There's no way to make gender relations return to how they were in the 50s, from now on society will just become more and more degenerate that you will eventually see things like cuckholdry and poliamory being accepted and mainstream (don't try to tell me they are today), maybe even expected of the average joe.

Traditional societies on the other hand are too backwards to be sustainable. A country that doesn't embrace progressive values will lag behind the others regarding development and even a country who tries to balance modernization will eventually be overwhelmed by modernizing pressures, that's the trend even in authoritarian places like Iran and Saudi Arabia.

If you can't stagnate the wheel of history and you can't go backwards then you can only go forward. When the singularity happens and trans-humanism becomes a thing genders will lose relevance and humanity will start its path towards a future not that different from that of the Culture from Banks's book series. That's the only way men will finally be fine.