Boyfriend gives her flowers, she rewards him by sleeping with me.

yaysmr · 2016-04-15T19:37:34+00:00

"Resist the urge to be nice"... so true. was my biggest fault in the past

Diogenes-- · 2016-04-15T21:30:20+00:00

Testosterone is linked to risk-taking behavior (source) and I've read that estrogen is linked to cautionary behavior but I'm on mobile and cbf digging for a link.

It would follow that this is the/a reason why men typically do the approaching, not women.

If women have a hormonally induced "caution hump" to get over in order to have fun, it would explain why they love to get blind drunk when they go out. And perhaps the "push" of a badboy helps them get over it too. A beta licking her boots does nothing to push a woman over this hump so betas get nothing and badboys get pussy.

This is just my musings, I'm not trying to pass it off as fact.

[deleted] · 2016-04-16T09:28:51+00:00

If your girlfriend is going on nights out without you with other males, she really shouldn't be your girlfriend, huge red flag

Vasallo7G · 2016-04-15T19:48:31+00:00

I can also confirm this 20 yrs ago.....sadly I was the BF

penguintossaway · 2016-04-16T02:07:24+00:00

There's a huge misunderstanding here.

You can be nice. You don't have to be a dick to wkmen you like.

The key is that nice CAN NOT be your defining characteristic of trait.

Your girlfriend should never describe you as nice, it should never be the first thING she thinks of or tells people about.

She should earn your nice gestures they shouldn't come freely

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-04-15T19:49:06+00:00

I can only imagine LL Cool J was playing in the background.

Polaris382 · 2016-04-15T19:48:57+00:00

This one sounds a little risky dude, based on that last part...like the type of situation that could lead to a potential regret "rape" accusation.

Archange_ · 2016-04-16T00:26:23+00:00

Giving flowers to women used to be a conundrum for me. Older men and plenty of women of my age repeatedly told me that women looove being offered flowers and that offering flowers was part of courtship, a step towards her heart and pussy. Hence I did offer flowers to a few women I wanted. They tersely thanked me and did not seeme to care about. Ultimately I got nowhere with them. Furthermore the men that fucked them never offered them flowers or anything. The whole contradiction puzzled me. Yet the women kept their story: offer elaborate sets of flowers and hide inside some chocolate or perfume. Again zero effect. I raised the issue again with the female friends and they maintained their story. They voiced doubts about the lack of effects of my gifts; I had to give them more time to come to me. So I did. Still grand zero success. Eventually I lost my temper and called out their bullshit. That created a massive storm and ruined my reputation among the few women in my social circle.

At this point I remembered a saying of my father's: never argue with an idiot; you waste your energy and the idiot will call his fellows and together they can destroy you. The women did not seem to be idiots; the dynamic and end result was the same. However I concluded that I was the idiot in the story. I then stopped offering anything to women.

favours_of_the_moon · 2016-04-15T19:43:31+00:00

Special tingles because she is SO SO BAD.

logicalthinker1 · 2016-04-16T04:14:05+00:00

It's not so much that niceness dries them up, it that niceness is usually accompanied by other beta qualities. They feed off each other.

If an alpha came up to a girl and gave her flowers, she would be wetter than Niagara Falls. As long as the guy continued to be alpha in every other way. That glimpse at his softer side drives chicks absolutely insane.

Downvotesohoy · 2016-04-15T22:12:26+00:00

"you know everyone here wants to fuck you right?" - My ThatHappened sense just went off so hard.

yummyluckycharms · 2016-04-16T04:54:44+00:00

I'm going to post this key statement for all of the noobies out there...

If a woman is attracted to you, she's going to fuck you irregardless if you spend money on her or not.

A man of value will be the prize - women will be spending resources to get close to you, and it should never be the other way around. If it is, you're doing it wrong.

edwardhwhite · 2016-04-15T20:00:02+00:00

Love how you are the "bad boy" when she is the one cheating

Obio1 · 2016-04-16T12:59:25+00:00

"Afterwards, she goes off about how much she hates me and doesn't know why she slept with me."

Careful with that part though... That can bite you in the ass.

5pecial · Sat Apr 16 18:31:34 2016 UTC

I've always been a dick in my past relationships, and it's worked out really well, but it just doesn't seem sustainable. I can't imagine being a dick to the future mom of my children. I don't know...

jamesso33 · 2016-04-16T05:12:54+00:00

The funny thing that the white knights like neckbeard don't get is op is actually doing the boyfriend a favor. The sooner he finds out his girl is a slut the better. But I guess you can't expect a keyboard warrior that threatens murder to see logic.

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maxrp · 2016-04-16T02:36:13+00:00

You missed an important lesson:

never buy your girlfriend flowers or she will cheat

Carbone · 2016-04-16T05:09:45+00:00

I found that making a girl cry is the easiest way to get in their pants when you're the one comforting her in the end.

