Stereotype - Open Marriage (cheating), Meets Chad, Fucks Chad, Leaves Husband, Now Single Without Husband or Chad

moorekom · 2021-03-16T06:35:05+00:00

Contrary to what the girl claims, the guy is the definition of a player. As u/anon73945 points out, he posed as the elusive Alpha bucks and dangled attainability to this dumb woman to make and keep her chasing him.

The fact of the matter is that an Alpha bucks, a man who loves self-improvement, is considerate of others and is confident, would never stoop down to the level of fucking another man's girl. There's just too much to lose. He has his reputation, status, respect etc. to consider. To top it off, a girl who is disloyal like this cannot ever be trusted. So, a guy like that will never get involved with her seriously.

But, therein lies the hook. Women like this think that they're so unique and so special, they can make this guy compromise his principles and his conviction for them. This will not happen because AB guys will choose to walk away, especially if they're rich. You have to be quality yourself to attract quality. Since they're not, all they can attract, but not attain, are posers. This isn't new. Relevant earlier posts below.

https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre/comments/bns2rb/when_you_think_youve_landed_yourself_an_alpha/

https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/cnwfdf/psa_what_a_girl_chasing_you_looks_like/

anon73945 · 2021-03-15T20:42:32+00:00

LOL!! This girl got PLAYED.

Chad gave her the old "I'm not a hookup kind of guy and I'm looking out for your best interests bit". This is like catnip to a woman who thinks you're hot b/c it proves in their mind you're also a good guy (TM). The elusive Alpha Bucks.

See how he brilliantly, keeps her at arms length in order to extract the maximum amount of sex from this deluded woman with minimal resource investment, all along the guise of doing it for her mental health.

Well played Chad, well played.

Perrymason2016 · 2021-03-15T20:32:52+00:00

This is why open relationships don't work! They are HUGELY beneficial for the woman with zero to few benefits for the man. I've known couples who have tried this. The woman can get dudes easily, the guy, not so much. Women are looking for their payday and are not interested in a guy who is married open or not. Obviously this doesn't apply if the guy is super attractive, then he can get laid just as much as his wife. Edit: I also think we all know who's idea it was to have the relationship be open!

jstsohpnsImfckngChad · 2021-03-15T20:58:53+00:00

I don't get men these days. Why would any guy be willing to be in an open relationship? I get it from the woman's POV, but why commit to a woman who's getting Chad dick on the weekly?

I seriously cannot think of one benefit an open relationship offers a man.

Better single than cuck.

kaskntithies · 2021-03-15T20:47:42+00:00

When you try to monkey branch, but the branch isn't as sturdy as you thought 🐒

Prime example of the flippant nature of most women. She wants to be alone, at her own request, but still isn't satisfied and feels something is missing, she's infatuated.

This infatuation however is temporary, and exists only because he does not give her his full attention. As soon as he is "locked down" so to speak, and the allure fades, she will no longer have a desire for him.

Then it's rinse and repeat.

idrinklipton100 · 2021-03-15T21:29:14+00:00

No intelligent guy would date a girl who was in an open relationship and was dating him on the side or was in a close relationship and was cheating with him on the side because who’s to say she won’t do the same thing to him once they start dating?

Basic shit and idk how more people don’t realize this

Natriumzyanid · 2021-03-15T22:02:26+00:00

In November, we sexted

In December, we clicked (And everyone knows, that explains everything)

In January, he checked if my clowned husband was ok with him

In February, he said he doesnt want anything to do with me (he is good with my mental health too)

This was enough reason for me to break up with my husband, cause "G." obviously wanted......wait.........I .......mean......

I wanted to be with G, so I told him I need time for myself and dont want to be together with him.

WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS RETARDED BULLSHIT I'M READING!!!

Joaquino7997 · 2021-03-15T22:28:51+00:00

After she 'figures herself out,' her husband will be long gone - hopefully off to someone a lot more stable and a lot less flighty. And the playboy's got in her head, in her bed and left her instead.

Now she's left with no one.

Perhaps one day she'll ask herself: was it all worth it in the end?

SylvestorTalone · 2021-03-15T23:00:33+00:00

''I was married in an open relationship''

Translation: ''My husband and I had decided to get a divorce with extra steps and we hadn't gotten around to the divorce part yet''.

thefudmaster · 2021-03-15T21:30:02+00:00

Karma is a bitch, and so is she.

saberwarthog · 2021-03-15T23:11:25+00:00

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Demiansky · 2021-03-15T23:42:29+00:00

How unexpected. Her guy-on-the-side was only interested in her when he knew she'd never expect him to commit (aka, when she was already married.) The second she left her husband and there was a hint that she might want something more than a booty call from him: poof, he catches the fast train out of town.

Pimp87 · 2021-03-15T23:33:37+00:00

I knew she had mental illness before I got to the part where she disclosed subtly that she has mental illness. A lot of these people have mental illness and seek all sorts of bad behavior as a way of healing instead of seeking real therapy. Same as running to drinks and drugs as way of dealing with mental illness. What this woman did happens more than you think, hers was openly because she was in a so called open marriage, her counterparts do it secretly until they separate from their husbands like her, to be able to do it openly. Modern day marriage 😂

ChosenViceroy · 2021-03-16T00:31:18+00:00

My wife’s boyfriend approves!

alleyteris · 2021-03-15T23:51:00+00:00

This man is smart, he , avoids going in a relationship with her because HE KNOWS that since she cheated on her ex with him if he enters a LTR with her he will take her ex's place since she most defiantly will ask for an open relationship again continuing this vicious cycle. She will never convince him to LTR her, I wonder in how many fucks will she realize that she is just a cum dumpster?

