Women don't. After months of reading and listening to "experts" both from male and female sides... I have come to terms with the following;

Men are capable of loving unconditionally

Women are not

Men have to, not because men are better, but it's how they serve and protect their offspring and the mother of offspring. It's a survival component of "love"

Women need to be flexible and find the best possible man to procreate with, therefore biologically they are prone to jumping to the bigger better guy.

We society fails to place controls on male or female biological urges and tendencies, so we see what we see happening today with majority of westernized marriages failing 65%. It's no different than ages of yore/ old. However what has changed is access to the ability to cheat.

I didnt want to give up the idea that love could conquer all and that there is someone out there for me.. but alas, the cold hard truth is there isnt, there simply isnt that reality. But just as I have to grow up and stop believing in Santa claus, so do I have to grow up and face reality.

We are all a bunch of fn rabbits fn around pretending to follow rules but honestly cant control our urges.

I have no faith in humanity beyond its ability to procreate out of sheer stupidity... I want lifetime partnership with someone, I truly do... but it's not possible for the majority of us. It just isnt.