The treatment of this girl is intolerable - is she a butthole for not attending her bf's wedding, yall?

iasminag · 2020-03-04T11:49:38+00:00

What type of mental gymnastics is this fuckery?!

m4dam3x · 2020-03-04T12:35:43+00:00

Watch: “A Suitable Girl” on Netflix. That documentary will make you mad.

I believe this story and feel bad for her and him. The arranged marriage practices in India and from Indian culture are truly fucked up.

delicateearthbabe · 2020-03-04T11:45:45+00:00

What the fuck did I just read?

InayahDaneen · 2020-03-04T13:39:23+00:00

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balladwilds · 2020-03-04T12:54:33+00:00

this genuinely makes me so sad

FashionTech537 · 2020-03-04T14:07:20+00:00

You should have read the one where this brother refused to invite his brothers GF because her family wouldn’t accept his brother as her BF.

JOEYMAMI2015 · 2020-03-04T15:04:58+00:00

My brain just turned to mush after reading this....

This reminds me of my Bengali Muslim friend who was with another Bengali Muslim male but I guess he was from a different social class than her. Well, they dated for a few years before he married someone else BEHIND HER BACK!

Of course, she was heartbroken when she found out but thankfully, she cut off all contact. The scrote even had the nerve to try to get a hold of her after the wedding smh.

Bovvsette · 2020-03-04T13:29:53+00:00

Vetting the family early on is very important, especially if they're strongly influencing him, being controlling and he is being easily led, or enabling them being outrageous with you. You want support, trust and teamwork, not an exhausting tug of war for him, that is rigged against you from the very beginning.

m4dam3x · 2020-03-04T14:58:31+00:00

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GlitterLoveAngel · 2020-03-04T12:21:21+00:00

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naenita_ · 2020-03-04T17:11:10+00:00

What killed me is she's saying they'll continue their relationship until the wedding.

Then she corrects herself and says they'll continue their relationship until before her boyfriend and bride meet.

No sis, he needs to be the ex boyfriend since the day he chose his family over you. Begin the healing process.

jetpatch · 2020-03-04T15:57:59+00:00

Kidults, a 26 year old man can't stick up for himself to his parents, get rid. The beef thing is just nonsense and even if it was a concern she previously ate it and doesn't eat it now. The parents just don't like her, maybe it's racism or maybe they want an innocent village girl they can use as a free maid, and the boyfriend will know that.

I also note not a single person in this story gives a shit about that poor woman being shipped over to marry a man in love with someone else. No wonder his sisters like her, they envy her because she can just walk away from that life while they are stuck there.

coconutcurrychicken · 2020-03-04T18:00:06+00:00

Holy shit, this EXACT THING happened to a former friend of mine. She is a grade A pick me too.

Indian men often date white women before settling down with the arranged Indian woman their parents will pick for them. It’s because white women are known to be loose and the guys want to have fun before they settle down.

My friend dated a guy from her job who was here from India. Same thing with the parents too—they hated her and said they’d never be in the same room with her because she ate beef. They were dating right until he got on a plane (in June too, that’s their wedding month) and married the Indian girl. Told her over the phone that he did actually want to go through with the wedding and he was happy. He had led my friend to believe he’d stand his arranged wife up at the altar to be with my friend instead (yeah right).

subprincessthrway · 2020-03-04T18:45:52+00:00

Absolutely no fucking way, this is insane! He doesn’t really love her if he won’t stick up to his parents. My boyfriend is Muslim (I’m Christian,) and right away his parents started with the “you can’t stay over at her apartment until you’re engaged” nonsense, and he shut it right down. They are both adults, they can move away, make a new life together. Also, kind of disgusting that they don’t seem to be considering this poor girl that’s being forced to marry a man who doesn’t want to be with her.

lillycrack · 2020-03-04T15:40:36+00:00

What kind of adult man can’t marry the woman he wants? I get cultures but this guy clearly doesn’t live in a Hindu country and no one would resent him for choosing the woman he loves over the parents who judge her solely on previous diet. Is he unable to function without mommy and daddy? Why care about the approval and conditional love of parents who are so cruel?

He let himself get bullied into marrying someone else because he is a weak LVM. She needs to grow without him and not going to the wedding is the right choice.

chungkingxbricks · 2020-03-04T16:12:48+00:00

Disgusting.

pinkyberries · 2020-03-04T22:27:11+00:00

This is why you should NEVER date someone who is from a religious family that's outside of your religion.

She decided to stay and date him aka give him free p*ssy before he marries a virgin.

nosynobody · 2020-03-05T05:54:27+00:00

I bet it's india. By the way this girl is pickmeisha extraordinaire because she's choosing a man who isn't picking her. He must have been cheating with his fiance for months. I know two couples who had the same religious differences with the parents threatening disowning. Both of them stuck to their grounds and one of the them have gotten married while the other couple in their 30s have not married anyone else. They are hoping to wear their parents down.

This guy is a spineless coward who led the poor girl on while picking a safe virgin hindu bride. Makes me gag honestly.

Anyway india is LVM galore. Honestly it's better to stay single than marry someone in this country. To implement FDS in this pickmeisha country is a massive task

Minerva129 · 2020-03-04T13:34:51+00:00

Definitely not ta. Although at least she got to meet the fam and knew what was going on. My bf of 1.5 yrs dumped me at Thanksgiving with a single text message that his parents arranged it and he was getting married that day. Haven't heard from him since.

Iprotestthetest · 2020-03-04T15:40:30+00:00

Title	The treatment of this girl is intolerable - is she a butthole for not attending her bf's wedding, yall?
Author	Celestine87
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Date	March 4, 2020 11:42 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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