You've heard this before: textbook example of late 30s TwoX Wall torpedo. Shocker: she's single! Deconstructing her text for 12 instances of rationalization

MattyAnon · 2015-12-28T00:46:20+00:00

Women have given me a lot of dating advice over the years, so I'd like to repay the favor for this poor woman with some solid dating tips:

Just be yourself!
Just be confident!
Buy ~~her~~ him flowers and chocolates!
Do things for ~~her~~ him, rub ~~her~~ his feet, ask how ~~her~~ his day was
Pay for everything
Never ask anything in return, noone likes needy
It'll happen when you least expect it!
It'll happen when you stop trying! [does not apply here]

CastratedBetaOrbiter · 2015-12-27T23:41:00+00:00

I really find it amusing when people put "traveling and eating" as hobbies. 9/10 times it's women that do this.

It's like women love living for the moment, but can't think long term.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-12-27T23:46:10+00:00

Right now it feels like my only option may be guys much much older than I am.

Women have this idea that they're entitled to be the 'choosers' b/c they are when they're young, attractive and fertile. If they stay on the train too long, they wind up hearing, "Wall Station. Everyone off!"

There's a guy for her, but he ain't in his 30s, he's in his fifties, and he's not perfect and he's not a chad b/c she's too old for a chad already. She's having a tough time coping with the her vastly depreciated SMV (and really her RMV probably ain't great, either).

"Gather ye rosebuds while ye may...."

IndianAlpha · 2015-12-28T02:13:44+00:00

OK,I'm sold, I'm starting a Cat Food business.

PlusGoody · 2015-12-28T00:15:41+00:00

Ugly or bad family. Probably both. Good looking girls from good religious families are married off early.

Roshambo_USMC · 2015-12-28T07:34:12+00:00

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well-ok-then · 2015-12-28T05:09:41+00:00

My feminist mom used to always joke about my sister not being allowed to date until after she finished law school. Unmarried sister hit 36 a week ago and mom was whining about how she wants grandkids. She's super jealous of her friends with the single mom daughters. Lol

theultmatecad · 2015-12-28T00:40:00+00:00

I see cats in her future. Lots and lots of em

Ali_s1987 · 2015-12-28T07:42:18+00:00

Doode.........the wall for most women is 29 or 30. Very few women are worth the time after they cross the 30 line!

ChaletBoy · 2015-12-28T00:11:04+00:00

Oh goodness this has to be my lasts year's plate. Only difference is my plate thinks she can produce children past 40...

What's ironic about my her is that she never rode the CC. Consequence of a high achieving family, religious upbringing and spending your whole life trying to further your career goals... Her thought process is so based on feels, she hasn't logically thought once about what happens as she works harder and harder to make money.

Behind the scenes these two women are popping anti depressants like candy while preaching to everyone around then how awesome life is. But really they are no different than a BB alone in his cave.

LowTorNot · 2015-12-27T22:45:37+00:00

Apologies for the poor formatting. First post.

TermsOfColors · 2015-12-28T14:52:30+00:00

I have gone out with numerous women who have listed "traveling" as a hobby on their online profile. It's just dumb. Taking a vacation once or twice a year is not a freaking hobby. Almost ALL of these women had gone on some shitty trip over the past year or even less recently, and it's the highlight of their life. I've been all over the place, for work and otherwise, and I wouldn't describe this as a HOBBY.

The last girl I met up with from Tinder talked on and on about a trip to the UK and Ireland she went on 10 YEARS AGO. That's fine but I don't really care. This lady was pushing 40 and UNEMPLOYED with little prospects - none of that was mentioned freely LOL.

Interestingly, I have rarely met a girl IN REAL LIFE who states that "traveling" is a major hobby or part of her life. It's kind of like "skydiving" or "rock climbing" or "camping" on their profiles is a cliche they feel they need to add to make themselves sound interesting or important or fun in some way.

I would be much more impressed if they mentioned a musical instrument, or singing in a chorus, or a cooking class, or some local volunteering they did (regularly), or fitness activities they participated in (regularly), or just say they don't have time for hobbies due to their work/life schedule.

2015-12-28T15:21:13+00:00

It comes down to simple facts that passiveness is seen as good, while assertiveness is seen as bad. My mother was raised to be the most submissive human, now she's finally at her old age to discover her issues. She blames no one but herself for not dealing with her sadness and problems. Mind you I've spent countless days explaining to her the issues of her thought processes. She used to blame my father for her sorrows and pain in her marriage.

