What are the difficulties for a 25F to get in a relationship and settle down?

morganKxoxo · 2021-07-13T16:16:04+00:00

I’m not sure I understand your question. Have you never been in a relationship before? Do you mean the difficulties of meeting a quality partner and becoming exclusive? Or the difficulties of maintaining a healthy long term relationship?

bekkys · 2021-07-13T22:17:07+00:00

I met my partner on OKcupid. I guess my harsh reality would be “if you don’t come across dateable men in your day to day life you might need to try online dating or find a way to meet new people”🤣

Miata_GT · 2021-07-13T16:35:01+00:00

What role do you see yourself in a long-term relationship? What are your ideals for a partner?

Dr_Hesp · 2021-07-13T17:12:14+00:00

"I want to know the harsh reality to prepare myself." Depending on the type of man you're looking for, they most likely will value different things in a woman. However, most men are visual. The harsh aspects of dating as a woman, especially as you get older is that you have to be in phenomenal shape. Men of high value, masculine men, traditional men all want a feminine woman. That means feminine physique, feminine mindset.

Another harsh aspects is that you're at the tail end of your prime for attracting a man. As you get older, it'll become more difficult for you to attract the kind of man you want, most likely. Years ago the mother's of daughters would teach the daughters how to be wives. That doesn't happen anymore so I'm guessing you have a lot to learn (otherwise you'd be married already). So move quickly. Here are a few suggestions:

Write a cookbook. Make sure your cooking skills are on point.
Get in the best possible shape of your life. If you aren't already, start living a healthy life style. Healthy living will attract a healthy man.
Be prepared to submit to a man. Follow his lead, match his sexual energy (if you want monogamy. Or at least be open to him having a side girl). Ex... Let him plan the date, tell you what to wear, and pay for it.
Learn how to be a wife. Most women want to be married but don't want to actually be wives.
Know how many children you want. Knowing that will determine how much money your man needs to make per year in order to have the life style you want.
Be inspirational. Men are attracted to inspirational women.
Be transparent, never lie. Leave no doubt in your man's mind where you are, who you're with, what you're doing.
Be prepared to leave a man if he hasn't proposed to you at the 7-9 month mark of the relationship.
Understand the value of a traditional family/roles. You, your man, and your potential children will greatly benefit from it.
Know and understand that there is no such thing as a perfect man. You'll have to determine what you value most in a man and focus on finding a man that has those traits (2-3 things). If you get lucky, he'll have many other qualities you like.

Do you research. A decent starting point is listening to podcasts. I suggest Kevin Samuels to begin. Best of luck to you!

clitorophagy · 2021-07-14T00:59:53+00:00

Where are you located? What has stopped you from being in a relationship before?

cherie-amore · 2021-07-13T16:56:34+00:00

Are you implying that 25 is a little old to start looking? I don't think it's late. Yes, there will be younger, possibly more beautiful women out there, but I hope you don't go into dating thinking you are damaged goods and past your peak. I think men pick up on that energy

Hopeful_Pay_6685 · 2021-07-16T17:13:05+00:00

I heard from the red pill (men) that 25 and over would be undateable for them for some reason, assuming they're deep in their careers and have more sexual experience (which is a bad thing). So, the less entitled and sexual experienced you are, the better. Also, make sure you're lean and have good skin. If you want the best man, you should be the best yourself. Also, be humble and don't let your pride get to you.

aigars2 · 2021-07-13T21:25:49+00:00

I could answer but you won't like it. May I continue? Red pill or Blue pill?

Title	What are the difficulties for a 25F to get in a relationship and settle down?
Author	Snoo-40069
Upvotes	21
Comments	95
Date	July 13, 2021 3:45 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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