Chatted up by a cashier

feedmecarrots · 2017-03-23T12:51:05+00:00

I remember someone in his forties saying in a podcast how women hated never married men in their forties. It is as if they had a strong union.

Chrollo-Lucilfer · 2017-03-23T12:47:55+00:00

lol, being selfish is not wrong. Being selfish is our right. We do everything for our selves only. We are important.

587Boat · 2017-03-23T14:17:45+00:00

"Is all of this food for you?"

"Of course not! I share with the one that I love! His name is Rover, and he's the coolest German Shepherd I've ever known. He Loves the way I grill steaks!"

Inverse_Mirror · 2017-03-23T13:50:06+00:00

Actually, I've had several experiences similar to this over the past few months. Both from cashiers and women in line with me.

Funny enough OP, it's all been post-wall women. Always commenting on the steak, smoked salmon, brie, wine, Italian Olive Oil, ghee, etc. during checkout and asking if it's for myself or "someone special" or "some lucky lady"...

Especially if I'm in my business attire..really...makes you think LOL

fezha · 2017-03-23T14:55:15+00:00

You should've said steak tastes better alone.

squidracer · 2017-03-23T14:00:18+00:00

Cashier's are low income women. Them and bank tellers seek out money

thingseverybodylove · 2017-03-23T13:36:14+00:00

Don't ever mistake selfish for SELF-LOVE AND SELF-RESPECT.

Treeclimber3 · 2017-03-23T15:08:36+00:00

If I'm single, doesn't it make sense to buy and cook my own food?

0kool74 · 2017-03-23T15:22:22+00:00

You should have really nuked her hamster and told her "wouldn't have it any other way." :-)

mordanus · 2017-03-23T15:21:10+00:00

Women will always cut a man down. It doesn't matter what he does or who he is. Women are born to hate us. Anything you do in your life that doesn't actively involve taking care of one of them or building them up is looked at negatively. Awalt.

clybourn · 2017-03-23T17:53:13+00:00

Had something similar happen on St Patty's day.

Met up with a friend who got married about a year ago. He's 50 and has been married before but he's an awesome guy. She is 45 and this is the first time I met her. They were already hammered by the time I caught up with them.

Instantly she was asking me why am I single? (for context im 34 and basically a 666, just very introverted and now mgtow) She just couldn't believe it and kept drunkenly asking me why, no matter what answer I gave her. I kept giving her legit reasons why I was single, like because I recently got out of a 4 year relationship etc., but she kept asking. No answer was good enough. It got to the point I started answering with nonsense, like I only fuck goats now, or I only date virgins that have a retirement plan etc,. She wanted me to go dance with random girls on the dance floor and asked the waitress if she thought I was cute. The whole time I'm trying to talk to my friend and ignore her thinking in my head AWALT, praise be to MGTOW, wtf has my friend gotten himself into?

So then she starts going on about how cute I am, starts rubbing my arms and shoulders, pushing her tits up against me... All in front of her husband. He handled it very well, I would have flipped out had it been my wife. Not sure if he's used to her being this way or if he knew she was just drunk or what.

She went to the bathroom and he says to me "she's got great tits and she's only slept with 4 guys!" I'm just thinking yea fucking right. It's crazy how much more AWALT I notice since finding this sub. I feel woke as fuck.

tuffbot324 · 2017-03-23T15:09:58+00:00

Sounds like she was looking for some attention and got denied, rather than being pissed you were single.

trumps_amygdala · 2017-03-23T12:51:16+00:00

Can't wait til there are RFID price tags.

heavylead · 2017-03-23T17:08:33+00:00

I'm 43 , Red seal carpenter, no kids, no wife, no debt. I spend what I want on motorcycles fly fishing weed and beer. I have a small bit of land with bees and a few chickens. I was called a unicorn by a lady in the pub, "A rare mythical creature, one who startles easy at attempts to capture it, and all the pretty girls want a ride." Don't sleep with them unless they know that it's all you require from them is a one of their holes and they leave after the act. P.s Cctv prevents bullshit rape charges.

