So last night...
I came home with a bouquet of flowers, chocolates/cake and afterward I also gave my wife back/foot rubs.
Context|
Earlier in the day, the wife got bitten by a dog at her work.
A Coworker decided to bring in her vicious dog, that has bitten and attacked other coworkers before.
My wife being new, did not know of this and upon trying to pet the dog, got bitten and pretty badly.
The Coworker took no responsibility and shifted the blame to my wife and yelled at her!
(How you bring a dog to the workplace, that is known to attack, has attacked before, and you bring it in without a muzzle; Is beyond me... But for some reason my wife and I are the idiots for voicing this?)
Moving on.
The wife called me in hysteria over being yelled at by the Coworker and being made like it was her own fault for being bitten.
My wife isn't one to cry and she was crying like crazy. A level of emotion I hardly ever see.
The bite was also pretty bad, so she was also expressing her pain on the bite and accentuating it.
Comfort|
Going off of what I read from these phenomenal forums, I went right into the "treat your spouse like a child" mode...
Hence the flowers (with a get well balloon/joke), the chocolates/cake she likes and the added back/foot rubs - to help calm her down and show her that I can indeed provide comfort and am Mr. Sensitive.
(Laughing in her face, telling her to rub dirt on it and to now come blow me as her lips aren't affected - might have also worked, but this is our wives we are talking about... We need to provide some level of emotional comfort, right :P)
But|
Providing that type of comfort can be seen as BETA and she could begin to think less of me in the raw sexual aspect, despite she really needing that level of comfort. (Women, right!)
To combat this... I posted a quick video of me squatting 4 plates for reps (which I had just done before coming home), that I know her thirsty little siblings/friends/orbiters of mine would jump all over, instilling a nice level of dread. (Nothing works better, IMO, then your woman's siblings/closest friends dying to fuck you which she of course, knows all about!)
I also when home, paraded around in nothing but my underwear - lifted her off her feet several times - and during the back/foot rubs, roughed it up a little by scratching her deeply and 'animaling' it up a little (which works wonders by the way.)
End result|
I was railing her on the couch, her head planted deep within the cushions.
This isn't a 'brag' story, more so a taken what I have read/learned from TRP and spinning it my own way, in ways that work specifically for me.
Thanks to these forums and all the discussions and advice and etc, I am able to generally pass whatever is thrown at me with A+++ grade/results!
TLDR: Wife was emotional, provided emotional support whilst also turning up the raw Alpha tactics at the same time - in order to make sure that loss of frame/weakness/etc does not get shown.
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