LVMS and “post nut clarity”

OrangeyPanda · 2020-11-30T00:09:15+00:00

Post nut clarity = the natural guilt you should feel after masturbating to someone's abuse or abusing someone during sex.

People in loving relationships with 100% respect for eachother don't experience "disgust" or guilt after having sex. Men are just surprised they have actual empathetic feelings.

alivebut-justbarely · 2020-11-29T22:36:45+00:00

I know it's hard but please remember that most men on reddit are EXTREMELY low value, sex-obsessed, and just plain stupid.

The men I've been in relationships with feel closer to me after sex. They want to cuddle. They don't like it when I get out of bed to go pee or get water and want me to come back as soon as I'm done. A good man will not feel anything but love and affection toward you after sex.

vidaDelColor · 2020-11-29T21:53:00+00:00

I hate it so much because I feel the exact opposite. After having sex, and especially if I orgasm, I feel incredibly close to my partner.

hikurangi2019 · 2020-11-29T22:12:29+00:00

Every time I get with someone new I worry they’ll “post nut clarity” on me. I guess this is why the 3 months rule is so important, it literally weeds out all sorts of assholes. Only men that’s genuinely into you will stick around.

GIfuckingJane · 2020-11-29T21:45:35+00:00

Yes, it's the pornification of our culture and the utter objectification of our bodies

Snoo-77746 · 2020-11-29T22:06:19+00:00

I think masturbating to porn lowers their empathy to women and they cant see as human beings but vending machines to fulfill their disgusting fantasies.

straighthairgreece · 2020-11-29T23:36:18+00:00

These LVM men say stuff like this because deeps down they hate themselves, are dead inside and know that they ain't shit.

Men like these will never experience emotional intimacy, love or happiness. They will constantly seek sex from women or spends hours upon hours watching porn just to feel something.

Women should avoid men like this like the plague. They will suck all your energy.

localgirlcult · 2020-11-30T00:04:54+00:00

It's of course disgusting. However, I have never in my life had this happen. Men have always been affectionate and cuddly even in a friends with benefits situation back when I still thought that was a good idea. You also have to remember who the type of male commenting that is, what reddit attracts when it comes to males specifically. They're not really out there having a lot of sex, they're pretty bitter and kinda gross. Also when they get together in the sad atmosphere males on reddit have created for themselves, this type of LVM bonds through their power fantasies. They're basically either virgins or men who aren't having regular good sex standing in a circle jerking each other off, fantasizing about the sex they're totally having and competing in who's the biggest bad boy(lol). And the final boss bad boy is always the one who cares the least. Meanwhile in real life they'd sell a testicle to get fucked good. Transparent, boring, annoying.

edit - I'm already getting some ruffled feathers. Ouch, did that sting?🤣 Good.

Jiou112 · 2020-11-30T04:45:14+00:00

Men literally change their whole world view/morals after an orgasm.. however women are the ones with no control over emotions or capabilities.. yes men are clearly better meant for power and leadership 🙄

2020-11-29T22:19:37+00:00

I think many people have had similar experiences, including myself. But what's disturbing to me is how freely it is discussed and accepted among men, as if they can be as disgusting/rapey/low-standard-having as long as they shout "post nut clarity!idk what I was thinking man"🤪 ... and go on as if all's cool what they've just confessed to. Women usually get crucified/silently judged for anything similar to that and it's infuriating to say the least.

AllTheBeanToes · 2020-11-29T22:55:49+00:00

I pulled myself off the shelves due to disgusting make proclivities such as this.

I will not be your fool. Not at this age with all that I have going on for myself. You had me when I was down. Now I’m on top and completely unphased by not only their shit but their existence. They are invisible to me now. :)

RadioactiveJoy · 2020-11-30T02:56:40+00:00

I have that? Not the exact scenario but I have like a insanely high libido. I effectively have to have a lot of stops in dates/dating because I know I’m weak that way and I have to masturbate before dates. I’m not making good decisions horny, idk who can. I ended up messing around with people I wouldn’t have normally when I was younger because I didn’t do that and associated attraction with overall compatibility. Wish there was an undo button.

Having rules and things in place to help me stay on track has helped a lot. Do I like them or am I just horny is easily remedied because my needs are being met and I can use the other parts of my brain.

Proud-Purpose · 2020-12-01T04:12:33+00:00

Okay, let me explain to you what happens to males during puberty. If you have a son, hide this comment.

When a man enters sexual maturity, he begins to experience a terrifying loss of control, a dreadful realization that his mind isn't really his, and that whatever "higher brain functions" or "personhood" he may have can be erased in a second by an unwelcome boner. He is a glorified accessory to his nutsack now, nothing more. The way their sexuality works also parallels hard drug addiction almost entirely, desensitization and thrill seeking being a big part of it. Their "moral" compass will vaporize the moment something their higher conscious finds disgusting gets them aroused. That is by design.

Now put yourself in their shoes - do you think you'd have a normal sexuality if this was your nature? Note how male sexuality always comes with palpable resentment towards their objects of desire - you may think that misogyny is the source of it, but it's actually the other way around. Gay male sexuality is every bit as full of this "loathing desire", except it's aimed towards men.

A man's life is thus spent avenging this feeling, because he viscerally sees it as something his object of desire (for straight men it's women) is doing to him to "enslave" him. Post-nut clarity frequently involving regret or hatred is part of this mechanism. Because men are biologically wired to externalize, their defense mechanisms prevent them from coming to terms with the fact that it's their degenerate nature making them fap to disgusting shit, or casually fuck women their "intelligent" selves would consider ugly and un-prestigious. Instead they blame the stimuli they sought, because in their minds they were "possessed" to do it, which does feel this way to them subjectively. Porn being violent is for the most part a fantasy about reassertion of perceived loss of control, a cathartic revenge fantasy.

There's a reason why victim blaming with sexual assault in particular, or teen boys spontaneously becoming extremely misogynistic around puberty is a cross cultural phenomenon. Male sex-resentment is universal, and we haven't even talked about cuckoldry anxiety yet. Did you know that males are hardwired to desire markers of fidelity and promiscuity simultaneously because both are genetically advantageous? Is it really a coincidence that males (especially around puberty) are obsessed with constructing a false dispassionate, ultra-logical self? Is it a coincidence that this theme permeates most of male philosophy?

Tl;dr if mother nature mindfucked you this hard, you'd be batshit crazy too.

complex_answer_22 · 2020-11-30T08:51:06+00:00

I dunno, I've kind of experienced that myself but I know it was my own fault. Even with masturbating, intimacy with another person is completely different. I've almost always waited a while for sex, and after being disappointed in bed, my perception of them changed.

I think it's different for women because men almost always orgasm. A lot of these guys that do this are just using a woman's body to masturbate. Whereas I really liked them and for some reason built up this fantasy that they'd finally be the guy to be a sex God and ravish me in bed. After seeing their selfishness, the rose colored glasses came off.

GrapeJuiceEnthusiast · 2020-11-30T11:18:31+00:00

How can they always talk about being the rational/logical gender when they experience something called "post-nut clarity"? Smh

throwawaynevermindit · 2020-11-30T21:39:53+00:00

"Post-nut clarity" is clarity you would have had "pre-nut" if your goal was to be clear and not just to "nut." (What a gross way to put it though. 🤢 )

IME a lot of men have some strange combination of sexual guilt and repression and sexual compulsion.... they act on the compulsion and then project the guilt/desired repression onto the person who had sex with them. This is one result.

Title	LVMS and “post nut clarity”
Author	Ok_Ad_67
Upvotes	235
Comments	37
Date	November 29, 2020 4:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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