Just had my first random hookup, first time having sex in forever...kind of feel like sex is overrated. Am i right or just need to have more of it?

CryptoManbeard · 2018-11-08T21:10:22+00:00

The Japanese have a word for this : kenjataimu. It's the period after ejaculation when you can think clearly. In 3 days French fry pussy will be all you think about.

BuckNekkid18 · 2018-11-08T18:55:58+00:00

Surprise! Hookups/ONS are nothing else than assisted masturbation with a lubricated, tight, warm tool. Also, if her pussy smelled like deep fried grease then you need to fuck healthier girls, jesus christ.

christophertracy92 · 2018-11-08T21:05:53+00:00

Love it that everyone around here feels sex is overrated.

Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.

Future_Alpha · 2018-11-08T18:49:53+00:00

you need a better fuck.

it is a bit overated tho.

koedeloe · 2018-11-08T19:26:59+00:00

Sex is overrated. Condoms suck, after you orgasm you come to your senses and want to dump the bitch asap, her pussy might stank, she might be horrible at giving blowjobs. All that effort for 15 minutes of overrated sex. Sex is only good raw with someone you care about. I know cliché but it' true.

Yoasted · 2018-11-08T20:44:33+00:00

Deep fried grease? LOL

nabosch · 2018-11-08T21:30:53+00:00

I know it's not the most popular thing around here but the best sex I've ever had has been with my LTR.

horologist2018 · 2018-11-08T19:26:47+00:00

100% depends on you as a person. I am the polar opposite.

For a lot of people, one night stands and hookups, like u/bucknekkid18 said, are assisted masturbation with a live human.

For me, one night stands and hookups are like a roller coaster of joy and excitement, before, during, and after. I compare it to going to an amusement park, where some rides look great and are great, some rides look great and are terrible, some rides look terrible and are great, and some rides look terrible and are terrible.

Like I said, depends on you as a person. If it's overrated for you, then hey man there's nothing wrong with that.

Psychological_Radish · 2018-11-08T22:56:27+00:00

idk wtf you all are talking about. Sex is awesome, especially if there's a lot of built up tension from a night of flirting/Gaming. There's no pleasure that compares. Fucking a hot girl (a hot girl, not Bertha the Drunk Whale at closing) is pretty validating.

[deleted] · 2018-11-08T21:02:30+00:00

Did you think it was overrated BEFORE you had sex? That's a rhetorical question. The thing is after you bust a nut, many men feel kind of a regret and similar feeling, since they released all their "energy" into a woman's vagina and now need at least few days to get all that testosterone back which again, creates new tension and new arousal and you want sex again. That's how it goes. You fuck, you cum, you forget about a chick until you need her again.

It's as much overrated as water. Those who have plenty do not think about it until they are thirsty and once they drink it they forget again. Same with sex. Those who have none will rate sex as one of the top man's needs. Which biologically it is, but.. once you cum, you cum and you are done. Just like a glass of water.

Try posting this on incel dot com and see their response. I am sure they wouldn't be happy about your experience since you had sex and they didn't.

Opioidus · 2018-11-08T22:06:20+00:00

Sex is very overrated, the hunt is underrated.

Olram_Sacul · 2018-11-08T19:37:02+00:00

Yup, that's pretty normal

dutchgguy · 2018-11-08T19:58:52+00:00

Ye: that's exactly how it is. But afterwards in the evening you get a happy feeling.

[deleted] · 2018-11-08T20:38:45+00:00

lol women in general are overrated

but yeah, once you develop true abundance it does become a question of 'is this even worth it'. I'm at the point where I don't bother with women older than 24ish and less than an HB 8, not due to any real judgement call on my part but simply because I can't be bothered putting in the effort if she's not hot enough.

mysteriumarchive · 2018-11-09T15:50:26+00:00

Welcome to the true red pill. You now make a decision: do you want to be a slave to your primal urges, desperately chasing pussy around for the rest of your life, totally enthralled in"the game" just to fill an empty void in you? Or do you want to reject this sexual decadence and stay centered in your absolute mode of being, passing through this decaying modern world like a cloud over a mountain, staying true to yourself and your code through it all? The latter is the true red pill. Read Ride the Tiger by Julius Evola.

BusterVadge · 2018-11-08T21:49:26+00:00

her pussy kinda smelled like deep fried grease. But after i was done i kinda felt “this is it”?

There's your problem right there.

leolanik14 · 2018-11-08T21:15:32+00:00

What you thought you gonna get cupcakes and cigar, and bunch of men standing around giving you cheers. Nah man, this is why TRP kept telling dudes, focus on your goals and not Pussey and it is not the Mecca of your happiness! That was your temporary glucose spike.

xddm2653 · 2018-11-08T21:31:34+00:00

pussy kinda smelled like deep fried grease

This is what brothers always rave about?

well...

toothpickhd · 2018-11-08T21:12:58+00:00

The thing about sex is that when people describe good sex what they mean is different for girls than guys. Even though both can benefit you as a guy.