It's like universal make up sex.

Dark triad as fuck

HiraldoCoil · 2016-04-15T23:46:13+00:00

Lots of blue-pill, white-knight action going on in the comments.

Honestly, "I'd kill you if you did that with my girl" you don't own jack shit. That womyn is not your property she is just currently with you and it just so happens that she found someone more exciting to be with for the night. She could have also chosen not to cheat because she believes that it's wrong but she didn't. Guys like those saying that OP is trash coz he fucked her are the reason TRP exists. These are the guys that will always watch from the sidelines as their unicorns get pumped and dumped by Chad, leaving her ego and vag bruised and running into the loving arms of Faggy McBetabux, white-knight extraordinare.

RationalistFaith1 · 2016-04-17T17:10:06+00:00

The fact you're fucking another guy's girlfriend is a huge problem here.

You are tempting the child that women are.

Congrats on being an asshole and perpetrating the matriarchy we currently live in.

Lesson of the story:

Women are kids (we know that)
You're a senseless conscious-less asshole

A man with inner-confidence doesn't need to be doing sloppy seconds to reassert himself. This just shouts deep insecurity and most often than not a "fake" projected SMV (typical PUA clowns).

Work on yourself, weakling.

[deleted] · 2016-04-16T02:41:39+00:00

"Don't put her on a pedastal". The single toughest lesson it took me to learn.

ShepherdTheRed · 2016-04-16T13:07:19+00:00

The misleading thing about this story is that it implies that the boyfriend's only fault was getting her flowers. This guy was probably a straight up pussy and the flowers were some token of apology for some dumb shit. I do nice things for girls, but only when they earn it, and never when they expect it.

BimboChristie69 · 2016-04-16T16:54:19+00:00

Should tell her boyfriend she cheated and dump her

gonorealover · 2016-04-16T17:59:44+00:00

It blows my mind that this is the reality of girls

You've been conditioned by your own mother/society that girls were " wonderful creatures " . You know the truth now.

Your job is to not forget this truth for the rest of your life . Do not marry women.

cashmoney_x · 2016-04-17T08:01:34+00:00

None of this would matter if we would stop pretending humans are monogamous.

dmystery · 2016-04-15T22:43:27+00:00

In a situation like that, how do you deal with her regret/anger the morning afterwards when she starts spewing her self-hatred onto you or do you just kick her to the curb before she can engage the thrusters on hamster?

(In terms of sleeping with married/LTR women each to their own; if a girls going to cheat, a girls going to cheat. TRP is not the place to for moral police.

I'd be more worried about sleeping with a girl from work, simply due to the risk of her regret/hamstering afterwards leading her to go down the HR/sexual-assault

[deleted] · 2016-04-16T07:01:01+00:00

I once was in the same story. There was a girl with faggot-looking fat ugly bb boyfriend which she used in order to manipulate me. I heard all this shit like 'we are happy in our relationships', 'there is no room for you' but you could look on this guy and realize THEY DON'T FUCK. So I don't know what is your problem really. She may be a slut or she may have friendzone-boyfriend. I would call this friendzoyfriend.

Divazzy · 2016-04-21T08:21:39+00:00

Congrats on being an easy slut lmao

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PLOgod · 2016-04-15T22:16:30+00:00

It's fine to fuck chicks, and even fine to fuck chicks if you don't know they have boyfriends, but i'ts not cool to purposely ruin somebody else's relationship just so you can add another notch in your belt.

JohnGalt316 · 2016-04-15T23:58:26+00:00

it is because her bf doesn't make her squirt

it is all about the squirting

db1000c · 2016-04-16T12:09:15+00:00

Why fuck some other guy's girl? He might be a sap, but as a supposedly red pill man you are meant to be the mature adult out of all the involved parties with at least some sense of moral compass.

toku_mei · 2016-04-17T07:40:41+00:00

Mate the fact you slept with her while knowing she has a BF kinda of makes you a piece of shit that needs a broken jaw. Oh and the girl deserves a beating as well.

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RedMoonAscendant · 2016-04-16T00:46:19+00:00

She says, "you know everyone here wants to fuck you right?".

This is where you lost all credibility.

FrameWalker · 2016-04-15T21:27:44+00:00

You're just a piece of shit along with the girl you pulled. You're not cool you're just a lowlife. And look at all these idiots saying, "good man. You took out the trash." GTFO of here, where I come from you deserve to get choked out till you shit your pants. My father was a real man and he would have beat the hell out of me if I acted like a lil scheming pile of shit like you.

Title	Boyfriend gives her flowers, she rewards him by sleeping with me.
Author	spinningthemplates
Upvotes	254
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Date	April 15, 2016 7:02 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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