Does anyone actually enjoy spending time with their LTRs?

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July 2, 2020
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Since becoming RedPill aware I have noticed I don't actually enjoy spending non sexual time with my LTRs, I get the feeling I could be doing something more productive (even when it's scheduled downtime). Back when I was bluepilled i would count down the days until i got to spend time with my then onetheis, pathetic.

Even in current LTR most the time we just fuck and watch a film or go on a walk. We travel quite a bit but I have to say I actually prefer travelling on my own.

Is anyone in the same boat?


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Title Does anyone actually enjoy spending time with their LTRs?
Author HypergamyDoesntCare
Upvotes 85
Comments 126
Date 02 July 2020 03:53 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/702168
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/hjzj09/does_anyone_actually_enjoy_spending_time_with/
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[–]bruiser18513 points514 points  (18 children) | Copy

Why the fuck would one have an LTR if you don’t enjoy spending time with her lmao

[–]badabing654275 points276 points  (2 children) | Copy

Because he's red pilled and based broooooo

[–]babybopp61 points62 points  (1 child) | Copy

Monk mode!!!!

[–]i-am-the-prize91 points92 points  (1 child) | Copy

exactly. if she's not adding value to your life, why LTR? to put the poon on lockdown? lame.

[–]gordoburrito4156 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

She’a probably already cheated on him judging by OP’s post

[–][deleted]  (8 children) | Copy

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[–]bruiser1834 points35 points  (3 children) | Copy

Not if you’ve instilled in yourself outcome independence, IDGAF and abundance mentality like you’re supposed to.

[–][deleted]  (2 children) | Copy

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[–]Escape_From_Betacraz5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

What the guy before you meant is that it shouldn't matter to you if you're on top of your game all the time.

Firstly, if you're genuinely high value she probably won't leave any way, no reason to keep an act up all the time. Just make sure YOU are enjoying yourself.

Secondly, if she leaves because you fucked up, who gives a fuck? Get a new one and start over. I'd rather been having fun for a few months for her to then leave me, that constantly being on like the faggot OP in hopes of keeping her longer while not even enjoying my time spent with her.

If your trying to be on your game 95% of the time, you're putting her on a pedestal and are doing it because you're afraid to lose her.

Don't be a dancing monkey, just be a good version of yourself.

[–]excinder0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

this

[–]MrTrizzles28 points29 points  (3 children) | Copy

If you have to think about holding frame, you’ve already lost it.

[–]robot3000_016 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

THIS.

[–][deleted]  (1 child) | Copy

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[–]rockyp324 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

frame is fucking stupid. its cool to be aware of it but i think its counter prdocutive. do all the other things right and youll naturally control the frame

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

right. if anything, that's a sign to jump ship

[–]1DullIntroduction8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Because semantics. Change girlfriend (in the bluepilled sense of the term) to LTR, and voila, you're RP. Except it's actually just a plate.

No real change is applied, no spinning is done.

[–]E9er0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

REAL TALK! FACTS! these blue pills with their gf’s thinking they’re RP. haha

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's pretty much the size of it. I didn't choose FunSize or FanGirl because they were the best cock suckers of all the boring and annoying bitches who have ever sucked my cock.

They're fun to be with. If yours aren't, dump them.

[–]Psychological_Radish140 points141 points  (22 children) | Copy

I don't have a LTR now, but I did enjoy actual dates with my previous girl. She was a lot of fun to be with. I don't know what to tell you other than maybe your girls are just boring.

This idea that one always has to be productive at every minute of every day is a strange modern phenomenon. I've been noticing it more and more lately among the younger generation, especially with the MGTOW types.

[–]jackandjill226 points7 points  (19 children) | Copy

There's always something better you could be doing. When I'm working on something even my family knows I can disappear for weeks at a time. If I would brush off calls from people who are the nearest to unconditional relationships wtf would I waste my time with a disposable bitch who only leeches from my life?

