Don’t waste your precious time and energy trying to convince low value men to treat you right.

BellaStayFly · 2019-12-04T19:12:24+00:00

One of the last things I said to my ex was “I shouldn’t have to convince you to treat me well.” So this really hits home. He was not like that in the beginning of the relationship, but the more comfortable he got, the worse he acted. We talked so many times about problems in our relationship, but he was never willing to change his behavior. I woke up and realized I don’t want someone I have to change or direct. I want someone who brings their best self to our relationship and makes my life better just for being in it. If a guy can’t do that, I’ll stay single!

Ms_Tilly · 2019-12-04T18:26:09+00:00

I don't know where these so called good men who treat you right are. Rare indeed.

viper8472 · 2019-12-04T20:31:28+00:00

I agreed with this until I saw the word "disposable."

High value women don't "dispose" of people. We treat everyone with respect, and match our mates' effort when we like them and they invest in us.

A high value woman doesn't screech from the mountain top about what a queen she is and that she demands respect. She knows her value and looks for someone who has the same value to give.

I understand that this attitude is a stepping stone for those of us who have suffered in bad relationships and are traveling to that place of believing in ourselves. Sometimes we have to affirm ourselves because no one else has. But that does not mean that in our affirmation we truly talk about other human beings as "disposable" or "trash." I'm my opinion, the highest value woman doesn't talk about other people this way, she simply applies her care and effort back to her partner as he shows respect, kindness, and investment.

sweatydeath · 2019-12-04T17:55:08+00:00

This pretty much summarizes FDS strategy in a nutshell. Great post OP!

kikii07 · 2019-12-05T09:14:53+00:00

Because sadly some women are encouraged to still be with low value men because that's the best they could do sadly.

madeofsweetpotatoes · 2019-12-05T10:40:34+00:00

Yesssss

Inb4 seething males PM you “yeah, until you hit the wall bitch, huehuehuehue”

EurasianEmpress · 2019-12-04T21:45:50+00:00

I'm not any man's daddy so I shouldn't be teaching him how to treat a woman.

hanella · 2019-12-04T21:46:51+00:00

I find it so sad that this is the kind of lesson most women need to learn first hand. I used to be so stubborn about my asshole ex, until I learnt through experience.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2019-12-04T18:03:37+00:00

I saw this posted in r/trashy the other day lol. People ARE disposable, not sure how someone got offended by this post.

okayrightsickcool · 2019-12-04T19:42:08+00:00

needed this one today! i hate that i’m compelled to change a person when i’d be better off ignoring them smh

MiaNaim · 2019-12-04T22:59:12+00:00

Yaaaaaas!!! This is a mood. I'm over having to constantly communicate my expectations, needs, and wants.

Whatprophetssay · 2019-12-04T18:08:58+00:00

This is the greatest god damn thing I’ve seen ❤️

ritablueboys1 · 2019-12-04T21:18:58+00:00

My ex fwb never wanted me to say "you can be replaced" because "you cant take words back"

extraacct1234 · 2019-12-04T21:14:53+00:00

Well this sub is just about dead. it's absolutely full of pickmes crying out for poor men.

Aurora_Borealiz · 2019-12-05T01:31:18+00:00

I literally just learned this after a three year relationship of hell. This is such a good reminder.

ilikekittensandstuff · 2019-12-05T01:36:20+00:00

Needed this today. Thank you.

Vittoria_z23 · 2019-12-05T02:06:56+00:00

This is absolutely right

gender_clitical · 2019-12-04T21:02:45+00:00

Date women, much better.

ritablueboys1 · 2019-12-04T21:17:13+00:00

These are facts!

2019-12-04T22:15:32+00:00

I look at women in general and their behaviors in this sexual market competition, and I keep on asking myself why do these women do what they do and why do they think it's worth it. Ages ago, we didn't have as much of an advanced makeup product lines, plastic surgeries. Women modified in different ways and to different extend in different cultures. They think of new fashions senses and styles to outcompete each other, and their audience is clearly men who get to decide which styles (e.g. fat ass) get to be popular. With the explosion of internet and popularization of promiscuity, we start seeing porn standards seeping into real life relationship dynamics. They keep on one-upping each other, and that's where we are at today with the most advanced medical technological breakthroughs. Women used to just play around clothes and fabrics, now they are playing with body parts and silicons.

Title	Don’t waste your precious time and energy trying to convince low value men to treat you right.
Author	pumpernick3l
Upvotes	1448
Comments	64
Date	December 4, 2019 5:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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