Women don't let these men trick you into dumb shit like this. You are not obligated to get an iud for his pleasure.

rad_daphne · 2019-11-15T21:58:16+00:00

"some men can't come with condoms." Good. Then they'll know exactly how we feel when we have sex with them.

sweatydeath · 2019-11-15T20:38:59+00:00

Yeah that’s a total myth. I had a partner try to convince me of this but once he saw that it was either my way or the high way he came in the condom like a big boy lmao

even_thriller · 2019-11-16T07:56:00+00:00

I have an IUD because I wanted one but any dude that I have sex with is wearing a condom. They're cheaper than any STDs.

Pizza-n-Lice · 2019-11-15T20:27:52+00:00

The pill is totally harmless so obviously we should all just take it so the poor man doesn't have to wear condoms. His pleasure is more important than the woman's health so stop being mean and hurting his feelings. And for the women who are willing to put up with his bullshit, I doubt he offers to get tested for STIs first.

jewdy09 · 2019-11-15T20:28:27+00:00

If the difference between a condom and no condom is so dramatic, why do men rarely notice when a condom breaks?

ManchurianCantaloupe · 2019-11-15T20:44:48+00:00

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2019-11-15T21:04:41+00:00

They were upset that I usually had to receive oral or masturbate

it's not "deathgrip"

Lol yes it is.

lightningboltx · 2019-11-15T21:59:15+00:00

Imagine thinking women care if you orgasm 😂😂

greatmanatee2 · 2019-11-16T03:58:48+00:00

Honestly I don’t fuck with hormonal birth control. I tried the pill and it made me so moody, my libido was on a fat 0, I was so depressed. Tried a few difference brands, they always had horrible side effects like weight gain... almost died from it because I had to have an emergency surgery and my blood clotted a lot more than expected and had a huge blood clot bump in my arm for ages just waiting for it to travel into my heart and kill me. And I’ve explained this to partners who have asked me to go back on the pill and they’re still like “but condoms just don’t feel as good can you try again for me :(“ get the FUCK outta here you weasel.

Spicy-kitty · 2019-11-15T20:38:07+00:00

Women don't owe you sex, get over it.

2019-11-16T00:23:16+00:00

Okay guess you don't cum then ¯_(ツ)_/¯

iasminag · 2019-11-16T11:32:16+00:00

To be honest, I don’t really care if they can’t cum with condoms. You knew the terms before we got down to it, if you don’t enjoy it, let’s not have sex!

I can’t use pills and the implants mess my sustem up so bad that I don’t even recognise myself. I’d rather not put my body though that, thanks.

All I can say to the male lurkers: we don’t always orgasm but we can still enjoy it, maybe try to enjoy the sex without thinking of the finalisation?

greatmanatee2 · 2019-11-16T19:36:07+00:00

This comment ONLY GOT 17 UPVOTES:

Right? This guy is advocating in a comment to break up with people who can't be on hormonal BC. He is incredibly entitled and bordering on misogynistic in his pushing of reproductive responsibility on women. He is also fighting with women who say X BC doesn't work for them because of X really severe reason. His response was "sorry that happened but my statement stands correct". An absolute ass

This guy is disgusting.

And this got only 28:

Wow, I hope you make sure all your partners are clean and dont fuck around too much, just for the sake of bot spreading STD. Condoma suck. So does unwanted pregnancy and STD. Honestly you come off as a crybaby without a care for the other person beyond using them as a masturbatory aid.

r/sex is clearly way too male dominated and should be approached with caution.

Terfitup · 2019-11-15T20:30:56+00:00

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2019-11-16T01:42:49+00:00

No condom, not happening.

No exceptions. One UTTERANCE of complaint and we are done, permanently. A man who refuses to wear a condom does not give a shit about your health or safety.

Lastly: "get over it" is the mantra of the abusive asshole.

/ old lady

tendervittles903 · 2019-11-16T03:23:46+00:00

I literally don’t care if his orgasm is “mundane” because of a condom.

ino_y · 2019-11-16T01:01:40+00:00

Softcock? sounds like perfect birth control to me!

PIV does nothing for me, sign me up for dudes who can't keep it up.

falconersys · 2019-11-18T14:26:45+00:00

Holy shit. Getting an IUD was hands-down the most painful thing I've ever experienced in my life. If some dude thinks I'd do that just so he can bust a nut, he's not a clown, he's the entire circus.

GCchick · 2019-12-08T17:58:54+00:00

This guy doesn't realise the abundance of men that are perfectly fine wearing a condom. He's selecting himself out of our dating pool. Bye bye!

Ms_Tilly · 2019-11-16T22:15:50+00:00

I'm just over here not giving a shit if a man cums or not. Let me get mine and then finish yourself off or I'll do it. My ex could barely cum even without a condom, but I'd get mine anyway. It was a win I wasn't used to after all the 60 second men I dated. If condoms can make him last long enough to satisfy a woman then I am all for it.

Title	Women don't let these men trick you into dumb shit like this. You are not obligated to get an iud for his pleasure.
Author	Terfitup
Upvotes	126
Comments	42
Date	November 15, 2019 8:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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