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Ex-gf nails every red-pill cliche in the book

by slay_it_forward | September 12, 2015 | TheRedPill

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I discovered TRP about a year after breaking up with my ex-gf and looking back, it's amazing how she exuded every single red-pill truism. I wanted to list them all out as a way to cover all the red-flags that might pop up in your own relationships:

  • Grade A attention whore. She would dress provocatively. She would talk sexually. She would flirt endlessly. In summary, she would use her sexuality to gain attention from men, meanwhile depriving me of her vagina. Which leads to my next point...

  • Claimed her low libido was the reason for never wanting to have sex. "I find you really attractive, I just have a low sex drive. Maybe it's the birth control I'm on." Of course, the real reason was that I was a really good boyfriend (aka beta) and she was completely repulsed by me. This was in spite of the fact that everything else was on point. I was ripped, had a high paying career, big social circle. Didn't matter. Beta behavior trumps all when it comes to drying up the pussy.

  • 100% addicted to her smart phone. On FB several hundred times per day. Texting people non stop.

  • Had slut friends. Never donned on me at the time but every single one of her friends was a slut. The worst one she teamed up with at the end of the relationship was 28 and had never been in a serious relationship but was on Tinder and going out to bars four nights a week getting banged by any guy that registered as alpha in her warped mind. She pulled my ex away from me to join her in her degenerate lifestyle. Fucking cunt.

  • She was calling all the shots. I was just along for the ride providing her with comfort and security, hoping to get laid once in a while. The relationship is doomed when the man isn't the one steering the ship.

  • Rode the CC prior to me. Had already fucked 13 guys at age 21. Again, at the time, this didn't register to me as a big deal. While still BP I thought to myself, "eh she's young just expressing her sexuality. No big deal. She loves me." LOL.

  • Had been Alpha Widowed. She had dated a helicopter pilot in her hometown that took her on a month long trip to Australia but dumped her while they were still there to fuck other girls. She flew back to Canada alone. She brought him up multiple times while we were together.

  • Has 2 cats.

  • Career obsessed. Has a degree in communications and works for a public relations company. She's basically a professional emailer but this is what she thinks makes her life important, not having a family.

  • She doesn't want kids. That would make her have to sacrifice her most important thing of all - her body. Her body is her meal ticket to the attention whoring. She'd also have to sacrifice her precious office drone career, riding big dicks, getting shit-faced drunk multiple times per week, going to festivals, watching Sex and the City re-runs.

  • Has every Sex and The City season on DVD.

  • Suggested an open relationship so she could ride cock guilt free while continuing to deprive me of sex. The is the best of both worlds for women. She gets her BB to provide the emotional comfort and security while going out to get pumped relentlessly by a wide variety schlong.

  • Had a fuck ton of orbiters.

  • Worked at a restaurant for several years.

  • Once I finally got the balls to move out she came crawling back, only to get pumped and dumped by me this time.

Think that just about covers all them.

The one weird thing about all of this is that you would assume she came from a broken family, but nope, good parents, very stable/normal family life. Her brother is a cool guy but totally beta. It seems this is what modern society produces. Career women and beta men. The future doesn't look bright.


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Title Ex-gf nails every red-pill cliche in the book
Author slay_it_forward
Upvotes 240
Comments 145
Date 12 September 2015 06:04 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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[–]McLarenX138 points139 points  (19 children) | Copy

Once I finally got the balls to move out she came crawling back, only to get pumped and dumped by me this time.

this made me feel warm and fuzzy

[–]1commentatorX33 points34 points  (17 children) | Copy

It's really funny. Probably not very healthy, but virtually every RP journey I've come across (my own included) involves a nice, smug nail&bail on 'the woman that drove me here' etc. I don't even care that it was degenerative, I wanted that vindication on my ex.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's really funny. Probably not very healthy

Revenge is a satisfying motivator, no one will deny that.

But aspire to see the day when you don't care. Bitches in the past are just that - in the past. You don't get to your destination by looking in the rear view mirror the whole drive.

When revenge loses its sweetness, everything else becomes so much sweeter.

[–]Throwaway96653 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

virtually every RP journey I've come across (my own included) involves a nice, smug nail&bail on 'the woman that drove me here' etc

Nah, not me. My old saggy-titted whore is fat and used-up now. I wouldn't bang her with a borrowed dick.

