He's actually shorter than his brother, around 5'6" or so, and married a woman around 5 feet for the scrotes lurking who think short guys can't get women lol. My ex actually is average height 5'9" but had mentioned to me before that once he got online dating he realized he was 'short' lol. I don't believe this and I always thought the tall guy thing was dumb (no offense) but he was really insistent that it would be better if I did. He's a sweet guy and the exact opposite of his brother they barely talk and he had no motivation to tell me this other than thinking it would be good for me because he saw how tumultuous my relationship was.

I wonder if he knows something I don't. I think I'm going to try it. Again I never cared about height outside of a short period in high school but now I think maybe I should because these dudes really do have a complex. Ex was very much the machismo/compensating type. And again he wasn't even short! My current bf is the same height and they are both latino so it's actually tall for their ethnicity. Not like I have much to lose. Did date a 6'6" guy once and that was awkward lol but my first bf was around 6'2" think I'm going to go for around 6 feet-ish. I'm 5'5" for reference so when I wear heels with my current bf we are around the same height. Which neither of us mind and I actually thought was kind of hot lol but now I wonder if he has some kind of complex too.

TL:DR; ex bf's [sane, sweet married] brother who i've known for a long time and saw me go through a crazy relationship with his brother thinks i'd be better off with tall guys because short guys have a complex and act crazier