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[–]anywaysheresrationalFDS Newbie 148 points149 points150 points 5 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
So toxic.
[–]MeredeenFDS Newbie[S] 113 points114 points115 points 5 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
eChO chAmBErrrr
[–]anywaysheresrationalFDS Newbie 88 points89 points90 points 5 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
biTteR and mEaN ! 🤓☝️
[–]Apprehensive_Ad_7917FDS Newbie 94 points95 points96 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Tbh I love when they call us mean lmao like half of men’s humor isn’t just dunking on women
[–]anywaysheresrationalFDS Newbie 95 points96 points97 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Cher in 1990: "Men aren't a necessity."
Female interviewer: "Did you mean that to sound angry and bitter?"
FDS in 2020: "Men aren't a necessity. PS fuck you for objectifying women. #toomanymen, you are part of the problem."
Pickmes&incels: "So angry and bitter."
A pattern. ✨
[–]sleepykittnFDS Newbie 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are now 2 types of women, feminists and internalized misogenists. So many pickmes believe theyre feminists..
[–]the-worst-FDS Newbie 52 points53 points54 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I made one of my husband's mean spirited fat jokes back to him one night. His jokes were normally about my belly or my thighs. So I made the joke "as a bisexual, I'm glad I can pretend to have a girlfriend" and then motorboated his man tits...
I had even warned him it was a mean joke before i told him. And he's said FAR worse to me before.
He didn't talk to me for 2 days and got mad over every little thing I did wrong ever since.
[–]jackrusselterror1FDS Disciple 32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Did we date the same man? Girl I could have wrote this comment, it’s so relatable.
My abusive ex cried when I jiggled his manboobs and asked when he planned on losing those in retaliation for him pinching my thighs and asking when they wouldn’t touch (never, I have high hips and an hourglass body shape, that’s just the way my pelvis is angled). I had communicated my ass off, told him I hated those jokes countless times, cried, gone silent, walked away, etc, prior to getting on his level, but you’d never know that he was the one who started this by the way he played victim to everyone who would listen.
[–]the-worst-FDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg, what an asshole. Glad he's your ex.
[–]PasdepromessesFDS Disciple 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Soon to be ex husband? (One can hope).
[–]the-worst-FDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe. Still working on that.
[–]hopewingsFDS Apprentice 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here are a few links that you may or may not know already, but perhaps they will be helpful:
https://www.gottman.com/blog/emotionally-intelligent-husbands-key-lasting-marriage/
https://www.loveisrespect.org/quiz/is-your-relationship-healthy/?%3E
https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/53923472-signs-of-emotional-abuse-how-to-recognize-the-patterns-of-narcissism-m
https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/706540-codependent-no-more-how-to-stop-controlling-others-and-start-caring-for
http://www.drjoecarver.com/clients/49355/File/IdentifyingLosers.html
https://archive.org/stream/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that_djvu.txt
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/is-divorce-bad-for-children/
[–]File-OwnFDS Newbie 34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ain't that the truth sis
"Classic" male humour is literally just lOl wOMen!!1!1111!
[–]berryberrykicksFDS Apprentice 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Every time I see FDS referred to as “mean,” I just start laughing.
I immediately have this vision of a 13 year old boy in ill fitting clothes with a confused sprout of sparse hairs in place of a mustache. His lower lip trembles as he shrieks, “You’re mean!”
[–]anywaysheresrationalFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Head cinema is strong with you.
Following. 👌
[–]berryberrykicksFDS Apprentice 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol thanks!
The ADHD is strong today
[–]WeremaidFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
But honestly, how will we ever know what men think if we don’t let them comment? D:
Edit: /s lol
[–]MagnfiqueMaleficentFDS Disciple 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I guess that’s why they make sure to comment on every single thing that comes to their minds, especially relative to women’s bodies, without being asked. I mean, it’s just so imperative that we know what they think and how they feel about every little thing. How else are women supposed to function without knowing exactly what men’s opinions are? HOW DO WE LIVE?!
🤡
[–]WeremaidFDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Idk I’m having male opinion withdrawals as we speak— pls send *mansplanations
[–]LR_todayFDS Newbie 44 points45 points46 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Every yes to ever yes.
[–]Latter_Ostrich2875FDS Newbie 41 points42 points43 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lmao this is true for so many things
[–]ecloFDS Newbie 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Especially anywhere women carve out for ourselves!
[–]Latter_Ostrich2875FDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I’m so sick of it. The constant “what about men?”
[–]sleepykittnFDS Newbie 32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They still have access to lurk and dedicated subreddits(plural) to comment their opinions of our posts.
Women are silenced so we made a women-only space, and theyre mad and feel 'silenced' even though they still get to winge..just not to us directly unless they DM which they do. They wonder why we need somewhere women-only.
[–]BBQCoolRanchQueenFDS Apprentice 33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hence why FDS is the only subreddit I'm active on. It's the only safe space where women are truly accepted. I've said it before and I'll say it again; this sub has helped me heal more than therapy alone.
[–]fairywakesFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am right there with you ❤️
[–]betsybassetFDS Newbie 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When they hate us we know it's working 🖤
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep.
[–]nymira-1FDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t they have porn sub where they can exclude all types of people in the matter of sizes,sex, age and race? Why we can’t have that too ? It’s our preference (;
[–]just_a_little_me 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
well they always want to invade and make other people uncomfortable
[–]thisisanaltunit6942 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It really do
[–]Comfortable-Low-7231 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is literally people wanting straight pride lmao
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[–]the-worst-FDS Newbie 52 points53 points54 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]jackrusselterror1FDS Disciple 32 points33 points34 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]the-worst-FDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]PasdepromessesFDS Disciple 21 points22 points23 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]the-worst-FDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]hopewingsFDS Apprentice 15 points16 points17 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]File-OwnFDS Newbie 34 points35 points36 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]berryberrykicksFDS Apprentice 13 points14 points15 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]anywaysheresrationalFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]berryberrykicksFDS Apprentice 7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]WeremaidFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]MagnfiqueMaleficentFDS Disciple 17 points18 points19 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]WeremaidFDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LR_todayFDS Newbie 44 points45 points46 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Latter_Ostrich2875FDS Newbie 41 points42 points43 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]ecloFDS Newbie 27 points28 points29 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Latter_Ostrich2875FDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]sleepykittnFDS Newbie 32 points33 points34 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BBQCoolRanchQueenFDS Apprentice 33 points34 points35 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]fairywakesFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]betsybassetFDS Newbie 25 points26 points27 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]nymira-1FDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]just_a_little_me 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]thisisanaltunit6942 8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Comfortable-Low-7231 11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link