Jonlife · 2017-03-23T15:18:39+00:00

Slow... Clap..... This woman was feeling herself that day thinking she was going to run game on a young buck like yourself. The dudes she probably gamed up in the past who were just happy a woman like her was throwing them some shine. This is her doing recon for a nice male to catch and rescue her (for a few days weeks months at least) from having take care of herself (and her bastard child(s)). Once guys take the red pill we see a woman's true motives in all this. Women create their own misery and misery loves company... Until it finds another victim. You handled that situation like a fucking G.

geocitiesuser · 2017-03-23T15:40:15+00:00

she's mad she has a job as a night shift cashier and can't afford chad's kids without her gubment hand outs.... also probably doesn't even know how to cook

Wraeclast_Exile · 2017-03-23T15:06:42+00:00

OMFG! I've been dating a girl who told me the same thing! Because I'm all about myself, I must be selfish.

No, you can only be selfish if there is someone else in your life you must interact with, and you only do stuff for yourself without considering them much.

Cunt_Robber · 2017-03-23T16:37:08+00:00

THIS. fucking. post. I envy you man. I'm working towards this, carrying my weight on my own shoulders and doing what I love for ME. You suppressed the laugh; I doubt I would have. My bubble of satisfaction would have burst. But I think your humble attitude made her hamster spin even harder.

Such a solid reminder of the privilege and entitlement women have ingrained in their nature. Though she tried to put you on the spot, her ignorant assumption gave away her entitled views. So much complaining, so much manipulation, but so little value...

glaasjejus · 2017-03-23T16:04:54+00:00

You're paying her rent. Nothing selfish about it.

Aphexwulf · 2017-03-23T20:07:19+00:00

Pretty much anytime a woman asks you a question she's shit-testing you.

RetiredTimeHo · 2017-03-23T17:48:23+00:00

Wait a minute? It's selfish to eat food? The food we need to survive and die without? The food we need for sustenance?

Holy fuckin shit...

Mac290 · 2017-03-23T17:23:59+00:00

Literally anything you say can be used agaisnt you. You're not james bond. Just say...uhh...yeah? what's my total?

clungey93 · 2017-03-23T19:31:18+00:00

Funny I had a similar experience recently whilst exchanging a few messages with a girl on tinder.

It was a weekend and I will often work Saturdays and Sundays. She asked me what I was up to, I said "Well I just got back from work and cooked a roast for dinner, what about you?", she replied with "Ah, who did you cook for?".

D_Oberman · 2017-03-23T15:53:41+00:00

Funny how women who live alone are in a state of constant bitterness about why "gud men" don't want to give her a hand up in life, yet when men go it alone it's because they're selfish...

thefifthestateusa · 2017-03-23T18:18:16+00:00

Women look at all men as though they are truly an ATM. They figure if they push the right buttons they can get money/resources dispensed to them. LMFAO

In_Monochrome_Night · 2017-03-23T15:56:45+00:00

Translation: "You're not enabling a cunt's selfish behavior!!??"

Hirudin · 2017-03-23T16:42:13+00:00

Gotta love the complete lack of introspection.

Keeping your own stuff for yourself - selfish.

Wanting to take someone else's stuff for yourself - somehow not selfish.

Ubernaut84 · 2017-03-23T15:16:08+00:00

Ask anyone why they had a baby, and they'll always start with the words, "I wanted-".

mofono · 2017-03-23T20:49:19+00:00

She expect you to give up your resources for her. Is that selfish?

Why is selfishness wrong for men but okay for women? Perhaps it's because the gynocracy has programmed men into thinking we must give up our resources to women, and women are taught that it is their right to extract resources from men.

