Men with bad diets are automatically LV

Liz_Lemondrop · 2019-12-06T08:42:42+00:00

To add to this -- a man will sabotage your efforts at health. At one point I lost a lot of weight and started dating a rugby player who looked like a lot of local rugby players do: kinda fat. He laughed at my diet progress and said he would try and sabotage me. I was dickmatized and didn't see that for the huge red flag it was. And he was right, he would make fun of my meal prep, complain about me cooking "rabbit food" at home (he would rather eat out every meal), and basically made it doubly difficult for me to keep up with my progress. He didn't care that he and I could eat the same foods and he would stay "chubby" and I would gain way faster, and ultimately he proved he didn't care about me at all when he cheated on me multiple times.

Lazy, overweight men aren't just hurting themselves, they'll hurt you too.

PlatyupsCommittee · 2019-12-06T01:56:26+00:00

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themissdaydreamer · 2019-12-06T12:46:44+00:00

Bad eating habbits also equals immaturity. It's not like I eat my veggies because they I think they taste like a whopper, I eat them because I must be healthy in order to live my best life. It is so frustrating when you take care of yourself and your man looks like a 10 year old fat kid who refuses to eat carrots because 'their mom forced them to eat as a child and now he's 'traumatized''.

jalapenopancakes · 2019-12-06T01:57:22+00:00

Dump him if he eats like a child too. Picky eaters are for the birds.

darkhorse8419 · 2019-12-06T11:55:04+00:00

I’ve been a RN for fifteen years, and I refuse to take care of anyone when I’m finally old enough to retire. I broke up with a man who was diabetic because he still ate like crap. Nope, not me.

level_up_always · 2019-12-06T08:01:31+00:00

I have started telling them it makes their cum taste like shit, and that motivates them more than actually eating healthy. Ew.

midgetsinheaven · 2019-12-06T07:21:33+00:00

I once broke up with a guy based on his diet alone. He ate candy ALL THE TIME. It was a nonstop sugar rush for him. It was fast food for all the major meals and then snacking on candy. We couldn't eat together because I didn't want to eat at McDonald's and Taco Bell every day. After a month I called it quits and I was very honest about my reasons why. He was totally shocked and couldn't understand why I would break up with him over something so "petty." I ALWAYS pay attention to diet of the person I'm dating. If they care enough about themselves to treat their body right, that's one step closer into knowing they'd treat you right too.

ino_y · 2019-12-06T02:10:59+00:00

A ~~dad bod~~ fat gut is just a warning that he's at risk of heart disease

https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/allthemoms/2018/07/20/how-your-waist-size-affects-your-health/783178002/

dunjxx · 2019-12-06T07:39:26+00:00

DO.NOT.DATE.MEN.WITH.HORRIIBLE.DIET! yeah it might not be visible on their bodies when they are young but even then, sex won't be good, i guarantee that. Especially if they don't drink water

MetalKittyy · 2019-12-06T02:45:23+00:00

Plus their semen tastes like 💩💩💩

masterofthebarkarts · 2019-12-06T14:41:51+00:00

My husband was raised basically without fresh vegetables and was a "picky eater". I told him directly that I wouldn't be putting up with that and from day 1 he would eat anything and everything. He's still not a great cook but he can keep himself alive, which is my minimum. Also, and this is critical, he NEVER complains about anything I make and he is actively appreciative of all the veggies in his life.

An ignorant man with a positive attitude who realizes that he needs to do better but doesn't know how *might* be worth your time (or not, you do you sis). A man who chooses ignorance and is proud of being a disgusting unhealthy slob with backwards attitudes ("salad is gay") will absolutely NEVER be worth your time.

icantfigureredditout · 2019-12-06T04:47:01+00:00

I lose all interest if I find out that they don’t drink water.

EurasianEmpress · 2019-12-06T11:33:34+00:00

It’s not just about physical health, either. Just being proactive in taking taking care of himself is the bare minimum of being a grown ass man (as it is for women). If he won’t take care of himself, then he won’t take care of you, either.

funky_worms · 2019-12-06T12:45:14+00:00

“Because other positions are too difficult for him or will give him a heart attack” i actually laughed out loud. True though. Not taking care of yourself is beyond unattractive

Harriett- · 2019-12-06T03:17:59+00:00

Fat or fattish(?) men are a big no. It’s literally the biggest indicator of a lazy, irresponsible man. Also when he starts to age it will become worse, you won’t even want to f him anymore. And if he loses weight, the sudden attention will make him think he is too good for you. Take him when he is in his best shape.

leftclicksq2 · 2019-12-06T20:05:34+00:00

I agree and disagree with this in the vein that not all men's diets consist of bacon, steak, etc. I have dated men who weren't afraid of a smoothie, salads, and quite honestly trying a variety of foods.

What I have found is that (certain) men are eager to try something different when their partner is also eager to. They don't want to dislike something and disappoint you, especially if they really like you! Whether we went out, cooked together at home, or took a cooking class (highly recommend as a date night), for me planning an activity where we can both make healthy choices is a lot of fun!

However, I do want to extend this experience to others:

One guy I dated was the exact description of the background for this thread. Whenever I tried cooking for him, he shot down my efforts. I asked him if he liked salmon, he said yes, so I surprised him after work with salmon and vegetables. He took one bite, put down his fork, and said, "if this were chili I made, I would be putting bacon fat drippings and it would be the best chili you've ate!" Thinking it was because he was tired, I excused it away. I made a few more attempts with other foods (handmade Rollitini, for example, which took hours with the pasta dough) and still not even a thank you, just criticism that it wasn't a burger from his favorite brewpub. How many times do you think I made the effort going forward?

His mom constantly voiced about how worried she was about his weight. He packed on weight before we met, smoked, but while we were together, he made no effort to engage in activities where we were walking around. I really cared for this person, so to me it was of merit to start with food.

When we went out, he was throwing back at least six beers and burying his face in his phone. Then he'd hand me the keys to drive his car. Occasions where we would get together with his friends, he would openly joke about being a functioning alcoholic and that we (he) "needed to work on upping my tolerance". Well shit, I'm always the designated driver; at least one of us is responsible.

A reasonable and realistic way to look at things is that taste in food and/or habits aren't always going to change. Take it in stride and have fun. However, when someone continually shoots down your efforts and can't even extend a simple thank you, that's when you really need to take a very hard look at the situation and re-evaluate if your time is better spent elsewhere. Lastly, it's not like I never told him how his actions were hurting my feelings. He would just shrug and say, "Aww, my poor lady". It was the equivalent to patting a puppy on the head. My uncle (God rest his soul), told me he wanted to deck my ex when he overheard that comment.

No man would treat his dream girl like this, so why should you accept it?

Lakersrock111 · 2019-12-06T20:20:11+00:00

Oh so true!! I dated one of those muscle men! He was ripped but boy was he dumb when it came to nutrition!! I ate meat then too but I discovered the WFPB diet by Dr. Colin T Campbell and have been working toward 100% WFPB. I don’t eat gluten, dairy, or caffeine (very very rarely), or drink. My libido is through the roof!

PM_ME_USEFUL_ADVICE · 2019-12-06T04:46:55+00:00

Thanks for sharing your insights, sis. This is so true.

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Title	Men with bad diets are automatically LV
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Date	December 6, 2019 1:48 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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