DushmanKushh · 2021-03-15T23:58:28+00:00

These retards have read too much fanfiction about open relationships on the internet and started to actually believe it's normal and healthy.

The only couple i know in real life who are in an open relationship are both clinically insane and the woman has way more partners than the guy as expected so he's a cuck or a simp obviously.

peguy2000 · 2021-03-16T08:22:54+00:00

She didnt mentions the husbands feelings once. Here we see how fast women move on. Dont play a game you cant win

Bluecherrysoft · 2021-03-16T08:55:42+00:00

Her: I left him we can finally be together 😍

Him: Thank you p̶r̶i̶n̶c̶e̶s̶ whore, but your Mario is in another castle 🚽

GrannyLesbian · 2021-03-16T02:38:33+00:00

She got worked like overtime.

Dude clearly knew what he was getting into and was smart enough to navigate that shit.

Great work sir.

Sid_Insidious · 2021-03-16T04:55:02+00:00

Any advice on what I should do?

Eat some iced cream, buy some new shoes and shake your pretty little head darling.

Just shake your pretty little head.

flipster007 · 2021-03-16T02:22:50+00:00

What a whore lol. I feel bad for husband.

Jayharris52 · 2021-03-16T02:29:54+00:00

So g let’s call him chad. Just fucked her until he was onto the next dumbass that falls for this shit.

Futuredanish · 2021-03-16T13:08:49+00:00

Muslims have it all figured out about women.

Overkillengine · 2021-03-16T08:37:26+00:00

And of course soon she'll either blame the Chad or the ex for not keeping her around as she she is a poor widdle hewpwess woman who had no possible agency whatsoever to make better choices that would have avoided her ending up in this situation.

Edit: The object lesson for any man foolish enough to get married is that the very second she makes any sort of suggestion of opening the marriage up, you may as well consider the marriage over, as she has stated her intentions to violate her oaths. Just smile, make whatever magic mouth noises it takes to keep her hoe ass calm and satisfied that her plan is working out while you covertly get your ducks in a row to bail with as much of your assets as you can by getting a lawyer and striking first with the divorce papers.

She'll complain that you agreed and went back on your word (while of course ignoring her own oathbreaking). Just smile and remind her that agreements made under duress are not legally binding.

And spare no legal effort to destroy her financially and socially. It's what would have been in store for you at her hands.

ChadTheImpailer · 2021-03-16T10:49:32+00:00

The chad spark very strong. She's still gravitating towards him and isn't even hung up about her exhusband.

EvolvingMan1994 · 2021-03-16T13:14:07+00:00

"he's not a player...never casual sex..." - Of course not, every word out of his manly mouth was a royal proclamation for your wild mind,

"he's a good guy..." - The best that ever walked this Earth because my deluded mind won't have me believe any other way,

"I kinda had feelings for him..." - Of course you did, only because the sex was so great and you didn't give a flying f*ck about your husband,

F*ck this shit!!!

2021-03-16T23:28:23+00:00

Its almost like marriage and "open relationships" can't existence on the same astral plane.

NeonSignsRain · 2021-03-17T02:50:23+00:00

Lady watched too many romantic comedies lmao. Pumped and dumped

BluepillProfessor · 2021-03-16T13:41:15+00:00

advice to what I should do

Get paid up front. Make sure he leaves cash on the dresser before he busts on your face.

Marfi09 · 2021-03-16T06:10:45+00:00

Men here are cool enough to abide by rule 1. Hard to believe her hubby didn't get roasted here.

John_Magnus · 2021-03-16T12:03:39+00:00

When you lose at two timing

ContradictFate · 2021-03-17T01:53:16+00:00

"Open" Oh - pen ~verb

For women: Open the floodgates for the tides of cocks!

For men: "Haha, no one is going to date him... I'll just fuck and fuck and he'll just be waiting there all nice for me"

knv514 · 2021-03-16T01:11:50+00:00

😭😭😭 she got played like a fiddle

Large-Victory · 2021-03-16T05:11:41+00:00

She deserves it

yomo86 · 2021-03-17T14:48:54+00:00

Fuck the dude played her with the modern woman's play book. Not just let's be friends but 'this is toxic', 'mental health', playing the emotional Bambi while banging other sluts. Hands down my man. Well played.

IncorrigibleLee86 · 2021-03-17T16:01:50+00:00

I really wish reddit had pics of these poster. I wanna know how these cows look like.

InfectReality · 2021-03-18T13:54:53+00:00

These are the stories you read on survivinginfidelity where the woman starts the post out saying they are in an open relationship, but conveniently leave out the part where their toxic single friends or a guy from work convinced them to open them to open the marriage and said it's an open relationship to their husband. Then the husband leaves and the one they cheated with leaves and they're like "reddit help, why am I a victim waaa".

Cultural_Area · 2021-03-20T02:54:07+00:00

"I, me, I, I". ZERO consideration with the husband. Amazing.

Andrew-Mueller · 2021-03-19T20:12:32+00:00

After all this she still thinks he "isn't a player??" WOW!!!

_matuag · 2021-03-16T01:41:43+00:00

Stereotype - Open Marriage (cheating), Meets Chad, Fucks Chad, Leaves Husband, Now Single Without Husband or Chad

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Title	Stereotype - Open Marriage (cheating), Meets Chad, Fucks Chad, Leaves Husband, Now Single Without Husband or Chad
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Date	March 15, 2021 8:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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