[–]1commentatorX2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I wouldn't bang her with a borrowed dick.

So good I put it in my little black book of stolen witticisms.

[–]BardCollege_Dropout8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

I think I just fullow swallowed the pill after reading this. Holy fuck.

[–]StrokeGameHusky0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Do some of these red flags sound familiar?

I would never date a woman (again) who watches sex and the city religiously and works at a restaurant.

Sex and the city glorifies whore behavior/ hook up culture

And if you have ever worked in a restaurant you would know "everybody fucks everybody"

If I wrote about my first and last ex and all the red flags my plugged in self glossed over it would be triple this length.

[–]1ErasmusOrgasmus1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've seriously contemplated doing the same to my ex, albeit just for shits and giggles rather than vindictiveness since I broke up with her 4 years ago now and really don't bear any ill will towards her. Problem is, she got fat. Legit not sure if she'd pass the boner test.

[–]Miniducky0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Pretty much just finished that mission. Now on to better plates.

[–]spunk_wizard-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Same here. Ignored her texts for a few weeks then simply texted her "I want you to come over tonight. And wear some nice panties for me"

Her response? "You're unbelievable. I'm not disposable."

That was yesterday afternoon. In the following 8 hours I fucked her 9 times, and she's coming back over tonight for anal (she begged me to do this to her after mentioning it this morning. She claims to not have had it before)

Really pleased with the results so far but I don't want to get carried away here - the last thing I want is to be in a relationship with this crazy lady again. How do RPillers recommend I proceed?

[–]1commentatorX3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Simple man: you keep yourself unattainable, and keep thinking of her as disposable. Just treat her as a plate until she crashes, or drop off the face of her planet again(no contact), leave her high and dry etc. Either way her tingles will shoot into overdrive, even if she gets a new bf in the meantime, trust me.

A caveat however :- There is a degree of comfort and familiarity with ex-sex that makes catching feels (again) high risk - so pay attention to reminders of all those times you were sick of her shit, all those times you wished you were single, and so on. The buzz you're currently on will fizzle out twice as quick as it would with an entirely new girl. You will find, the true path is to move onwards and upwards.

[–]spunk_wizard0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

great advice, thank you. Will be sure to reflect on those moments, and not let the amazing sex I have with her (best of my life thus far without a doubt) cloud my mentality.

[–]cR3dd1t3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree. Don't we like it when movies and stories end that way...

[–]Endorsed ContributorUrsusG72 points73 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good report with 20/20 hindsight, however your final assumption isn't weird at all.

The family doesn't need to be broken to produce this kind of woman.

This kind of woman 'emerges' when society simply stops restraining hypergamy and starts supporting women in doing what lizard brain tells them to do all along.

That, plus some modern day bullshit about how a career in emailing will make you happy in the long term.

Grammar nazi:

Never donned on me

It's 'dawned on me'.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This kind of woman 'emerges' when society simply stops restraining hypergamy and starts supporting women in doing what lizard brain tells them to do all along.

Seriously, I don't know where it happened; but the term "liberal" somewhere down the line got mixed up with the definition for "trashy". As well as conservative with "racist". Maybe it's just the signs of the times in US/western culture (to my knowledge, US isn't the only place where women are turning to complete fucking trash bags.)

[–]1CowardlyPetrov53 points54 points  (12 children) | Copy

Claimed her low libido was the reason for never wanting to have sex. "I find you really attractive, I just have a low sex drive. Maybe it's the birth control I'm on." Of course, the real reason was that I was a really good boyfriend (aka beta) and she was completely repulsed by me. This was in spite of the fact that everything else was on point. I was ripped, had a high paying career, big social circle. Didn't matter. Beta behavior trumps all when it comes to drying up the pussy.

I liked your post, but I feel like this part needs to be repeated for a lot of guys.

And also...

The one weird thing about all of this is that you would assume she came from a broken family, but nope, good parents, very stable/normal family life. Her brother is a cool guy but totally beta. It seems this is what modern society produces. Career women and beta men. The future doesn't look bright.

Are beta parents good parents? I think not. I think they only appear good because you've been conditioned to believe soft and weak is good. The path may be paved with good intentions, but wherever I see weak parents I also see bad parents.