  • Women especially, to men who're productive are compartmentalized into a certain small segment of our lives. Guys who can't do that end up with messy lives because women are Fucking messy.

(Edit: the reason you probably see it proliferating among zoomers/millennials is probably because of departures from previous expectations of gender/masculinity roles & also because of lack of financial security because of concurrent Recessions; these real issues are changing our priorities)

[–]Psychological_Radish22 points23 points  (3 children) | Copy

There's always something better you could be doing.

More MGTOW fortune cookie wisdom.

[–]jackandjill2224 points25 points  (2 children) | Copy

That's a timeless lesson in frame, for RPer's regardless of their age. As they say:

  • PUA - All game, no frame.

  • MGTOW - All frame, no game.

Seems these forums have forgotten some of the best lessons taught by it's Vanguard users.

[–]Kannonn8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Sums it up well.

It's the product/sales situation-- quality features vs quality marketing.

To reach your full potential you're going to need both.

[–]proactive-defense3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I hate purchasing a product where they’ve clearly put all the effort into marketing, and none into the product. Like what did they expect was going to happen, I’d get a shit product and just be like “well I was hype for it”

https://ruqqus.com/signup?ref=oakly

[–]boiiihowdy9 points10 points  (8 children) | Copy

Why would you waste your time with "a disposable bitch who only leeches from my life?". Easy, you wouldn't. That would be stupid. But, just because something is messy (and women definitely are) doesn't mean it's a waste of time. I think you need to invest in the people around you (especially for a LTR), but ensure they're the right people. Of course you wouldn't want to spend time with someone you didn't like and viewed as a waste of your time. Most people use LTRs as a means to marriage, or something very akin to that. So it seems pretty simple to me, don't date someone you wouldn't at least consider marrying. Date people that definitely have the same values as you and enjoy some of the same things, then you don't feel like you're wasting your time, because you aren't.

[–]proactive-defense4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

As JBP says, you need to orient yourself properly in the world of chaos and order.

[–]_-resonance-_1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

JBP? And I’m with u/jackandjill22. His bullet point and the paragraph above it are pure gold. Pure. Gold.

[–]proactive-defense1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bingo.

[–]jackandjill224 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

I definitely agree & appreciate the reply, but just as an observation. Quality of women has dramatically dropped as of late, most are Tinder/Onlyfans IG Thot's. I wouldn't expect for a quality girl to drop out of the sky tbh especially without putting in work to find her in the first place.

[–]Noodlesoupe20 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

sounds like sour grapes tbh my guy

[–]jackandjill222 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is it wrong? You act like I'm exaggerating or something. Or are you just being naive?

[–]Whale FuckerPilomtrees0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Uh it’s the truth though. But we are still gonna be hustling and fucking these hoes. But you can’t deny that, see twitter, insta, every major social media

[–]dzmisrb433 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

I don't believe in that.

You can say that you don't care about sex as much as being productive as a sexual strategy. But that's the lie unless you are some weird guy with brain issues like asexuality.

Because there has been a study done that man would choose sex over food or anything else even if they are hungry because it's core biological drive. Unlike having to be always productive which is not core biological drive like sex is so it always loses.

You are probably not aware of it but your philosophy of not caring about anything else and being productive is subconscious way to appear more attractive to opposite gender. If you had a man who never read about red pill and similar philosophies about attraction and gave him choice between chance to have sex with hot prime girl or chance to be productive I can bet every man with normal brain(not asexual) would choose to have sex with hot prime girl in the blink over being productive. Simply because he doesn't have this subconscious projection that if he is choosing work over girl it means he is and will be supper attractive to women in future. Some red pillers are ironically caught up in blue pill due to their belief that they somehow transcended a core biological drive which is center of every living being, and that breaking of one delusion makes them caught up in another one, just like in Matrix and in life.

That's a red pill most red pillers don't want to swallow.

