When a man on OLD asks what you’re looking for - don’t describe what you want so he can pretend to be that to get in your pants, SIS! Let him show you who HE is.

Pahapan · 2020-08-13T05:49:15+00:00

I'd be like, "The quality of being able to type out the word you."

FDSxMuffinVSrat · 2020-08-13T06:09:55+00:00

I actually think this is great. You're not coming off as having an attitude of superiority, but you're also refusing to spoon feed him on how to date. And, you're being completely honest.

Lavender_flow · 2020-08-13T07:26:17+00:00

"U must have many suitors" BARF.

dntbfllikeidid · 2020-08-13T05:55:39+00:00

The answer you gave him is 🔥. Love it!! 👏🏻

Hhjjuuy · 2020-08-13T07:23:17+00:00

The question alone is reason to get rid.

alichuchu · 2020-08-13T06:19:45+00:00

i love they way you replied to him!!

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-08-13T13:26:04+00:00

Also don't talk to man who's too lazy to write out the word 'you'

Neorago · 2020-08-13T17:00:53+00:00

Yup! A guy asked me the whole how long have you been on here, what's your experience been like then asked what I was looking for. I simply said "a man that knows what he wants, you?". He said "I'm looking for casual so I guess you could say I know what I want". HA! Nice try. I said, indeed but that's not what I'm looking for, best of luck. He said he understood but we could be friends. Uh no, it's a dating app and I have friends. Bye.

pallta · 2020-08-13T11:51:01+00:00

I love your response. High quality indeed!

lskfjd743 · 2020-08-13T14:03:17+00:00

I think there is one caveat to this - if you need to be with a man of a particualr faith group, or don't want a man with kids, you should probably put that out there. These things are hard to fake....

warinmymind94 · 2020-08-13T15:05:55+00:00

Straight facts. Pro tip YOU lead the way ask them what they are looking for and don't let them be ambigious. Fakers will just parrot back and pretend to want whatever you do.

heythere360 · 2020-08-13T06:01:11+00:00

Is English his second language?

Summerisle7 · 2020-08-13T15:54:29+00:00

I like this, you state clearly that you have standards, without insulting him or using LV language such as profanity or abbreviations.

He's gotten answers to his dumb questions, he should now move on to an actual conversation.

fairywakes · 2020-08-13T05:18:34+00:00

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Hmtnsw · 2020-08-13T22:26:20+00:00

"Kings don't ask me what I'm looking for, peasant."

BellaMob · 2020-08-13T13:57:35+00:00

It is my pet peeve when they can't even make an effort to text properly. I also get people asking for a phone call very soon after matching because it is "easier" which I just ignore. If texting me is too hard for him, he is not high quality.

darling89 · 2020-08-13T22:14:16+00:00

I mean it's good to say what you're looking for but be wary that guys can lie about what they want they can mirror you

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