[–]AnnFranklyMyDear42 points43 points  (2 children) | Copy

I agree. I came from a middle class family, fairly well off, both parents were there, but I was still raised to be beta as fuck. Both my brothers are beta and terrible with women. I mostly put it down to my Dad's total lack of input, we might as well have been raised by a single Mom.

My point being that stable family and upbringing doesn't guarantee emotionally healthy adults.

[–]Trpidation12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

we might as well have been raised by a single Mom.

No More Mr. Nice Guy explains this one. I had the same thing in my family. My dad is actually pretty RP but was never around because he was working so I basically was just raised by a single mom.

[–]holytrpbatman-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have two brothers, we all grew up under a single mother. We grew up having to out-alpha each other so much, we were able to get over the beta training mother was attempting to instill in us (hers was very overt- she didn't even realize what she was trying to create in us, just trying to make us 'nice boys'). I am certain that if dad had been around, and being the beta provider he is, the three of us would be much different today....

[–]Op2mus 3 points3 points [recovered] | Copy

Just an FYI certain birth control methods really can completely erase a women's sex drive. I have seen it personally with the Nuva ring and two of my other friends had the same experience. If you google it you'll find tons of stories where broads mention it totally killed their sex drive.

Sounds like your ex was already out seeking male attention so she was probably just lying and wanted to fuck other men.

[–]Throwaway96650 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Copper IUDs. No hormones, last 5+ years, very low chance of pregnancy. Hurts like a bitch to get them put in, so let her have a no-penetration day after she gets it inserted.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

you'll find tons of stories where broads mention it totally killed their sex drive.

Women said it? Probably not true then.

[–]Op2mus 4 points4 points [recovered] | Copy

Normally I would agree. But I'm telling you I've watched it happen with my own eyes.

Girl was wanting to fuck almost every night, then she went on the Nuva ring and was never, ever horny. This went on for a few months and I told her to take the damn thing out or I'm not seeing her anymore. Things went almost immediately back to the way they were before.

Same thing happened to one of my good buddies, that's where I first heard about it and I did my own research online after hearing his story.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ahh.... a guy is saying it now. Could be true then :)

[–]lightfire4093 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Its a medically known fact that BC can reduce libido. That said, i'm still extremely suspicious whenever a women claims it, because if that were true, they could switch BC.

[–]unassumingusername73 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yea, it's just like a "headache". Possible, but bullshit more often than not.

[–]M3_Drifter1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Are beta parents good parents? I think not.

My parents were the most beta passive-agressive people of all time. I didn't exactly turn out all right.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedPillDad51 points52 points  (16 children) | Copy

She doesn't want kids. That would make her have to sacrifice her most important thing of all - her body.

Close, the thing she cares about most is lifestyle. She NEVER wants to downgrade that. And once she's tasted the best of Party World, it's hard to settle for a domesticated, suburban mommy lifestyle.

Provider Guy offers security/survival value, but she doesn't care about that because she already has her mediocre job to sustain survival basics.

Lifestyle Guy is who she seeks. Confidence, freedom and expression of passion, rather than protection and support.

Many young women party their asses off fully expecting they'll eventually land a HOT GUY offering a free ticket to a jet-setter lifestyle... Many have lost their femininity and seductive skills. Dressing and acting slutty is the extent of typical Girl Game... Many don't know how to cook, and are proud of being 'liberated' from domestic chores.

There's a myth that a girl just has to be cute and sexually skilled and she can land any HV Guy she wants... She can have sex with them, and can temporarily boost her lifestyle through sexual transaction - getting free trips, meals, parties, and such... But for quality men, there's a distinct difference between the girls they bed and the ones they wed.

It's not the cock accumulation that corrupt a woman; it's her Party World experiences - drugs, booze, sex and unlimited indulgence. All she needs to bring is a her hot body and Party Girl promiscuity. She develops absurdly high expectations of what a guy should bring to the table.

She thinks she can return to "normal" but she can't undo her mindfuck. With an excess of fat, sass and notches to her credit, she becomes a poor candidate for LTR and unsuitable as a mother.

[–]Tman569122 points23 points  (2 children) | Copy

A woman who doesn't bring more than sex to the table doesn't get more than sex in return. You'll get back what you can put in.

[–]razorwan1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

They get money in return, thanks to the misandry of the current legal system.

[–]TyPerfect0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My wife is putting me thorough school. Then again, we have know each other since we were 12 and I have trained her since we started college to be the right kind of wife. Also dread game.