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Not really. You can "not believe it" all you want. Just because you indulge in every opportunity of your base impulses - doesn't mean everyone's like you don't project your flaws onto others. The older you get & the more experience you have the more apparent it is, because you become more in control of your drive as it goes down.

Being gay is genetically a dead-end but it still exists something interesting about being a human, capable of reason, & living in a society; means we're not slaves to our primordial instincts.

[–]dzmisrb431 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Don't worry even if you think you are beyond nature and beyond it's control you are playing into it's hand either way in some ways even more so (but no point in explaining to you exactly why since you don't want to accept it) like a little ant that thinks it's in the control while it's unaware it's making making an anthill. You can't escape nature.

[–]jackandjill22-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

like a little ant that thinks it's in the control while it's unaware it's making making an anthill. You can't escape nature.

First, you're not anywhere near as smart as you think you are.

Secondly, you don't have to believe that there are people better than you regarding integrity. But that's not going to make your life less shit. Not everything everyone does is constantly based around one goal. Not giving a Fuck what people think about you isn't some subversive plot to care what they think. How much clearer can you be?

There's a very simply quote that summarizes this.

  • "The entire Social Network movie is based around the premises that we made Facebook to rate hot girls or date, it doesn't realize that sometimes people build things because they like building'. - Mark Zuckerberg

[–]dzmisrb430 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

First stop being so triggered it's leaking through.

I don't care if I'm smart so no I don't do this to appear smart I do this because there isn't 10/10 prime blonde to give my bj if there was I wouldn't be writing this. And what's your reason for writing this, weren't you talking about there always being something better to do than having sex with beautiful girls and at the same time here you are giving your time and arguing with some guy(or guys since you responded earlier to people) you supposedly think is delusional on the internet. Stop coping. At least I'm not delusional.

My life is not shit because there are some guys who think they don't care about sex or think they don't care about being attractive to opposite gender. It's shit because I'm rotting not good looking enough human who can't have eternal youth and can't have sex with prime blondes whole life because of ageing body without paying them and I know that deep down so I cope with purpose. I'm not that smart I'm average in iq I think I'm just more awere of my inner workings and deep motivations compared to some people.

Also lol at posting quote supposedly summarizing this whole conversation and my arguments while that quote being made by person who has problems with brain which are obvious to even most dumb peopleeveryone can see it from a mile, while I said people who are not normal are excluded because they are not normally developed (I have example of asexual people that do exist but are simply unnatural abnormality and don't prove anything).

Edit: And of course when you are called out you stop talking which was easy to predict to appear cool even though you showed you care way before end of this conversation so your attempt is kind of futile.

[–]_-resonance-_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Put another way...

Productive, successful men have limited availability to share with women.

It’s easy to get caught up in a love affair and let it take precedence over life-gains. Instead, one should make known his availability (to the woman) and bail out on time, even if she says she wants to keep fucking. Don’t compromise progress toward your purpose to spend time with a hottie.

[–]wyota1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why not just say Redpill types? Redpill and MGTOW are basically the same subculture. Redpill is just the younger more energetic version of MGTOW.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Perhaps. This has been with various women, maybe I picked the boring types

[–]thecarryone38 points39 points  (0 children) | Copy

This isn’t rocket science bro, if you don’t enjoy spend time with her just don’t...

[–]Sycroses143 points144 points  (6 children) | Copy

I swear the posts on here get stupider and stupider every week....

[–]fartingaround14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are so right

[–]TreatYouLikeAQuean10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

yah man wtf is this post.

u/HypergamyDoesntCare

If you LTR'ed a girl you don't like hanging out, sounds like a lack of abundance because you wouldn't promote a plate to LTR if they weren't "special" to you.

I've had an experience with a girl where she was chill, sex multiple times a day, sometimes silly but just not a girl I would be proud to say is my gf. So I cut it off when she starting asking where this is going and implying a relationship.

