Re: the discussion yesterday about posts on r/relationships

babyturtle1995 · 2020-01-09T19:57:10+00:00

Idk if my favorite part is she described throwing leftovers in a microwave as “super nice” or the casually added part about his addiction.

Maisiebr · 2020-01-09T19:57:36+00:00

Heated up some leftovers for her birthday.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-01-09T20:15:55+00:00

These types of women then turn around and tell us that being single is worse, or that "yOu'Re gIvIng mE aLL tHiS dAtInG aDvIcE bUt yOu'Re sInGLe!".

It is BETTER to be alone and die alone than to be treated like this. This is GARBAGE TREATMENT from an arrogant, apathetic male who can't even be bothered to pretend to care about his wife or her birthday. He didn't even bother to make time to hangout with her.

Sis you can heat up your own leftovers and ignore yourself better than this asshole can for your birthday :/ . Where is her cake??? Where is her birthday gift??? Where is her jewelry? Her nice vacation, or planned gesture?? She worked a 12 hour day. Did she come home to a cleaned house from top to bottom and a massage??? Did he EVEN say "happy birthday?"

This is a HOT MESS! She should have left him years ago. I hope this serves as a wake up call and the kick in the ass she needs to finally get out.

IN CASE IT IS NOT CLEAR..... THIS IS MALE BULLSHIT AND APATHY ON FULL DISPLAY. HE DOESN'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT HIS WIFE AND SHE IS TOLERATING BULLSHIT FROM HIM ON HER BIRTHDAY.

DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO FUCKING BULLSHIT FROM THESE MEN!

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2020-01-09T21:32:00+00:00

I saw this and went ballistic. Reheated leftovers on my birthday, he's a drug addict and cheats, should I leave?

Like...wow. It gave me goosebumps how bad this is.

extraacct1234 · 2020-01-09T20:00:18+00:00

Amnnnd this is what happens when you pick a guy at 19 for yourself.

drragonbones · 2020-01-09T20:49:51+00:00

This story is like a fucking Paula Cole song. Instead of trying to improve trash, improve YOURSELF. It's not women's job to raise men out of the gutter. As soon as women start taking control of their lives and not allowing them to be dictated by losers, sociopaths and narcissists, we will all be better off.

SslimReaperr · 2020-01-09T23:45:31+00:00

This is my greatest fear. I’d happily rather end up alone than with a shitstain man who disrespected me as much as OP’s husband. Jesus christ why do some women accept this shit?

nebulaedust · 2020-01-10T04:48:40+00:00

LMAO my boyfriend prepares me a breakfast, lunch and a snack to work every goddamn day to ensure I eat like a decent human being and she calls throwing leftovers on a plate "super nice". Yeah no

kaoutanu · 2020-01-10T04:05:41+00:00

It breaks my heart when I read advice requests from women who are being treated awfully by some scrote, and they finish up with "we have two kids together"; or a newborn baby, or she's 8 months pregnant and he's cheating already.

Be super careful you know that guy before you have his babies. Dont get tied to a nightmare for life. Becoming a daddy won't turn a LVM into a HVM, in fact it turns some HVM into LVM.

We live in an age where (with notable infuriating exceptions) we have control over our fertility that our maternal forebears could only dream of. Take full advantage of this. Your great great great grandmammy who had 14 kids lived in an era where marital rape was A-OK. She would have been on the pill or down at the abortion clinic in a flash if she'd had the option.

Parking-Act · 2020-01-09T19:59:56+00:00

Although, I have had terrible experiences with men as a recovering pickmeisha, I wasn't even thinking about dating at 19. She's been with him since she was 19!!! I was still figuring out if I wanted a skateboard or bike at 19! Unfortunately,she has children with him. Someone even made a post about how its harder to leave if there is more than 1 child. Sighhh. This just really saddens me that women just settle for the lowest of the low. I'm grateful for this sub and being enlightened but this womans story truly saddens me.

thewetdog_ · 2020-01-10T00:50:26+00:00

I actually gasped in real life when I read this because there’s was just other post yesterday about women leaving with one kid but being trapped with two.

I can’t speak for anybody but sounds like if she just had the one kid she’d split like 🍌 💔💔🥺

sadpourtoujours · 2020-01-10T18:26:45+00:00

Oh god. There’s just so much wrong. Why do women allow themselves to tolerate this shit.

sweatydeath · 2020-01-09T20:03:09+00:00

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Title	Re: the discussion yesterday about posts on r/relationships
Author	babyturtle1995
Upvotes	123
Comments	34
Date	January 9, 2020 7:55 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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