[–]mrrooftops8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

The male equivalent is the guy in the band at school who think he IS going to make it. 20 years later he's busking for a dime on the subway still believing the delusion.

[–]1commentatorX4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is why ANY cohab appears to be less and less viable. I'm not in any hurry, but have been on the lookout for 'a decent woman' for almost three years now. I don't want to have to say "no women meet my LTR/marriage/family-building standards" but sure enough, wether its in the first ten minutes, or after ten months; one by one they disqualify themselves, again and again. Don't compromise your approval matrix!

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedPillDad3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

A lot of hot women are damaged goods beneath pretty packaging. They've mastered the succubus-ho lifestyle. Can't really blame them, they just doll up and give in to all the free shit being offered.

Guys just need to be more discerning, and understand that hotness can be a red flag regarding corruption of character.

[–]Throwaway96650 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, but it's hard to want to commit to a less-pretty one. It's much easier to look at an 8 and say, "Yeah, that's the last pussy I'll ever get." It's much harder to say that to a 6, no matter how great she is in every other way.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (5 children) | Copy

These kinds of women have hard falls when they hit the wall.

The Wile E Coyote she'll experience will be epic. OP should check back in a few years just to have a good laugh.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedPillDad10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah, some get their soft landing when they find a soft beta simp with resources. But the siren's call to Party World calls them.

I've seen middle-age woman abandon their families to chase a better lifestyle. One wild weekend to Vegas or Miami is enough to irreparably crack them.

[–]noobforlife 12 points12 points [recovered] | Copy

That happened to my ex. Her mother in her mid-40s wanted to experience that party world again. The biggest influence was her circle of single girl friends. She saw them divorcing their husbands and enjoying that single life and wanted to join them.

She ended up getting a boob job, going on trips with her single friends to exotic places. It was fun for a time, but now she's living in a shitty apartment with no prospects for a relationship and is bitter. I don't understand how she could have been so delusional as to expect her life to improve after doing that. A woman in her (now) 50s who is estranged from her kids and single is not a good time. Last thing I heard is that she was depressed and wanted to get back with her ex husband.

[–]Throwaway96652 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

For the first year or two after divorce: men are depressed, women are elated.

After that: the man is happy with his freedom, the woman is bitter because her divorce prizes are running out and she has to actually work for a living.

There's a reason a lot of divorced men remarry, and a lot of divorced women do not. You'd think it would be even, sex ratios being even after all, but it isn't. http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2014/11/14/chapter-2-the-demographics-of-remarriage/#gender-gap-in-remarriage

[–]RemyPrice0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I have one girl in particular I'm keeping an eye on.

She's a self-proclaimed "Heart Breaker". And, she just passed 33.

The wall is going to fuck her up SO BAD.

grabs popcorn

[–]qtyapa0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There's a myth that a girl just has to be cute and sexually skilled and she can land any HV Guy she wants... She can have sex with them, and can temporarily boost her lifestyle through sexual transaction - getting free trips, meals, parties, and such... But for quality men, there's a distinct difference between the girls they bed and the ones they wed.

I think they just want a beta guy for survival and security, for fun they just have to go to near by bar.

[–]aazav25 points26 points  (11 children) | Copy

Sex and The City is simply fucking horrible. It's crack for women and makes them more horrible because they now see people getting away with how they want to be and are more inclined to actually act the ways they see in the series.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

I remember in elementary when I found that dvd on top of the dvd player. I was so excited to see what I thought would be my first porno, but the only nudity I saw was a guy's penis. Very dissapointing.

[–]bluedrygrass2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

There even was a panis on display? I too, back then, watched the late night episodes in my thirst for sexual things (no internet back then), but i never even saw a nipple.

Everything sexual is just implied, and only for laughts or for depressing reasoning, wich can kill boners pretty fast.

There's no sex in "Sex" and the city, only slutty harpies giggling over anyone else's defects but their ones.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

I read somewhere that Sex And The City is the main reason China is changing. The upper class women got their hands on it and passed them around. Now they want to have their cake and eat it too.

[–]dazed1114 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

I would love to read that. Do you have a source for that?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That was a while ago but I just did a search and came up with this interesting information.

In repressive places such as Singa-pore and China, which banned Sex and the City, women passed around pirated DVDs.

