Just wanted to make a little reminder and add on to the post that was made a few months ago (https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dl57z2/there_is_zero_benefit_to_having_a_crush_eliminate/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) because I see ladies on here asking how to get a man's attention and how to get him to like you back.

LADIES repeat after me: If a man wants you, he will make it known. You won't have to chase after him and try to get his attention.

Any man that requires these pickmeisha behaviors from you, DOES NOT TRULY VALUE YOU. I used to chase after guys who didn't give a damn about me and would only hit me up for bootycalls at 2 am. WHY? Because I had "crushes" on them and wanted them to like me SO BAD. This allowed them to treat me like SHIT, which I allowed because it was still some form of attention.

The majority of movies/TV shows have tropes of a young girl having a huge crush on a 'popular' jock guy who she does not even know, and that is one of the reasons we have been conditioned to act this way.

I'll say it plain and simple: Having crushes is yet another way the patriarchy seeks to control and suppress us.

So yes, you can make flirty eye contact and position yourself to be noticed by a HVM, but if he does not reciprocate and APPROACH you, then there is no point in wasting your time seeking him out.

FOCUS on building yourself up by creating the life you've always wanted, and trust me they'll come knocking on your door ;)