Current LTR is amazing. Cool girl that makes me laugh. Willing to try new hobbies and activities. Basically all of the same pros the previous girl had but also has none of the shortcomings I saw with the other girl.

[–]pizza_on_ranch7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was lucky to have joined like three years ago when the posts were a lot higher quality. It seemed like 9 months after that, this sub started going to hell.

[–]ValorElite2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It was time for Thomas to leave...

[–]mickenrorty1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just because you’re further down the track of life (or IQ) doesn’t really warrant being a cnt to new comers

[–]SalporinRP81 points82 points  (6 children) | Copy

If you don't like spending time with her then she's not LTR material.

I'm single now but I liked spending time with my LTRs because high quality women bring a refreshing feminine energy into your life.

[–]y0ussefhesham46 points47 points  (0 children) | Copy

man the red pill is not about becoming a fucking lifeless robot that just fucks and lifts. if you're not enjoying time with her, something is wrong.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet53 points54 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you don't enjoy spending non-sexual time with your LTRs, then they are fuck buddies at best. Re-read my guides and get your shit right.

[–]TRPCops[M] 17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

OP - See "managing your bitches" on the TRP sidebar.

[–]__TheDon__13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

No point of having an LTR if you don’t enjoy her company. Might as well spin plates

[–]TheGirlGetter900019 points20 points  (8 children) | Copy

Um, no.

Even though my sex drive has tapered off for my LTR (we still fuck 4-5x per week at my choice, but earlier on, I used to fuck her 10+ times per week) I still really like hanging out. We do lots of fun stuff.

Contrary to many without experience with women, I think they can make great companions. I do tons of things with my LTR.

[–]Ciabbata9 points10 points  (5 children) | Copy

how do you fuck 10 times a week, go on dates and then still handle your own shit.

[–]TheGirlGetter90005 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

Time management. Plus, at that time, I was probably only seeing her 4x per week.

Week looked like... weekdays during the day: go to college classes. At night: go to the gym. Later at night: hit her up to hang out and bang.

Weekends looked like... study much of the day. Go out at night. Hit up girl to come fuck me at night. Sometimes to party with me, then fuck me.

I was picking up other girls during college too. I fit that in by exclusively messaging them on dating apps during bathroom breaks and in classes I didn't care about by sitting in the back. Or meeting them through natural avenues (parties, classes, etc).

Time is your greatest asset if you learn to use it well. I didn't play video games, watch TV, or use Reddit much during college (and will probably stop using it again once my job starts in a couple weeks). Pretty much everything I did added value to my life. Admittedly I also made few close friends--mostly, I just made one true male friend in college--which definitely helped free up time to do so many other things. In my opinion friendships are overrated. I'd rather grind at work and grind to bang women than drink beers with an Average Joe.

[–]rockyp324 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

that last part i dont understand. Bros are legit the best. having close friends that are always there for you is amazing. TRP is so lone wolf sometimes. But in reality the best things are when you and your friends make something. 10x better than doing something all on ur own. Those friendships would bring you a lot more value than the tinder thots your choosing to spend time with.

[–]TheGirlGetter90000 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

TRP isn’t lone wolf. I am.

I don’t feel the need for any more than the few close friends I have.

And I don’t spend much time with Tinder thots. One night every couple weeks isn’t a boatload of time.

[–]rockyp320 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Well then I can’t blame u cause I only have a few close friends

[–]TheGirlGetter90000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah it’s really not the worst. Thought it was when I was younger, but it’s really not

[–]weatheringwow0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

How do you have time fucking her 10x a week?

[–]TheGirlGetter90000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Already answered. Scroll up

[–]heyyy-kiddo5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I believe it's something else:routine. Try to do something you both enjoy toghether. I hope she's not one of those that other than Instagram ,her life has no other purpose.If that's the case,gg.

[–]Snowaey5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

LMFAO NIGGA DO U HAVE A BRAIN OR NO?