World Bows To The New Girl Order

http://www.manhattan-institute.org/html/miarticle.htm?id=3314#.VfR2YJeNN-I

and this:

Tiny Times couldn’t be further from Mao’s ascetic communism: it is a wholesale celebration of conspicuous consumption and materialism that has been described as a cross between Sex and the City and The Devil Wears Prada.

http://www.bbc.com/culture/story/20140811-chinas-sex-and-the-city

[–]laere12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Who would want to fuck a 50 year old horse anyways? a.k.a sarah jessica parker.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was a bartender and a waiter - Sex and the City was great for me as it made casually fucking the cute fine dining waiter fashionable and trendy.

Thanks Sex in the City for making all those women who sat in my section or at my bar whores who needed my cock to help them feel independent and empowered.

[–]mrrooftops1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I blame Sex and the City for the reason many women class shopping (around) as a primary hobby now.

[–]holytrpbatman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The suspension of disbelief is far more effective on females. They know that SatC is a fictional story, but they apply it to real life, as if that shitty show was a documentary.

[–]1nzgs16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

It isn't enough to simply have a stable family. A strong masculine father is absolutely essential to any family; without one, children are vulnerable to societal programming especially in the modern age when kids spend more time in public schools and on the internet than with their parents.

[–][deleted] 14 points14 points | Copy

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[–][deleted] 47 points48 points  (7 children) | Copy

Do you know how much drinking and fucking goes on at restaurants? Maybe a bar is worse but restaurants are bad. Its meat market as fuck.

[–]imadazhell27 points28 points  (4 children) | Copy

Had an Ex who worked at a sports bar. When she'd get home, there would usually be a couple drink napkins with dudes name and number written on them stuffed into her bra.

[–]mrrooftops10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

My ex used to give me the numbers on the cards/paper/napkins. She didn't want them but she loved to constantly remind me how attractive she was to other guys.

[–]1KyfhoMyoba6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

They delusionally think that preselection works on guys.

[–]Throwaway96653 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

We project onto them, too. That's why we worry about losing weight, when we should be far more concerned with how much weight we can lift. They don't care if we're kinda fat as long as we're strong as fuck, whereas that same combination in a woman would be very unappealing.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Can confirm

Source: Worked in restaurants for many years - waitresses and barmaids are the biggest bar sluts ever.

[–]tuxedoburrito4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have been a server 6 years. And I've dated and / or fucked so many of my coworkers over the last six years. Like, a few dozen.

[–]grachuss13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

I worked in Bars and Restaurants from age 17-27. The women are mostly sluts. I saw one girl who came in as a virgin and left as a yoga instructor who enjoyed anal sex. She had straight As' at her university now just one gaping one.

When a new girl would show up on scene she would get banged once, then get put in the rotation. If they were married they would cheat on their husband with some one who worked there. Now when a woman says she works at a bar I go to automatic pump and dump mode because I've seen it all.

My favorite was this one girl who became a yoga instructor(different from the first one). I was talking with her at the front door one night. Literally at the end of every sentence a guy would walk by her on the street and start talking to her. She must have had five guys talk to her in the space of 3 minutes, and they all knew her.

These chicks are fun plate material, but that's it.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy

It depends on the restaurant, but most restaurant workers fuck each other all the time..

Source: I used to work at a restaurant in college.

[–]Philhelm11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

No wonder I don't get my glass filled as often as I'd like. Fuckers.

[–]cdtCPTret-4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I worked at a restaurant for about 10 days before I quit. There was probably one fuckable single girl there. Them was the bp days though

[–]_the_shape_36 points37 points  (4 children) | Copy

A girl working as a server could be considered to be a very distant cousin of stripping. Their pay relies almost entirely on tips, and more often than not, their sexuality is their strongest weapon available to generate great tip money in return for flirtatious behavior (ie "good service")

[–]magus6789 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Some places (twin peaks, bikinis, and the like) don't even really try to hide the association. They just have their servers wear pasties or prance about in lingerie.

Which I'm fine with, obviously, but it's simply a step closer to the honesty of how those tips are really made.

[–]simkessy5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's not even about customers. There's a very good chance that a large percentage of the staff is fucking each other. I worked at Swiss Chalet when I was in highschool which was like 7 years ago. I know a lot of people that are still there and they tell me how much of the girls just get passed around between the dudes there. I know two girls that have been there for almost 10 years and have fucked pretty much the entire kitchen staff. One of the dudes who used to work there has slept with maybe 10-15 of the waitresses past/present.

