Indian woman sleeps exclusively with white guys goes against her culture. Now 32, looking for a guy to start a family with.

Kharn0 · 2013-12-15T21:18:21+00:00

If she's gone against her cultural norms for decades, why try to start now? Just find a non-Indian guy. Is that so hard?

MelbUniBlog · 2013-12-15T23:08:20+00:00

She chose to ride the cock carousel, she paid the price. A cat or two will fill the void.

too_long_didnt_read · 2013-12-15T22:21:37+00:00

Basically she's ridden the cock carousel and has hit the wall. Now she's ready for her beta provider.

There are so many examples of this I'm stunned anyone can deny this concept exists anymore.

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Helmut_Newton · 2013-12-16T00:12:21+00:00

"I just wanted to make things clear I didn't 'sleep around.'... I have only been with 18 guys..."

Lol, I hope she likes cats!!

jagrmeister721 · 2013-12-16T02:01:21+00:00

Women think that being a champ in the sexual marketplace (which they define as "getting fucked") means they are a lock-in for the marriage marketplace . They actually believe getting fucked is a kind of pre-selection which shows that men value them. And therefore men with lower SMV should of course want them too. After all, Jared on the college lacrosse team banged me in the Frat house bathroom, so clearly someone who never played college sports should be glad to have me? No?

Pre-selection works for men because its hard(er) for a man to get a woman. All a woman needs to do to have sex with a man is spread her legs. Therefore, notch count is not a mark of any accomplishment for a woman.

Jeejeej · 2013-12-16T00:03:09+00:00

I can't even be bothered by the whole race debate. I am just very disappointed in western culture; that we have come to a point where a woman can say that she only slept with 18 men (which probably means somewhere closer to 25) and hamster that away as "few". Also, with 18 guys in 15 years, the definition of "long term" seems to have changed significantly....

realniggasstandup · 2013-12-15T21:08:12+00:00

The "progressive Indian guys" (ones that don't just play videogames) are much worse than the white guys I have noticed. They will casually date whomever, but then go to get married to a woman from India because anyone else but a virgin is too much of a slut to marry.

My niggas.

Watching a woman come to the realization she's hit the wall sends more thrills up my leg than Obama does to Chris Matthews.

Hidrosiss · 2013-12-16T00:21:43+00:00

Most of my relationships have been long term I have only been with 18 guys and I have been sexually active since I was 17 years old.

I have been sexually active since I was 17 years old.

18 guys

I'm convinced this is an elaborate ruse. And I'm sure 18 actually means 30. Pathetic

through_a_ways · 2013-12-16T02:22:10+00:00

Seems like this problem is really bothering her.

http://i.imgur.com/Lllc04P.png

Cyralea · 2013-12-16T00:09:44+00:00

The wall in India is brutal. It's perhaps one of the most brutal walls I know of - if you are a woman approaching 28 or if you are a woman of whatever age who is divorced, you are essentially fucked. Indian society has softened in that postwall hamsters can essentially hide from reality by hitting up cougarish clubs, try to find white / non-Indian older guys who are willing to settle for them, etc.

No alpha fucks or beta bucks. It's brutal, when I was young and read God of Small Things, I thought it was tragic the way this one character is totally fucked up for live by an early 21 year old divorce. But when I saw the dynamics at play, I realized its a trade, no different than the one in front of me at 21.

I could squander my parents sacrifices to educate me, become a druggie, work 10 hrs a week, crash on friends couches etc, and it might be FUN for a good 2-3 years. I'd have my lovely "on the road" story. Or I could do the right thing, and have a good life from ages 30 onwards. You choose to forego the best years of your life to chase addictions, be it heroin or alpha validation / cock, then yeah, you're life can get shitted away. This is fair in a cold sort of way.

Indian guys... especially yall low self-esteem motherfuckers making excuses and feeling down about not being a "sexy" race, go shove that up your ass. You're basically a google stock that is just about to explode as long as you don't ruin it by getting mindfucked into betahood.

FAwhy · 2013-12-15T23:38:10+00:00

I want a guy that makes similar to what I make (I am a business analyst.) I'd like him to at least be fit, and want to start a family. I'd want a guy that is respectful and kind.

LOL, and of course she still wants it all.

Most of my relationships have been long term I have only been with 18 guys and I have been sexually active since I was 17 years old

LOL 18 guys in 15 years but most of her relationships have been long term? Bitch needs to learn how to do math or maybe she should have looked at a dictionary to figure out what long term meant.

fiat_lux_ · 2013-12-15T21:10:27+00:00

Remember, you're still fairly young. It is only the Indian culture that makes you feel inadequate in the dating/marital department. Also, it seems like you're much more diverse and outgoing than your siblings - take pride in that!

The comments are supportive of her, and say she "more diverse" and "outgoing" than her siblings. These presumptuous redditors don't even know OP's siblings.

And how is it "outgoing" and "diverse" for OP to go out of her way to avoid Indian guys and exclusively date white guys?

Throughout my whole life I never really dated any Indian guys; I exclusively dated white guys. However now I realize more than ever that the guys I dated never really took me seriously. They never really viewed me as someone they would eventually marry. I was always just some exotic fun. This part was definitely a realization that has hurt me to the core.

"I don't date Indian guys, they are too old fashioned for me. I'm the only diverse and outgoing Indian person here!"

I really don't care if you're a girl who dates outside of her race/ethnicity, but if you go out of your way to avoid your own, then that's not exactly being open-minded.

The hypocrisy is astounding. She complains that the men in her life never took her seriously and treated her as "some exotic fun", but that's exactly what she's been doing to men. She wanted what she considered exotic fun -- outside her own ethnicity. Basically, stereotyping against Indian men, and fetishizing white men.

Now she expects men to treat her with the respect she never gave to them.

