 10 fingers and an air compressor spreading her like the Grand Canyon in hopes of being great in bed and eliciting desire.

[–]Cam_Winston213 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fair points.

Plenty of fun and variety to be had there.

His wife ain't cumming via the variety to be had, per his post.

Just saying, if the only way my wife made me cum was was jacking me off (aka, "hurry up and get it over with"), I'd still be interested but certainly not as much as I am with all the other options on the table. Plus, after several days, my dick would get sore. Anecdotal, but after two days in a row of clit-stim, my wife is usually not down for day 3 due to tenderness.

[–]primordialawe0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

What’s the Spider-Man method? I found something online for reverse come hither (which looks like come hither but upside down and uses the knuckles?), but not that one.

[–]Cam_Winston210 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Come hither with both the ring & middle fingers, like Spider-Man shooting his web. More area to rub the vaginal wall.

[–]Tyred_Biggums4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy

My wife have a very low libido

/thread

Women only have low libido's for shitty men. Then they're like horny teenagers for Chad's cock.

[–]hack3geRed Beret3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy

My wife actually wants sex more than I do now - thank god someone invented cialis because I’m not sure I could keep up otherwise.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

My, how the tables have turned? Makes two of us. 5mg daily, because it's a gift to a woman who adds great value. Woman gets so sad if it's more than 24 hrs.

[–]Tyred_Biggums7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

You guys and your duty sex.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well, I like enchiladas and she makes some good ones.

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Haha touché - I know what duty sex is and I now know from gym chick what it’s like when a woman just has to have your cock - the wife’s somewhere in the middle. Seems reasonable after being together for 15+ years.

It’s different - I’ve determined it’s neither better nor worse just different.

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s because it’s validation sex for them - good for a woman, not good for a man.

It’s quite an interesting reversal of the dynamic. Her sole means of feeling comfort in the relationship is from sex now - go figure.

[–]part_wolf1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

It has to be someone else's fault; otherwise it's his fault and we can't have that now, can we?

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds awfully familiar to the way women and faggots think, doesn't it?

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

/u/HornsOfApathy - On fire - in the zone.

[–]hack3geRed Beret28 points29 points  (4 children) | Copy

You give too many fucks faggot.

When I first started my wife had never even touched herself, hated the idea of toys and actually threw one out that I bought.

I was a giant faggot and now that I’m not guess what - she loves all that shit. She jammed a stick up dildo on the shower glass when she was away on business and sent me the video. She loves the butt plugs I got her (thanks /u/red-sfpplus for that recommendation) and will come to bed wearing them. She also plays with herself while she sucks my cock.

A dildo isn’t going to make your wife want to fuck you - not being a faggot will do that.

[–]JoeBuckYourslf6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

OP’s new flair, “Cucked by The Rabbit”

[–]TimeToDigDown0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Butt plugs and Shibari are Fucking Awesome. Lot more fun to be had once we loosened the fuck up.

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I haven’t gotten into the ropes yet seems complicated - we have a pair of silicone handcuffs that she likes.

I like to throw stuff out and see what sticks - there were some things I thought I’d be into but wasn’t.

[–]TimeToDigDown0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ropes are easy. But practice before you implement so you're not left holding your cock. If you both like it, it's going too be a lot of fun. Be fun.

[–]part_wolf11 points12 points  (4 children) | Copy

What, are you worried that the vibrator is a gateway drug to swallowing Chad’s cock? Sounds like a massive lack of abundance with a side of oneitis to me.

[–]DuffBude7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Do you really think that a vibrator is the solution to your wife's low sex drive? Are you 100% positive that it has nothing to do with you? It sounds to me like a band-aid for a larger problem

[–]MassiveLeftistCucked by Machines 2.0-3 points-2 points  (1 child) | Copy

No, not a solution, I am trying to explore our interests. She mentioned thia... at first... cool? Then reflecting.... what are long term effects.

[–]DuffBude2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Again, why does she have a low sex drive? It could have something to do with you. Have you read the sidebar?

[–]nantucketghost7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shit man, say yes. Surprised you haven't bought her one yet. My wife has had one for ages. I bought it for her. She will use it to get herself off while sucking me off, or every now and then while I'm in her. I'll get her all worked up and tell her to get her vibrator that way when I'm in her she gets off real damn quick.