When a girl says that you guys have a good sex she essentially saying you last a long time, dominate me, and make me cum multiple times. Something not a lot of men do.

When a guy tells a girl they have good sex, they usually mean she is a freak and lets him do stuff he wants to do, facials etc.

The second one is obvious how it benefits you. Its fucking awesome and fun.

The first one can be tiring sometimes. You have to learn to last like 30 minutes. And you need to have experience so you know how to make a woman cum, and you are essentially doing 30 minutes of cardio because you are in control the whole time. Honestly sometimes its kind of more of a work out then fun. But I can guarantee you after you've made a girl come 5 times in 30 minutes she will look at you like a god.

So keep fucking buddy and get better and better at it and eventually you will find out its not overrated at all and all the people here saying otherwise just don't know to operate in the bedroom.

dtyler86 · 2018-11-08T22:15:51+00:00

Lmao... deep fried grease. I felt the same way when I lost my virginity. It’s really something that I have realized I feel with every new hook up for the first time it’s not really that amazing until you’ve done it a few times and then when it becomes intimate it’s a different kind of excitement. First off, condoms fucking suck. If you have a long-term relationship or a consistent hook up that is on birth control and you were comfortable trusting that they are clean, unprotected sex will probably change your mind. Every time I start dating someone sex is really not that amazing until I’ve done it with them maybe a large handful of times

petergriffin2660 · 2018-11-09T00:00:36+00:00

You were too stressed during your 'encounter'

You didn't let yourself enjoy the ride, that's prob why u didn't last long and u built it up too much. It's supposed to be a fun ride. Sex in a LTR is quite a bit better as you'll both be comfortable with each other. Hookups are just the thrill of the hunt.

sonnydanger · 2018-11-08T21:19:47+00:00

Sex is honestly over rated. I like the chase and the hunt more than the sex tbh. Knowing i can pull a hoe is exciting and fun.

vaqq1 · 2018-11-08T23:15:22+00:00

man said deep fried grease. I can't LOOOOL

HectoSexual · 2018-11-09T02:25:18+00:00

I passed my 30th plate and I am just now starting to feel like sex is less exciting than it was.

All that means to me is that it’s time to move up to hotter and crazier girls.

XxPockoxX · 2018-11-09T13:02:03+00:00

Shit black girls smell like grease?! Mexican girl smell like roasting peppers..

gaki123 · 2018-11-09T15:06:15+00:00

Are you mutilated? I mean circumcised?

AceMav21 · 2018-11-08T22:09:41+00:00

Love me some big booty ebony’s. Did you hit it from the back if not it’s prob why you feel like that.

binrobinro · 2018-11-08T22:32:28+00:00

Your feeling is correct.

eddee_d · 2018-11-08T23:52:25+00:00

Same experience recently so I feel you. It really ain't that hype.

SolarTortality · 2018-11-09T01:28:30+00:00

I usually feel like that after I have sex with a person BECAUSE I DONT WANT TO NOT BE HAVING SEX WITH ANYONE as opposed to when having sex with a person because you want to have sex with said person.

The_Lightskin_Wonder · 2018-11-09T02:28:34+00:00

I'm an ass man myself, and sometimes I come to disappointing realization that an ass is just for looks, but I just have sex when I'm horny. You might feel different about it tomorrow.

I masturbate on the regular but pussy, and the act of is so much better, I'm a very freaky person though so, I kind of need a partner. But I always like to surprise women with my vibrating cock ring. I give them different sex and in return they come back.

Herr_Hrodberth · 2018-11-09T03:38:44+00:00

I assume you used a condom like all of the other Reddit cucks? Condom sex is shit. I would rather sit and watch commercials on the TV than have condom sex, and I hate commercials. Rawdogging a girl and cumming in her pussy or ass feels amazing, though.

mrHappyPotatoe · 2018-11-09T04:27:10+00:00

You yourself have made big deal iut of it. Enjoy it as it is.

Datanami · 2018-11-09T06:54:23+00:00

Funny how these posts are always the most upvoted

faustian_talos · 2018-11-09T08:40:37+00:00

Am I the only one here that has a problem with *her pussy kinda smeled like deep fried grease* ???!!!

SteveStJohn · 2018-11-09T11:28:24+00:00

PCH, Post Cum Hate, is normal.

GeuseyBetel · 2018-11-09T12:52:39+00:00

Most of the guys here are saying sex is overrated and I agree. It's only not overrated when it's with a girl you're not immediately sick of after you nut.

Also black girls are pretty much always smellier in my experience (not being racist, may be coincidence, but just my experience)

[deleted] · 2018-11-09T19:16:52+00:00

why does it matter that she was black?

Title	Just had my first random hookup, first time having sex in forever...kind of feel like sex is overrated. Am i right or just need to have more of it?
Author	Scrummy671
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Date	November 8, 2018 6:43 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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