Married shrews

Kara_El · 2017-02-06T13:00:00+00:00

"It's a hard thing to leave any deeply routine life, even if you hate it."

Steinbeck

The unknown (losing custody, the house, mutual friends) is scarier than the known.

loneliness-inc · 2017-02-06T13:22:09+00:00

Men tend to be less likely to be quitters. For good and for bad, we'll die in the fox hole.
Men are unfairly penalized in divorce courts. Leaving can mean losing your children, paying twice for them, paying alimony and a dragged out battle in court. Some men would rather put of with 15 more years of minor unhappiness than to instigate world war 3.
Some people, men and women, have old fashioned values in marriage. One of these values is to work on improving the marriage. To try everything you can possibly try before giving up and throwing away a person.

mallutts · 2017-02-06T14:14:07+00:00

I grew up seeing this with my Dad and Stepmom. I never understood until I got older. Dad knocked my Stepmom up and then a couple years later became a pastor. Now because of this he would never divorce and now he's stuck with her. Good life lesson on how choices have consequences. Don't take lightly sex or marriage.

CleburnCO · 2017-02-06T22:11:52+00:00

Men are built to endure. They are made from the ground up, to suffer. The construction of the male body and brain gives them the ability to buckle down and fight through problems. From an evolutionary standpoint, this was needed as the men had to work like a trojan slave, fight off savages, and come home alive.

This evolutionary trait is still there, despite not being as needed. Unfortunately, it can leave men sitting in bad situations that they endure and endure and endure. Their brain keeps telling them "maybe it will get better, just work harder"...and they stay.

TRP is somewhat of a response to this. Men have taken it on the chin for years and that awakening is leading to them walking away from marriage and shrews in record numbers, at least the valuable men.

Evolution is happening. TRP/MGTOW is male evolution. They are no longer "needed" to fight savages, make fire, kill mastodons...so they are finding a new purpose and that purpose is not to simply be a whipping post for a shrew.

It is an interesting evolution. I don't think it will end well for a lot of women who grew up thinking that this was the right way to treat their husband.

MsSadieDunham · 2017-02-06T16:05:33+00:00

My husband said the main reason he looked past his ex-wife's indiscretions and "unpleasantness" was for the sake of his two boys.

thisisnotforyou_ · 2017-02-06T11:02:09+00:00

Are they (the shrews) hot? There's probably a hot/shrew scale just like there is a hot/crazy scale.
Are the men good men? Or are they the kind of man who couldn't get much better anyway?
Are the men beta or alpha? Some beta males probably love a good shrew...

VigilantRedRooster · 2017-02-06T16:43:18+00:00

It's the very apotheosis of Blue Pill beliefs and values. Many men want the whole marriage, house, job, kids package. They honestly believe that if they marry and work to provide for their family, they will be rewarded with a wife who readily admires and respects him for being who he is and for what he does. <siiiiiigh!>

SAMSON_AITE · 2017-02-07T05:38:00+00:00

When you have low self esteem you can eventually believe you deserve to be treated that way.

Title	Married shrews
Author	vanBeethovenLudwig
Upvotes	19
Comments	22
Date	February 6, 2017 8:52 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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