Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their league

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-04-22T10:00:11+00:00

Removed for low effort

mxp68 · 2021-04-22T04:43:47+00:00

Men who stay in their league have no trouble finding sex

&

Women: If you aim below your league, you find many men who want to date you

Nope & Not gonna happen

The women in a man’s league are gleefully having sex with men above their league because those men are often promising relationships that will never actually happen.

She lives a fantasy for a minute, he increases his n-count for fun. He ghosts her, she gets disappointed, and the cycle starts again.

Women are simply addicted to the self esteem sugar high of dating attractive men. The loser is her actual looksmatch who is dateless, and whose best option now is to just get off OLD, focus on work and wait it out until these women turn 30ish or forget it altogether.

John_Oakman · 2021-04-22T07:53:34+00:00

Some people are just resenting the reality that for some types of "low value" people have to make far more effort to get there than others.

For a male to become social-economically stable enough to be consider a beta provider requires years to decades of hard work and sacrifices, while for a woman to end up being a single mother who finally found herself and is ready to settle down requires... well, a very different set of experiences and difficulties.

Both of them have similar RMV (though the single mother has a higher social legitimacy value than the 30s male virgin). It is really that surprising that the males are a bit resentful of that?

Goodthingstartssmall · 2021-04-22T08:52:52+00:00

Usually you are right but the problems are..

perception on men looks is severly windled down where i saw easy 8's rated as 4-6
women's looks is extremely overrated in general by many factors such as thirst, make up etc.
not all, not even most but enough women have an insanely inflated ego through their upbringing and media

And PPD's definition of league is that if a man is thin and has little bit above average muscle mass than his league is a fat women. Of course men should not date their "league" then.

Carkudo · 2021-04-22T06:41:02+00:00

Okay bro.

I'm a very ugly man who struggles with weight, has a very androgynous appearance, and suffers from a mild skin condition.

The least attractive woman I've met was morbidly obese to the point of having to skip class because she couldn't fit through the auditorium doors. She was also balding and suffered from epilepsy. AND she had an abrasive personality with a habit of starting fights over petty stuff.

That woman dated men who were much more attractive than I am, and made it clear on several occasions that she finds me unattractive. This places her fairly firmly out of my league.

Question: what is my league?

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-04-22T04:51:29+00:00

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Eastuss · 2021-04-22T09:08:17+00:00

Most former incels I know have tried approaching ugly women and they had more luck with women they were actually attracted to.

Generally, women under estimate male attractiveness and overestimate womens (they think 80% of men are 2/10). They think the chads they're sleeping with are just average, that's the problem. Maybe they could keep such men if they had the proper behaviour, but they jump in it expecting things to be fair, they treat men their level as if they owed them something for breahting their hair.

In the end the problem isn't that you date out of your league, but that you do not behave properly.

noah44025 · 2021-04-22T04:29:40+00:00

“leagues” don’t exist.

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-04-22T05:03:00+00:00

Yeah, leagues aren't a thing.

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Lokipoki29 · 2021-04-22T07:46:39+00:00

Ok ? How to figur out one s league ? What is the league of. Short balding skinny man ?

flamingoinghome · 2021-04-22T07:56:34+00:00

Nah, you keep forgetting that people have lives.

A lot of guys (and girls) who won't commit/ only want a FWB aren't so hot--it's just that they're not in a place in their life where they have room for a partner. They're focusing on work/ want to move soon/ whatever.

A lot of girls (and guys) who don't want to have sex right away are recovering from a bad experience, or have personal or religious beliefs about sex, or whatever.

Not everything is about "hotness," for crying out loud.

Pilling_it · 2021-04-22T08:23:50+00:00

What are the leagues, and how do you put people in it exactly? I think based on that, you'll have enough disagreement that won't be fixed.

For this simple reason : people want their cake and eat it. Plain and simple.

ChadCyrus · 2021-04-22T04:34:03+00:00

I know hot girls who exclusively go for fatasses or old af men. Leagues don't exist, everyone has a type.

fcoc · 2021-04-22T06:04:54+00:00

there is no such thing as league.

Title	Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their league
Author	Sewud
Upvotes	1
Comments	110
Date	April 22, 2021 4:24 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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