Look out for #1, ladies

sofiacarolina · 2020-05-29T04:55:03+00:00

Always guys that wouldnt text me all day then finally hit me up after midnight and my desperate ass would talk to them all night because “FINALLY HE WANTS TO TALK TO ME!!” 🤢🤢🤢 or theyd be spending all night trying to get me to go over their place as a last minute bootycall..and the amount of times I would excitedly immediately accept..embarrassing

Jamaylay · 2020-05-29T03:08:51+00:00

Ugh this is how the last guy was, always keeping me up even though I get up at 5am for work (partially my fault for being a pick me) Always because he was drunk too and claiming this was the last time and he’s gonna cut back on drinking. Yeah, ok. He said that about 50 times. Found this sub and blocked his punk ass.

JesusisKingisLord · 2020-05-29T04:32:31+00:00

Oh boy. I called in sick to work once because I was deeply infatuated with my ex when we started dating, and I'd stay up on the phone talking and get two hours of sleep multiple nights in a row. I was so exhausted that I had to call in sick. I won't be doing that again!

saltyandpepa · 2020-05-29T03:01:39+00:00

Sleep > everything! It may sound silly but sleep is so important for your health in so many ways, and I give it up for no one and nothing.

2020-05-29T03:19:15+00:00

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lemon_hearts · 2020-05-29T07:09:32+00:00

The amount of time I've wasted on some people is unreal

theasianvampire · 2020-05-29T08:39:53+00:00

A man who actually cares about you will always make sure you have enough sleep.

Alexamaria · 2020-05-29T02:19:43+00:00

And they really had to use a dusty male too. Accurate.

SaltKoala · 2020-05-29T04:28:59+00:00

Made me lol but I did used to do this in college with my now husband. With the right person it can be worth it. I wouldn’t have done this had I been working though, i didn’t have class until noon most of my college years so it wasn’t so bad.

WhoAreYouWhoAreWe · 2020-05-29T06:57:44+00:00

Wow this actually hurt my feelings

HoneyBouquet · 2020-05-29T12:42:13+00:00

My precious sleep is more important than any man.

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-05-29T02:50:54+00:00

This was cute in middle school but people with jobs shouldn't be doing this. And no "let's talk while I/you drive back home to my place" either. Actually I hate phone calls anyway. Would rather converse in person so I can read their body language.

srkambbs1 · 2020-05-29T03:24:23+00:00

☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️

tonha_da_pamonha · 2020-05-29T11:30:35+00:00

Well actually I married him because no other guy ever talked to me that long. My husband loved talking to me so much we would stay up until 2 talking every night.

sanguine_duality · 2020-05-29T14:28:14+00:00

I hate that this is so universal.

supremelyparanoid · 2020-05-29T10:51:56+00:00

Oh shit I’m being attacked rn

4-20characters · 2020-05-29T03:35:28+00:00

*Unless they're your girlfriends!

HornetKick · 2020-05-29T19:07:30+00:00

Yep I've done this for a guy and he even told me that is how he can tell if a girl really likes him, by her accepting his phone call at 1AM or something ridiculous like this because during our second late night call I was falling asleep. Looking back, Sleep felt better than he did.

Codedress · 2020-05-30T06:33:56+00:00

Damn I found myself talking to a LVM every day at a certain time of the day and then realizing that due to the time difference (5 hours) in HIS country it was past 11pm!. it certainly broke my heart but blocking him when I realized his fuckboy actions certainly felt better.

eucalyptusiscool · 2020-07-11T22:42:59+00:00

Power move: when he late night texts you, instead of ignoring him, reply “Hello. I’m about to go to sleep as it’s late, I’ll reach out tommorow.Goodnight” it sets boundaries .

NihilistElfPrincess · 2020-05-29T08:05:51+00:00

why? It made you happy while it was happening. It’s okay for it not to work out but just have those nice memories

ShowMeTheHoneyPot · 2020-05-29T20:17:11+00:00

Asleep in bed next to me every night.

girludontbringhome · 2020-05-29T03:41:57+00:00

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Title	Look out for #1, ladies
Author	LeftistEpicure
Upvotes	1118
Comments	49
Date	May 29, 2020 2:18 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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