[–]Op2mus 0 points0 points [recovered] | Copy

Uh I'm gonna have to lay down some truth here on you. It's nothing like being a stripper unless they are at a place like hooters or twin peaks.

I have been in the restaurant and bar industry for over a decade. The women you're describing do exist; however, most of them are just there because you can make a shit ton of money serving. It can be a good job if you're going to school for instance. Working for tips actually teaches you that you make more money the harder you work.

If you want to make an argument about girls that work at restaurants you'd be better looking at the fact that employees in the industry party like lunatics and it's easy to get sucked into excessive drinking and drug use. Trust me, lol.

[–]holytrpbatman1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bingo- I've had numerous restaurant jobs in the past, and the biggest take-away I got was always a line on the best drugs and great parties. Banging waitresses was just a side bennie.

[–]Endorsed Contributorseattleron7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Think about it:

  • Mostly afternoon/evening shifts.

  • Work Friday - Sunday for the most part, so you have shitty dYs off to do things and your co-workers are the only ones with those days off too.

  • Make cash every day.

  • Working late means you can sleep all day so having that cash after work means you can go get fucked up with your co-workers, and fuck them.

It's a viscous cycle. Saw so many marriages ruined and relationships ruined. The lifers barely see daylight, and a lot of times have bad drinking and/or drug problems. Not all, but some anyway.

Other than stripping, being a waitress is the 2nd profession I'd never want an LTR to do. Every swinging dick that she serves will hit on her, every dude she works with will want to fuck her, and it's filled with chicks who cheat on their SO with regularity and you can be sure that shit rubs off on others quickly.

Now working at a restaurant as a man? That's a much different scenario...

[–]1grendalor15 points16 points  (8 children) | Copy

It's one of the more notoriously promiscuous work environments that there is. Other ones are bars (very closely related) and also nursing -- promiscuity among nurses is sky high as well.

[–]qtyapa5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

promiscuity among nurses is sky high as well.

nurses seem to have very high sex drive, something to do with their profession may be, I have had fuck buddies who would be ready to jump from cock to cock(if available) without a break.

[–]shzftw-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Working full time + Forced overtime + Having to work every other weekend, really limits the amount of time you have for CC riding.

[–]1grendalor2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Actually the stress increases the likelihood to take risks like CC riding and cuckolding. Military is similar. Put men and women together in high stress situations, and sex is gonna happen in spades.

[–]shzftw1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My wording wasn't right but you said what I meant.

For nurses, the free time that they actually get will be 100% invested in finding Alpha cock to ride on.

[–]jonseagull3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Can confirm... I've heard a thousand stories from the circle of people I know who are nurses... who eventually cheated on their husbands with an alpha and got divorced and collect child support and alimony.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah my uncle was one. Sold his company, Married a Natasha girl, put her through nursing school, and then she branch swung to a doctor at her new job.

She took half his net worth (millions) and is currently turning his sons against him.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nurses do love to fuck don't they.

One of the best LTRs I ever had was a nurse. She was always DTF and did good work around my apartment.

[–]Throwaway96650 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sucks for me, b/c company ink will not be staining my dick, that's for fuck-sure.

[–]Rycy13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

I was almost exactly the same spot: 1. Persumed "low sex drive" 2. Constantly flirting 3. Ton of orbiters 4. Alpha widowed

There is a lot more , thank god i discovered trp and left her. You can hardly imagine her rage when i tried explaining to her why i left... don't talk about trp...

[–]newls2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Persumed "low sex drive" 2. Constantly flirting

Kind of crazy that girls juxtapose these two seemingly opposite things.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I see we dated the same girl.

[–]Half_Man_Half_Boar16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Has 2 cats". Fucking degenerate!

Seriously though, it's good you are on the right track now. Good Luck.

[–]10NotesOnASummersDay7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

In the last few months I have met several women that have no shame. They will flirt sexually with other men in front of you. It's disgusting. To me, this is the biggest red flag.

[–]Throwaway96650 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is one of two things: 1) you are friend-zoned, or 2) they are attempting pre-selection.

[–]yaardi3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

How did the relationship end?

[–]slay_it_forward[S] 11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ya should of mentioned that. She cheated, of course.

[–]4delicioustreats-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

OP, this is a good question.