FuckedExistence · 2017-03-23T15:51:45+00:00

What if your main purpose was for whatever reason to have a family? Wouldn't then having it be selfish? What if you didnt wanna be alone, and you were, why would that be selfish? They don't even know what the word means and use it out of context all the time. What about the old cunt that talked to you, because she wanted to do so, isn't she selfish?

exit-stage-right2 · 2017-03-23T16:37:39+00:00

Rejecting a man's or boy's advances is selfish. Ask her if she has said yes to every male that ever approached her. Hoarding your pussy for Chad is selfish. Double standard strikes again.

Wraith29 · 2017-03-23T21:23:37+00:00

Great quotes that came from r/MGTOW cited 3/23/2017

"Basically she was pissed that I was single and clearly fucking loving it."

awalt_mgtow

official nominee for the rank of BAMF, awalt_mgtow expressed ZFG and upheld the highest traditions of mgtow on this 23rd day of March, the year 2017.

Amen.

awalt_mgtow · 2017-03-23T17:47:01+00:00

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friendlessboob · 2017-03-23T18:36:21+00:00

Similar has happened to me at bars, women will start talking like them being a women is enough for me to want to talk to them, or buy them drinks etc..

To be clear, also have plenty of good conversations with normal women at bars, talk about how the Seahawks are doing, maybe exchange a funny story about raising kids, etc. but there is a subset who are boring and pushy and appear to have been coasting on their vaginas.

for transparency, i am old, divorced and have really let my self go, so its not like i am some prime real estate.

I am not sure if this is correct comment type for this sub, feel free to kick me.

tribalbandit · 2017-03-23T19:45:00+00:00

"Selfish...Why yes it is." you smile smugly as the jealousy floods her eyes.

ABrownLamp · 2017-03-23T15:43:20+00:00

I hate when late at night I go to the store to get a 6 pack and there's only one line open and the guy in front of me has a fuckin cart full of food.

Be-Positive · 2017-03-23T19:06:17+00:00

I'd have tried to get her fired for being rude to a customer. She has no right to call a paying customer selfish and she should shut the fuck up and get on with her fucking job! You did the right thing not retaliating though- I'm sure an argument would have made her feel better about herself and that smile and cool customer ( pun) presence will hopefully be more frustrating for her.

tux68 · 2017-03-23T20:07:25+00:00

confused look -- Steak is beef, not shell fish.

IslandicFreedom · 2017-03-23T21:00:47+00:00

It was her last resort to save some of her dignity. That typical "Fuck you I'm better than you no matter what" attitude you can expect to find in woman.

Very predictable and roll eyes, but at least you didn't fall for her bullshit.

HierEncore · 2017-03-23T17:55:42+00:00

Would you like me to double bag it for ya? *wink

SHD_Dynamo · 2017-03-23T18:52:06+00:00

I am a cashier, a lot of places force cashiers to make conversation. We are required to talk about something in the basket if we can't think of anything.

Mac290 · 2017-03-23T18:52:15+00:00

I don't know why shaming tactics even get brought up any more (although I find them amusing). It's always the same tactics verbatim.

a17c81a3 · 2017-03-23T20:36:17+00:00

They blew their best years and there will be about 2-3 generations of lost women until things turn. However when things turn it will be all the young girls that get chosen, not the post wallers.

huckleberryferry · 2017-03-23T20:48:42+00:00

I can't believe this, some people can be very daft—how is it "selfish" to enjoy what one has worked for, ALONE?

mutageno · 2017-03-23T21:57:32+00:00

You should report her to her manager. Customer service is the only situation where women are put in place. If genders were reversed the guy would get sacked. She'll get only a slap in the wrist, but it's something.

2017-03-23T15:00:53+00:00

Ah the liberated women. Isn't it great that feminism has freed her from the bondage of domestic servitude so she is free to pursue a rewarding career like grocery check out?

2017-03-23T15:20:16+00:00

Yet if you were a woman with salad fixings, yogurt, kale, tins of cat food and a box of wine you'd be Fierce and Empowered.