[–]Bungeeeeee3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

I never understood why rp men go in LTR's if they don't plan on having kids with them. Of course you can use the time better, but if you have kids together, you should spend time together raising kids and ocassional vacation, dinner and so on but still more focus on your mission etc. You just won't have as much time for hobbies and fitness.

If you have an LTR just because you are lazy, it won't last, and it's scarcity mindset. Spending time with her will keep you away from your hobbies and mission and you will inevitably change. Do you really want that? You can have fwb's you can do stuff with.

If you are committing, do it right.

[–]wyota1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

We're all(almost all) wired to want a special partner that we can deeply connect to, and such bonds take years to form. I know I'm that way. It's just human nature. I'm today's filthy feminist environment, this ideal scenario isnt guaranteed for many men, and so they go to the next best thing, which is why this sub exists. It offers sex and a serotonin boost for the seratonin-deprived men. This is the sad reality.

[–]BluzzKill4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah I do actually. But I didn't select a basic bitch with nothing but looks as a priority.

[–]_l_u_l_4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

topsperg

[–]Mikecr823 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Don’t know about LTRs but even with plates and fuck buddies, I realize how much bullshit and boring chit chat you have to listen to between boning.

[–]TheGirlGetter90006 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Meet higher quality women. Sure plenty are like this. Plenty are not.

[–]dusara2170 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

While I definitely agree with this idea, I'm curious: what do you define as a higher quality woman? What differentiates her from a low quality woman?

[–]TheGirlGetter90002 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's tough to answer such a general question since a woman can be high quality in all sorts of ways. And what I consider high quality for a plate/FWB is different from an LTR.

Generally speaking, being interesting, laid-back, hot, and not crazy (reasonable n-count, no tattoos or crazy piercings, no ex BF that I think may shoot me, etc) is a good starting point. Other factors can increase quality but are probably more individualized to me... for example I love funny women--which is a rarity, especially since many funny women are promiscuous--but I recognize most people don't care about that as much.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is anyone in the same boat?

Varies, depends on the girl

[–]2000wfridge1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The fucks the point of having an ltr if you dont want to spend time with her

[–]catsdontsmile1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Traveling on your own is the best way to travel

[–]DTron23321 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes, that’s why you get in an LTR in the first place. You decided to get into an LTR because you lacked abundance mentality, since if you didn’t enjoy hanging out with her that much you wouldn’t have decided to be with her in the first place.

Why spend time with someone if you don’t actually enjoy the time being spent? This means you are wasting your time, and time is an extremely valuable commodity.

[–]BriefcaseHead21 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Some girls are just boring consumers. I have had the same thing OP I'm surprised so many commenters disagree. Obviously you shouldn't be in a committed relationship to a girl like this. Especially since you have that productive mindset, you just will not be working to your potential with her, and you'll probably remember the time you had alone was so much more fun anyway because you were just left in your thoughts and if you were in public there was always the opportunity to approach someone new. The longer you stay with her the more you will regret it in the future.

[–]ImNotSue1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's a certain amount of acclimation that will occur in any extended relationship, whether with someone of the opposite gender and platonic / sexual / romantic. Or not New people are novel and exciting. Familiar ones aren't. That doesn't mean bad necessarily but you get to decide what's worth your time.

This style of DAE? post is telling me that you're looking for external validation of your actions. It sounds like you're asking because you don't understand yourself enough yet. Chase short flings if that's what you want and have fun, or LTR and pursue if that's your goal. Just use some self analysis and understand why you're doing it, so you can make that decision as a man aware of and in control of himself. That comment about 'why are you in an LTR if you don't enjoy being around them' is apt.