We had a rabbit a while back and she enjoyed it, but it didn't last long. She would rather have me in her while using her toy.

So get the rabbit, but get a nice simple vibrator also, you'll find a lot more use for that.

When she's orgasming with you, she'll correlate you with those good feelings. Sex is fun. Go have some fun with it all. You're overthinking this.

[–]teabagabeartrap4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

My cents to this:

men: the less we do it, the more we want it

women: the more they do it, the more they want it

if you got clear boundaries, I would encourage the use.

Maybe.. tell her about the "we vibe" and do it together.

[–]InChargeManRed Beret3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

Mods, can we give two users the "cucked by machines" flair?

[–]SoggyTrainCucked by machines7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Fuck off that is MY flair.

[–]InChargeManRed Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

No worries, OP is now a better version of you.

[–]SoggyTrainCucked by machines1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Probably.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Damn OG cucked by machines made an appearance.

[–]Rogue684862 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Vibrator should enhance your relationship. If you're worried about being replaced. That's a different problem.

[–]IOwnMyShit2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m sorry for your loss. Mr. Rabbit will take it from here.

[–]BlackFire682 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cracks me up when men are worried about their women masturbating like they haven’t been every second day since age 13

[–]RicoDunne1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

you must be a troll.... "massiveleftist" is your name and then proceed to ask about vibrator insecurity.

[–]EasyDaysHardNights1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Makes men look replaceable

Don't fear the toy, be Chad.

... just doesn't have the same ring to it.

[–]RoccoPinkman1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Love the flair.

[–]fannyfire1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She doesn’t have a low libido you dunce. She wants a vibrator but has a low libido. Say that to yourself out loud.

She wants to be sexually stimulated but not by you.

Do you get it?

You don’t give her the feels. She is resorting to a toy because she can’t get it from you. This is all on you. It’s not her libido. If her libido was the issue she wouldn’t be asking for a vibrator. You are going to be cucked by a machine because you’re too lazy to put in the work to be an attractive male.

[–]HeckleandChide1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Ok, I’m secretly convinced that u/red-sfpplus gets bored, makes new accounts, and trolls the fuck out of us sometimes.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

To busy fucking your girl.

[–]HeckleandChide0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Are you the one leaving the toilet seat up? Come on bro.

[–]wkndatbernardus1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cucked by the Trix mascot.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Where’s the “cucked by machines tag” when you need it?

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret[M] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Wish granted. Flair awarded.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not all heroes wear capes.

[–]ricardoost2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

  1. Should I say yes to this vibrator?

Yes.

  1. Can it help her discover pleasure from her gspot?

Yes.

  1. Is their marital problems where the perfer a vibrator, secretly use it, and decrease intercourse ?

Yes, when partners are selfish and do not return the pleasure.

She has never squirted, and is uncomfortable with the sensation of her gspot.

not all women squirt.

but wow does that take a hit to my manhood. Makes men look replaceable.

let her buy it, I guarantee you will like it.

[–]ChokingDownRPRed Beret4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

I guarantee you will like it.

What are you waiting for, OP? You have the internet stranger guarantee.

[–]FoxShitNasty833 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Or your money back*

*Terms and conditions apply

[–]RoccoPinkman0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Use it for 30 days, if your not satisfied send it back.

[–]FoxShitNasty830 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Also available in brown

[–]DonnaB999D1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You’re right not all women squirt. We all CAN squirt, in that we all have the physiological ability to do so. We just don’t all have partners patient enough and confident enough to make it happen. 🎤

[–]entrep40 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

How can you be married to someone and not even know where their G spot is? Do you guys even have sex?

[–]dll1420 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

My wife and I love to use toys in our sex life now and again. However, it isn't the toy that turns her on, it's the anticipation of sex with me that gets her hot. Sidebar and lift.... game her... be attractive. Build the anticipation. A woman's imagination is one of the best "toys" you can use. Start there. Have fun with her.

[–]MassiveLeftistCucked by Machines 2.00 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think this ended up the plan.

Side bar and lift.

The game is missing, and I am starting to understand.

[–]UsefulWalk40 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

My wife have a very low libido

So today she mentioned a vibrator, specifically a rabbit.

Something doesn't add up here?

Makes men me look replaceable.

Now may be you get it.

Couldn't find your OYS posts, only your r/Deadbedrooms stuff, so it's hard to comment what specific type of problems you have.



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