How a man who is raped has to laugh about it, because he has no choice.

FissureKing · 2019-09-20T12:26:08+00:00

I was raped by a woman. Now I point out that according to tht CDC women rape men at about the same rate men rape women.

Oh the lovely downvotes.

5th_Law_of_Robotics · 2019-09-20T11:21:46+00:00

There's a video of a man being repeatedly assaulted by his girlfriend that's popular right now. A certain feminist sub picked it up and decided it couldn't be abuse because, among other reasons, he was laughing.

They concluded men can't be abused and she was likely responding to past abuse.

Essentially they recreated the Duluth model. Such is the state of feminist activism for men.

PrinceVirginya · 2019-09-20T10:47:37+00:00

It's sad

I said to a friend of mine people would just laugh at me if i said i was the target of sexual harassment in the past just because of my "Imposing Height"

I say that because it comes from my own experience, people don't care.

Evildl17 · 2019-09-20T11:15:38+00:00

Yeah, can confirm. All the traumatizing moments of my life including a point where I thought I was going to be raped? Turned them all into jokes. Some of the best jokes I got. Everyone laughs.

picklerick0605 · 2019-09-20T11:55:31+00:00

I was sexually assaulted by a male colleague in his car. The Police were involved, he was fired. Some female colleagues found out and spread it around the office and then to offices in other departments across the city.

I've never been so humiliated in my life, I ended up resigning from a job I loved.

supamario132 · 2019-09-20T14:17:44+00:00

I was told by several friends that a girl was grinding and humping on top of me while I was blacked out the night prior. My immediate reaction was terror at whether she gave me some disease or if I'm about to have to drop out of college to take care of a child.

They all spent the next 30 minutes joking about it and calling me "herpes boy". Classic humor, very emotionally positive culture we have...

picklerick0605 · 2019-09-20T13:04:09+00:00

I don't want to know the shit this guy must have gotten for the comments to be disabled.

2019-09-20T13:47:20+00:00

Because laughing is sometimes the only way to not burst out into tears.

EDIT : added the word ‘way’ because I apparently dropped it the first time.

pinkeythehoboken22 · 2019-09-20T13:23:02+00:00

I was raped my freshman year in college. This shit was too real.

struebz · 2019-09-20T14:56:28+00:00

Wow, so many emotions. This short video pulled me out of my day job and threw me through a lifetime of thoughts in just a few minutes.

olioster · 2019-09-20T12:46:28+00:00

I don't know if I would call it rape but I was coerced as a child into doing sexual things with a boy who was about a year older than I. I didn't enjoy it and I still have hang-ups about it 25+ years later. Only a handful of people in my personal life know about it.

ShadowInSoul · 2019-09-20T14:32:05+00:00

Wow, this kicks my hard in my heart.

NocAdsl · 2019-09-20T15:25:50+00:00

God, you can see in his eyes how broken he is. He's smiling but you can see that his words and his eyes don't carry same thought and message. What can this man do now to be happy? Its part of him now.

historyismybitch · 2019-09-20T15:46:42+00:00

I've heard that's an actor but didn't look into it at all and can't now while I'm at work, but I wanted to give a heads up

Jackyboi98 · 2019-09-20T15:04:01+00:00

Holy shit that was some intense flow of whatever horrible feeling I got

weirdsciguy · 2019-09-20T16:20:44+00:00

What's fucked up, is that the autoplay video for me after watching that was some fucking key and Peele skit. Like the algorithms thought it was a genuine comedy.

CyFus · 2019-09-20T13:36:55+00:00

how long until this video is banned on youtube? im sure it has a billions flags at this point, better save it

Noir24 · 2019-09-20T15:49:47+00:00

Absolutely heartbreaking. And I swear to the most hardcore feminists the message would go clear above their heads and they'd say "look, this is toxic masculinity. They're joking about rape! They're literally saying rape is funny!!"

How one can lack so much empathy is beyond me

spankthegoodgirl · 2019-09-20T16:24:47+00:00

I just want to hug him. Consensually of course. :(

DragoniZilan · 2019-09-20T18:39:53+00:00

I stopped halfway through, I got very sad and with my current state, I can't be sad.

requiredpayments · 2019-09-20T15:33:27+00:00

This hurts my soul.

ibz646 · 2019-09-20T16:17:33+00:00

Fantastic monologue he nailed it. Now when I show these hypocrites this they can't deny the pain they inflict upon boys

oldskoolflavor · 2019-09-20T18:18:23+00:00

This is one of those things that probably won't drag much attention until probably 50 years from now. Just like woman rights back in the days.

2019-09-20T19:05:31+00:00

This is so raw and emotional. The way he starts to tear up at the end really hit me hard. He had to deal with the trauma of being raped and he couldn't even process those emotions in a healthy way.

jp_mra · 2019-09-20T14:52:56+00:00

The video is blaming it on 'toxic masculinity', going on about how only guys were telling him he should enjoy it, and he shouldn't bottle up his feelings.

The whole feminist attitude that women don't commit rape is the real problem. While I appreciate bringing awareness to the issue, you aren't going to solve a problem by just blaming it on men.

duescruentus · 2019-09-20T17:06:08+00:00

Jesus Christ that was good

Deluxe_Used_Douche · 2019-09-20T21:05:44+00:00

Goddamn, this video hurt to watch. I feel for the men that have gone through this, and have to hide that pain under false emotions.

Crashover90 · 2019-09-20T18:46:48+00:00

Eh, still isn’t a good thing. Having sex with a minor, a person who isn’t fully developed, isn’t a good thing whether they want the sex or not. That adult took advantage of the trust from the minor and used the minor for personal indulgence.

Not a good thing.

vicsj · 2019-09-20T23:26:27+00:00

I remember seeing this video when I was 16. I identified as a feminist then, and I remember thinking why the fuck is no one talking about this?? I cried the first time I watched it.

I was actually thinking about it the other week, so bizarre to see it in a random Reddit post now! I love this video, it's so damn powerful.

PandaMike90 · 2019-09-20T23:10:37+00:00

Wow, this really got to me

MMMgtow · 2019-09-21T00:46:17+00:00

https://youtu.be/BvGvZTlGvx4

1503O · 2019-09-21T01:54:33+00:00

This is so poignant. It should be pinned here at the top, forever. You won’t see this on The View!

electricbridge · 2019-09-21T01:58:10+00:00

Society treats men that get raped and complain like they are sissies. As if only weak people get raped...

dovakin123489 · 2019-09-21T02:17:28+00:00

I hate this this is wrong. You can see the pain in his eyes as he talks about how he was forced to be happy about being raped

Cimiclette · 2019-09-21T04:55:34+00:00

Damn thats hard hitter, this needs to be seen by anyone and everyone.

Bergatario · 2019-09-20T17:09:44+00:00

So shagging an adult woman at 13 made him gay? Is that the message? Sounds like it.

Title	How a man who is raped has to laugh about it, because he has no choice.
Author	suckmytwotinynipples
Upvotes	2319
Comments	146
Date	September 20, 2019 9:53 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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