You asked for others experiences so here's mine: I'm a bisexual dude who decided to get married to another man, and gets to enjoy men and women on the side. I'm with my husband not because he excites me every day after 10 years of marriage, but because I appreciate what he can do for me as a man and how he's proven that he's been worth and is still worth my time. That principle is not different if he was a woman instead, or just a friend, or just a fuckbuddy, or whatever. I would just judge a woman or a friend by a different metric of value because women are not men and friends are not spouses or fuckbuddies.

So figure out what you want, if your LTR is fitting what you want, and act accordingly.

[–]Andgelyo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is exactly how I feel, I’ve been in an LTR for over a year and I’m honestly quite surprised I lasted this long. I enjoy going out to dinner dates, and hanging out but i do wonder about fucking other girls sometimes

[–]gordoburrito4151 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

LTR’s like this will only end up hurting your own ego

[–]theguytheguy10001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

if every girl you meet is boring, it's likely that you're boring.

girls react to your energy, If your energy is wack, you'll get wack energy back.

i've been in your shoes and frequently wondered what the point was of being with said girl. Then I realised that the fact of the matter is that women will never make you happy but if you are already happy they can make you happier. they're like the icing on the cake, not the cake itself.

Now that i walk around feeling good and shit, i find myself bringing out the fun in most girls i meet assuming we aren't a complete mismatch.

[–]chootey1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I feel you on this one. I enjoyed spending time with my LTRs in the past, but yeah, I always feel like I could be using the time for something productive. There are a lot of things I want to do/accomplish, I don't want to spend all my time with anyone. It's great to have fun, but all the time?

The guys giving you shit either really have their life together or have no ambition. Those guys like Elon Musk or Steve Jobs that work 80 hours a week certainly aren't spending all their time with their girlfriends.

[–]ASTRA-LUX0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

or Steve Jobs

Dafuq did I just read?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly

[–]PreEntertain2 points3 points  (8 children) | Copy

Only reason I'm with her is because she's my go to when I wanna have fun.

Which usually means eating out, drinking lots, and fucking. Can't fuck your bros.

[–]PreEntertain4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

[–]PreEntertain2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I know a lot of you guys wouldn't turn down a bro job either

[–]imtrynaclapnocap0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bruh..what?

[–]TheGirlGetter90000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sign me up

[–]catsdontsmile0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

No, of course not. I have many gay friends.

[–]yacrazu1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

My father's gay.

[–]spider_1337-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

yo daddies gay son

[–]catsdontsmile0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

...we were all quoting Seinfeld

[–]lilgoatedboy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes

[–]DifficultContext0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I do enjoy my time with her. Sometimes we just hang in the same room and not say a word because we are doing something different. Cracking jokes with each other, talking about fun and obscure hypothetical situations (non-sexual).

I do not tolerate her bullshit and I will call her out on it. It is a good discussion.

I also enjoy groping her at random times.

[–]drunkPKMNtrainer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yea. I enjoy my time with LTR, whether we are busy doing something or just being lazy.

[–]big_ass_package0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What the FUCK? If you cant enjoy a little time with her outside of her pussy...and still keep handling your shit...then shes not worth it. Its hard to manage the good ones that cook and clean and put in that effort we all want. Ask yourself what you want. Its your choice who cares what anyone else thinks

[–]curvedbymykind0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

this is a joke right? of course not

[–]Trengingigan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I actually love spending tike with my gf. What I dont like as much of her and most of my LTRs is talking. They always want to talk and talk more than I do. But as fir spending quality tike together, or just cuddling or doing something cool or watching a movie, I like it.

[–]TxnyMontana0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dude, you're so obsessed with blue pill red pill yada yada yada that you're forgetting you're a human being. Behave like one of them. Being RP is being Calibrates and assertive.

Just have a good time with your LTR, otherwise don't get in a LTR.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If you don't enjoy spending your time with your LTR she probably shouldn't be your LTR.