[–]KartagoPill3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

"Has 2 cats."

My ex had 2 stray cats. It was ok at beginng but after they got little kittens she closed herself in her room and lived with little mittens shitting and pissing on her and her floor. It's crazy guys.

Cat loving for women is like obsession until dick pierce her world. You can laugh but it's my thought.

[–]laere3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women treat cat's like children. Literally like the cats are their own kids.

Source: my mom and her 3 cats.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haha my ex had 3 cats. She'd spend more time and give more attention to them than her own daughter. It was sad

[–]PlanB_pedofile1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Did she also own a horse or obsessed with horses?

Yea... this is every rp red flag in the book. Goog on you that she's now an ex.

[–]causeandcorrelation1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"had two cats" . Say no more.

[–]dicklord_airplane2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

why all the hate for cats? i've always had cats and they've brought a lot of happiness to my life. they are great companions and pest killers if you train them correctly.

i think it's a great sign when women care for cats or dogs properly. it shows responsibility, empathy, and a nurturing nature.

[–]Senior ContributorNightwingTRP1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy

Has 2 cats.

It's nice to break things up with a little humour in between the bouts of rampaging misogyny.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy

I think people missed the /s

[–]s0cia1_ineptitude0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

I think it's a legit red flag.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy

I agree, cats and small dogs fill the role of a baby very well, when a woman is sated in that part of her life she is able to spend more time looking for the best man possible, branch swinging/cc. I was commenting on people down voting an ec for saying we were mysoginistic

[–]s0cia1_ineptitude2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

"Any dog under 40 pounds is a cat and cars are stupid." Words to live by.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Smalls dogs are 10x worse than cats, I've lived with both. If you don't let your cats walk all over you they are actually nice to have around. Like women lol

[–]MelodyMyst-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agree with the first half, not the second.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Its not the size of the dog in the fight, its the size of the fight in the dog.

[–]CastratedBetaOrbiter1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Career obsessed. Has a degree in communications and works for a public relations company. She's basically a professional emailer but this is what she thinks makes her life important, not having a family."

I laughed really hard at this one. I half expected you to say she was a blossoming businesswoman, physician, attorney, engineer, small business owner, etc...

[–]1grendalor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Shit, dude.

Well at least you learned, and will do better in the future.

[–]Miheegz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She's basically a professional emailer but this is what she thinks makes her life important

This had me rollin "professional emailer" lol

[–]TheSliceman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Career obsessed. Has a degree in communications and works for a public relations company. She's basically a professional emailer but this is what she thinks makes her life important, not having a family.

I swear to God I have a friend that IS this. Its irritating to no end.

Except that she wants a family. And the guy must make more than her. But she wont stay home to be a mother either. So basically her ideal family is having the government raise her future child so she can work a shit job to prove that she is independent? Makes no fucking sense to me.

[–]IronMeltsinmyHands0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Never donned on me

Dawned.

If there is something I hate, it's a man who has limitations in the most basic of things.

[–]letsgetrandy0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

TRP is full of dudes who can't understand basic grammar. Just reading the comments in this thread my head wants to explode.

[–]IronMeltsinmyHands-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

How do you expect to change without changing yourself? There are a few things a men should always . Excellent, efficient, immovable, and growing.

And it all begins with fixing the basics.

[–]Lumberjack1234 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

I notice that sluts usually have beta brothers. Did anyone else notice this?

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

That would be because only 20% of men are naturally predisposed to being Alpha. The other 80% are predisposed to being beta. That's not to say some dude who is beta can't learn to be alpha but society as a whole is discouraging betas from bettering themselves.

[–]awedfeab0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Far less than 20% I'd say lol

[–]One_friendship_plz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, because beta's are the ones women are cheating on their husbands for right? The slut epidemic wouldn't be as bad if it was less than 20% alphas.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well I'm sure some of those 20% get indoctrinated with feminist bullshit which is why the number appears less than 20%.

20% is probably the historical number. In a squad of 5 you'd have 1 leader. In a clan or tribe of 25 warriors you'd have 5 leaders and one of them would be the chief... and so on up to the point you're dealing with kingdoms and empires.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

notice that sluts usually have beta brothers. Did anyone else notice this?

Probably caused by beta father.

[–]thefisherman19610 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

She was calling all the shots. I was just along for the ride providing her with comfort and security, hoping to get laid once in a while. The relationship is doomed when the man isn't the one steering the ship.

