Was hanging out with a married woman who I thought was RP based on her outward appearance and behavior.

She admitted that an old fling is coming to town for business and she "can't be alone with him for two minutes so she needs people with her at all times to not mess up her marriage". <- this is not out of good intentions but I can't include all the context to explain her behavior

She has kids with her husband and a really good life. All of my respect is lost.

Why is it so hard to find women who work to not be shitty?

I've been trying to get a social life away from my SO but everyone my age (and 15 years older) appears to suck.

I think the hardest thing about the redpill for me was realizing most of if not all the women around me were bad influences. I make female friends and then realize they are delusional and I have no interest in spending time with them.

Did anyone else encounter this hurdle?

Edit: I'm pretty sure she was alpha widowed by him and then quickly married a provider.

Edit: words