[–]rockyp320 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

idk i think thats just insecurity deep down you dont trust her cause of what weve learned about the nature of woman. youd probably enjoy it if you just let yourself

[–]despertaferro_13110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You are not in love with her and you should dump her today. You are wasting your time and hers. Do not enter a LTR if you don't enjoy spending time with her, for fucks sake.

[–]daddysgotanew0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I do but only in short bursts. I don’t know how any man lives with a woman. That would drive me absolutely batshit insane. I like to be able to have fun and then say “ok see you in a few days” and then go do my own thing

[–]salsamasterer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This "non stop grind" culture is idiotic, you don't have to be productive 100% of the time. Have some fun once in a while

[–]Zapche-3 points-2 points  (12 children) | Copy

Idk why people are coming at you lol I have felt the same way as you and it’s probably cause I only see woman as sex objects

[–]TheGirlGetter90004 points5 points  (11 children) | Copy

Either low quality women or what you said. I used to think like this, but then I actually started to give a fuck about what the women I associated with were like as people.

Turns out, self-fulfilling prophecies are a real thing.

[–]Zapche0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy

I have this problem we’re I get absolutely fucking disgusted with woman that I convince to sleep with me lmao I’m like your such a whore for my game to work on you

[–]TheGirlGetter90000 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy

Wrong mindset to have. I (subconsciously) tend to think there's something wrong with a girl if she does not sleep with me, lol, rather than if she does. Because if you're high value, that is literally supposed to mean women want to sleep with you. If a particular woman does not, it means she does not realize you're high value (truthfully it doesn't--she could have a valid reason, but this is how it feels anyways) so therefore, unlike other girls who are picking up on that value, she must be defective if she is the only one not recognizing it.

At least that's how my hamster runs the wheel. But it works for me.

[–]Zapche0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

Not for me man lol if a girl is willing to fuck me especially raw. I’m just looking at this girl with straight disgust. Like wow you are the type of bitch that makes me not want to have a daughter lol. And I crush ass and always ghost them after I hit it once cause I’m utterly disgusted with whores. I just don’t like that they’re willing to fuck so easily

[–]TheGirlGetter90000 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

I mean I feel that. By chance, are you young?

This sounds a lot like me when I was younger. I've had like 20 ONSs and my n-count is like 25. Only recently did I kind of flip the script mentally and let go of my internal opposition to the way the world works. Now I just enjoy it and accept it as it is. I'm turning 23 soon and it really only occurred the last year or so. But it's definitely helped me a lot as a person.

[–]Zapche0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Yea I’m 24 Ncount 30+. Tbh I’m just getting sick of random pussy it’s just not doing it for me anymore lol I find no satisfaction from convincing some bimbo to suck my cock

[–]TheGirlGetter90000 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Facts. I even have an LTR who's okay with it if I fuck randoms. Used to take advantage of it--nowadays, not so appealing. Haven't hooked up with a new girl in a year just out of lack of desire.

[–]Zapche0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I guess I’m just realizing that there is no real reward for crushing ass and I don’t brag about it so no one knows but me and I don’t even care so wtf

[–]TheGirlGetter90000 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, pretty much. Beyond a certain age you’re kinda weird if you even talk about it. Even when you’re young, nobody really wants to hear it.

These days my life is mostly about maintaining my LTR and stacking that paper (plus the gym obviously) and lemme tell you... it’s much more fulfilling

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Get your t checked

[–]TheGirlGetter90000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It’s not like that. I’m focusing on things more useful to me again. In college I kinda took a vacation from trying in life to crush pussy, but now I want to be wealthy

[–]KEKPOP-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

embrace monke, beat her ass up

[–]VojvodaSrpski-4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Seems normal to me if you’re above average intelligence. I very much doubt I’ll ever find a girl that I’d genuinely consider to be interesting.

I’d much rather spend my free time with my bros, than any girl I can think of.

[–]wyota-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

OP has gone off the deep end. Take a break from this sub, your mind is all fucked up. Too many men aren't resilient enough to handle the Redpill it seems.



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