Quicksilver · 2017-03-23T20:37:07+00:00

"what, you cook all this food for yourself?" - "Not all at once." "Well isn't that a little selfish" - "No my dog's been dead for a few months now"

goadsaid · 2017-03-23T23:57:50+00:00

The thirsty women always work at grocery stores for some reason. I have no idea why but it's empirically evident to me at this point.

Kornstar04 · 2017-03-24T00:33:43+00:00

If a woman said the same as you, should would be embraced as independent, not men though. If we are not serving women, it's deemed selfish by society.

Fuck that, mgtow.

Taguroizumo · 2017-03-24T00:36:33+00:00

Congrats op, I don't want to be a cock but i kinda do, and my request is always when you are in that supermarket try to get the same cashier, and always ( if you can afford it) always up the ante, best steaks, best beers best everything and troll her as much as possible.

MiG35ToW · 2017-03-24T04:58:05+00:00

Gotta spend on some1 who doesn't love you.

Process_Killer · 2017-03-23T14:19:58+00:00

I could get aggressive really quick if some fucking cashier I've never met before decided she could pass judgement on my life based on what I choose to buy on one particular day. I mean, can you imagine a customer telling a cashier he's never met "wow, you're really ugly!". It would be out of line, so why does a cashier feel she's entitled to do this?

Anyway, the selfishness argument is something we've been brainswashed with since we were kids. I'm a widower, my dad's old, my daughter's young, so who's gonna fucking meet my needs if that's not me? You call it selfishness, I call it MGTOW :)

NrthnMonkey · 2017-03-23T16:43:08+00:00

She has probably been enduring some sort of 'customer support training' and was trying to make conversation/make you laugh.

Ghost141414 · 2017-03-23T18:30:56+00:00

Good answer

BaldurBaldur · 2017-03-23T20:17:38+00:00

Selfish? How? You deserve it. You earned it. - However, since you're a generous man, once in a while you like to invite Dave, Bill, Chad, Bob, Joe and the rest of your motorcycle gang over for a feast. Like tonight.

tannerwoody · 2017-03-23T20:58:35+00:00

There's a thing is psychology called projection, she is the selfish one.

Hernes777 · 2017-03-23T22:21:22+00:00

I had waitresses ask me what is wrong when I go out to enjoy a meal by myself. It does get annoying.

Jack0fDiamonds · 2017-03-23T22:43:34+00:00

I would've said "Yes." and laughed in her face.

Sinikal12 · 2017-03-23T23:47:44+00:00

Something doesn't add up, she was acting flirty around you but got mad that you're single?

syd-heich · 2017-03-24T08:24:39+00:00

Old hag had an attempt in mind to lure you into her cottage. It's always a feeble attempt from those who don't realise they're no longer wanted and I believe that when they do hit the wall they tend to have more sexual appetite where as a mans would decrease as testosterone becomes faint with age

Diam35 · 2017-03-24T15:05:59+00:00

lol that sounds like it was funny and annoying at the same time "well now, let's see here, wow look at all this food! now is all this food just for yourself or are you sharing with someone special? next question: don't you think that's just a little selfish?" haha picturing the interaction cracks me up.

insignificant_others · 2017-03-24T18:04:50+00:00

This is beautiful. There is nothing as beautiful as Someone asking you a question and you give them an answer outside their bubble

thefifthestateusa · 2017-03-23T18:18:37+00:00

You should have said "Takes one to know one!!"

RPthrowaway_007 · 2017-03-23T18:52:05+00:00

You should have reported her to her manager for being so rude to a loyal customer.

tconwk · 2017-03-23T22:01:34+00:00

gg wp

(no re)

cashmoney_x · 2017-03-23T13:16:17+00:00

You made this up or at the very least exaggerated. Guaranteed.

Title	Chatted up by a cashier
Author	awalt_mgtow
Upvotes	292
Comments	159
Date	March 23, 2017 12:33 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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