Red pill teaches people always to look internally for resolution vs blaming externally. I've spent many years meditating on the failures of my life. No one controls your life or your actions but yourself. If you are unwilling to fight for what you desire or what need than don't cry about having nothing.

MyLittleAtomBomb · 2015-12-28T17:19:18+00:00

Oh I fucking love the table breakdown.

I'm hijacking that like a 747

pavista · 2015-12-28T11:31:14+00:00

Avoid "travel" women like the plague. It usually implies great promiscuity as women who focus on travel rarely have steady boyfriends. At the very least it means she is expensive and going to drain you of your money with her travel ambitions and if she's young enough she's likely to up and leave for another country altogether. Regardless there is no positives dating someone who loves to travel (unless you too love it).

Eugenics2015 · 2015-12-29T15:04:03+00:00

is 2x a normal female sub or is it a feminist sub?

BaronECM · 2015-12-29T15:04:27+00:00

How many genetic failures is she going to try and pop out in her mid 40s?

sir_wankalot_here · 2015-12-27T23:14:24+00:00

Fitting the facts to your theory is not TRP, a true scientist would look at all women who are 40+. So find some woman who is 40+, married, never cheated on her husband, has kids, etc. She will still have things to bitch about, and probably will have the same level of discontentment.

With women, actual circumstances do not determine increased happiness.

mikesteane · 2015-12-27T23:34:48+00:00

Someone of the same beliefs.

If you are going to have children, the best combination is parents of differing beliefs who have the maturity to accept the differences.

Also I expect that the "same beliefs" will go beyond religion into politics and domestic issues and will end up being "someone who agrees with me all the time."

ReasonFreak · 2015-12-28T21:18:06+00:00

I used to get kind of annoyed at the fact that the only kind of romantic advice society deemed acceptable for a man to give to a woman is the kind that, firstly and fore mostly, protects the female ego at all costs. Now, I see that it only hurts women in the end. There's going to be a lot of Gen X and Millennial spinsters in the decades to come. And if we millennial men decide we ever want to get married we can just wife up the illegitimate daughters the Millennial gals had with Chad once we're in our 40's and 50's.

huskywarrior · 2015-12-28T06:36:12+00:00

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Direct Quote	What She is Implying	Red Pill Perspective
Nearly 40, never married, and dating - feeling frustrated	Poor me!	~~Feeling frustrated~~ becomes time to change something
I spent most of my 20s and early 30s focusing on work	Excuse for current situation	Foreshadowing
and traveling a lot	I'm a busy interesting person	Lots of people can manage work, travel, and a host of other responsibilities on top of it; no excuse
I was open to love	as long as I want it, it should come to me, right?	Passive attitude again...expects to just be given things
Due to looking for someone within my religion, my options have been extremely limited	there's so few Alpha religious choir boys for me!	but wait, if she lacks options, why does she act so picky?
I've dated outside of it, but it just works better when I'm with someone of the same beliefs	I'm a princess and I dersve perfect	again, no perspective to change herself. She places the burden on the world to meet her need. Notice up to this point there is no mention of anything she brings to a potential relationship
But now I'm nearly 40 and have never been married	the WALL is approaching!	it's already over for her...she is just not willing to realize it due to my biological clock, and I feel like the window has narrowed even further
Over the last few years, I've had some really good and bad relationships that haven't worked out for various reasons	it's not me, it's something or someone else!	assuming she's been dating since age 16, and she's a good branch swinger, she could have had ~20 years of "dating experience" by now. With some self reflection, should it be so hard for her to keep a relationship?
I feel like some guys don't even consider dating me because the want to have a family	why do I get less attention now than when I did at 22?	the lessons she is learning at ~38/39 she should have learned at 26/27. But she was * busy*
I would really like a family too but feel like it may not get to happen now, and that fact makes me really sad. :(	why don't I get what what I want? Wah!	"may not get to happen"...again no mention of what she is doing to change her situation
Right now it feels like my only option may be guys much much older than I am.	Why doesn't Chad want me?	no explanation needed for the "nearly 40s" spinster
Bonus comment: I'll take another break. The holidays can be brutal but there's still much fun to be had. :)	oh well, the carousel is still fun!	some people never change

Title	You've heard this before: textbook example of late 30s TwoX Wall torpedo. Shocker: she's single! Deconstructing her text for 12 instances of rationalization
Author	LowTorNot
Upvotes	88
Comments	111
Date	December 27, 2015 10:45 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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