That's artificial selection in action, weeding betas out of the gene pool.

[–]Philhelm0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

OP: What about drug use, alcohol, tattoos, piercings, etc.?

[–]slay_it_forward[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lots of booze. A little drugs. A few tattoos. One really slutty one on her hip bone. Looks pretty sexy though.

Her biggest drug of all was attention.

[–]Philhelm-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

I suspected as much, and while I'm by no means puritanical or prudish, I consider those things to be red flags. Did she drink beer, or just wine and/or mixed drinks?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ok your ex-oldlady was AWALT, I get that. Now what are you doing about it? Would like to read a post about how you're getting rid of your beta behavior.

[–]billcosbyeatsbabies0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lmfao you handled it well at the end tho, atta boy

[–]PenisInBlender0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Wait so at one point she said she had a low sex drive yet asked for an open relationship to fuck other dudes and that didn't set off any alarm bells?

[–]slay_it_forward[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sent off plenty of alarm bells even as a BP. This was after she got caught cheating. She didn't know how to rectify wanting to maintain a relationship with me but not want to fuck me. This was her answer. The relationship was over a few weeks later.

[–]AntixD0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She pulled my ex away from me to join her in her degenerate lifestyle. Fucking cunt.

Go thank this whore from saving you

[–]lala_xyyz-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

It seems this is what modern society produces. Career women and beta men. The future doesn't look bright.

It's only natural. Evolution doesn't care about "fairness". The weak shall parish. Your ex will likely slut her way into late adulthood, not having children at all, perhaps one if baby rabies kick in. The weak beta men will get cucked, or pay for another man's kid. In the grand scale of things that behavior is aberrant (as we all know deep inside, despite the brainwashing), and both will be filtered out from the gene pool. Hoes need to be bred out of the species, and we should help them. The long-term TRP strategy is to find a suitable mate that you can dominate, and have as many kids possible. As for the hoes - fuck as many as possible, and have no regrets about it.

[–]Cthulu2013-3 points-2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Lol at calling 13 guys by 21 CC.

Otherwise solid.

[–]boredguy931 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Gotta agree.

Assuming she started at 18 one every 3 months really isnt that much.

[–]slay_it_forward[S] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

So what qualifies as a bonified carousel rider for you lads? North of 30 cocks before age 20?

[–]Cthulu20131 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

20/21 are write off for anyone attractive regardless of gender, it's when everyone breaks up with their first serious gf/bf and fucks everything in sight for a couple years.

I'd say over 20 at 21 is hefty, but I know lots of girls that are well over 35/40 by 20.

6 month relationships since the age of 16 would be 12 guys by 21. Throw in a year of slutting around and you're easily over 20.

[–]verifytoi-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Future is shit, the stock market is crashing, Obama was a disaster, Babyboomer still want more at the expense of new generation. Zionists are full in power, feminazy Zionist funded are achieving their goals while most of the people are still sleeping zombies.

[–]rabidrabbity-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not the cats fault. Rent your women.. they are all incredibly attractive and will do what you want whenever you want. No baggage or guilt.

[–]mrmeyhemn-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

congratulations on your escape. now you know the red flags so you can avoid women who exhibit them.

spin some plates and enjoy life.

[–]Profdiddy-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. u/RedPilldad laid some wisdom down. Indeed, it is not the individual experiences that corrupt the mind but the immersion in the party world for years that builds a funhouse mirror view of the world.

[–]4delicioustreats-5 points-4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Most of this comes across as really butthurt. Ok, so you're in the anger phase. She didn't despise you for being a beta, she just had the power and didn't have to fuck you. Between her having better before (alpha) and your beta ways, You let her know that she was the best you could get and therefore she had nothing to lose.

Better yourself and try to remember the past without distortions. Sugar or vinegar coating won't help. That's one of the primary advantages of men, to assess the world without the feelz.

[–]slay_it_forward[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm remebering the past as it applies to this sub.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (3 children) | Copy

had every sex in the city DVD lolololol i fucking lost it

[–]Limekill0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

As soon as you see this - get the fuck out of there.... Not even as a plate.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

hahahahaha not sure if serious. Why ? lol

[–]ZioFascist-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

society is collapsing and its coming closeer and closer everyday.

Take a look at the markets around the world.

Shits getting real!!



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