I hate, hate, hate how bdsm people are like "but it is not abuse if she consented" well someone who self harmed also consented and did it themselves does that make it okay? If not how is abuse with consent any different.

But I bet if men suddenly started liking women self harming themselves it would be featured in porn and we women would be called boring for not cutting our wrist for our man, by libfem who claim to stand for women, men and even pickmes who are right wing.

Seriously the best thing to do in 21 century is not to interact with men other than professionally,that is if you want a safe and happy long life.

And another thing is how bdsm and religions have so much in common. Whenever you point out how flawed and dangerous their cults is, they always hit you with the "that is not the real bdsm/religion educate yourself in it!" while you did.

And I find it so sad that normal, healthy and fun sex is called "boring" and "vanilla" I have been shamed so much by my friends and on internet because I didn't want to be tortured for some men's dick.