Right.

ItsYourHandInMine · 2013-12-15T20:44:39+00:00

Haha if women aren't married by 30 in Asian cultures, they can't get married to a decent guy. They don't want used up, older women as having kids is important in these communities.

SSTUPNC · 2013-12-15T22:11:51+00:00

I used to live in Santa Monica and this is surprisingly common among Asian women.

A lot of them slut it up with white dudes and are then surprised when they marry young college white women and leave them out to dry.

After that men of their own race don't want them bitterness, hate, and hamstering ensues.

The number of women I encountered like this on a daily basis was staggering.

TRPsubmitter · 2013-12-16T00:53:43+00:00

"I've only been with 18 guys"

...and you wonder why Indian guys aren't lining up to be with you? That's almost 4 basketball teams.

TheEyeUrnShaft · 2013-12-16T00:10:10+00:00

Honestly, this is going to be controversial. But I feel most men on a pure genetic instinctual level do not desire to wife up a woman who has been promiscuous, especially with men outside of their own ethnic/racial group.

heist_of_saint_graft · 2013-12-15T21:02:18+00:00

Lol look at that BP last comment. "I sent you a PM :)". Guy's username is "desirebutdontdemand".

VeryWideDoucheNozzle · 2013-12-15T21:39:33+00:00

As a 28 yo Indian guy ... born to first generation immigrants. All I gotta say is that drink/eat meat etc is acceptable, but a broken hymen makes her an unacceptable mate for 97% of the "marriage material" Indian men. Even if she marries an Indian guy, with that history, she will never get an ounce of respect from her Husband.

Her best chance is to now lock down a pudgy beta from a different culture/race.

redpill_man · 2013-12-15T22:50:56+00:00

Did anyone else see this gem she posted?

I want a guy that makes similar to what I make (I am a business analyst.) I'd like him to at least be fit, and want to start a family. I'd want a guy that is respectful and kind.

BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Good luck with that one honey.

TheEyeUrnShaft · 2013-12-16T01:22:03+00:00

I just wanted to make things clear I didn't "sleep around." Most of my relationships have been long term I have only been with 18 guys

lolwut

TimeAndDisregard · 2013-12-15T21:45:30+00:00

I exclusively dated white guys

I was always just some exotic fun.

Seems that goes both ways.

dnietz · 2013-12-16T00:16:54+00:00

""Only been with 18 guys""

LOL

32-17=15

15/18=.83 (about 10 months)

10 months isn't a "long term relationship". It's a relationship but not a long term one.

To be clear, I understand that you don't simply divide that out in that way. But she did say "most". So that means she is trying to say that significantly more than half of her relationships were long term. So my math is valid. You can't have the majority of your relationships be long term if you had 18 of them in 15 years.

Perhaps she had 14 one night stands 1 short relationship and 2 long relationships. But that is sophistry.

Beyond that, we all know that if she says 18, the real number is three times that. I don't believe 18 for even a second.

TRPsubmitter · 2013-12-15T21:38:10+00:00

The Korean-American community has these types of girls x 10 (minus the "official" arranged marriage dynamic; although blind dating/marriage meetings are VERY common among Koreans, just no outright arranged marriages).

I found myself laughing the entire time. Justiceporn.

EDIT: went to the OP and saw some of her updated responses.

I am just being honest here if you are white it's much easier to find a guy. Seems like guys of every race are automatically attracted to white women.

Solipsism is amazing.

I don't want to give up parts of my culture. I know some parts of it are repressive, but it's something I have grown up in and I thoroughly enjoy.

So its only okay to give up your culture on Saturday nights? Be consistent.

And when asked why she wants to save her culture:

the wedding, the clothes, the ceremonies, the respect.

Apparently not the self-respect

RedPillsHere · 2013-12-15T21:34:03+00:00

I love how the first comment is saying that 'it's not your fault it's the Indian culture's fault,' to absolve her of the consequences of her actions.

CallMeMrBadGuy · 2013-12-15T23:24:50+00:00

Lol. It's not even an Indian guy thing. I think it's more that the guys really just viewed her appropriately as a jumpoff. They are young and as appropriately as is so for young dudes, are not worried bout marriage. Their focuses are on conquesting as much and as varied as possible. Wouldnt be surprised if there were some less rambunctious Bill Gates like dude that were interested in her but she too was in that "just have fun with the crazy boys" phase. Now she's looking around and absolutely SOL because she didnt know when to get off the ride. At the wrong time, when her value is on decline. So sounds like she played the game totally wrong. Same ol same ol.

rule_of_law · 2013-12-16T05:14:42+00:00

In my family I was always the rebellious one; I would often challenge my parents. My family was very strict, when it came to dating and my siblings usually fell in line. However, I would challenge that norm. My brother and sister were very repressed with their sexualities as a result, while I lost my virginity at 17 to my then boyfriend. While my brother and followed the traditional Indian path. My brother ended up not having any sexual contact with a girl until he got married at 25 (arranged marriage) and now they have a child together. My sister (too never kissed a boy) has recently gotten married too at 24 with an Indian boy she met at our Temple (both parents approved).

So basically her siblings, who were "sexually repressed" when they were 17, have been sleeping with a member of the opposite sex every night for the past 5 years, right? But yea the family was "strict". It's not like they were trying to help you or anything, right?

The sad thing is, the only way she can now truly appreciate her parent's attempts to guide her... are to admit that they were right and that her lifestyle of fucking "only" 18 dudes was wrong if she wanted monogamy.

Nemester · 2013-12-16T15:41:15+00:00

I hope Indian guys out there don't fuck up and marry that washed out slut.

through_a_ways · 2013-12-15T23:52:40+00:00

Weeeeelllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll, now she wants in on the culture, the gender roles, the responsibilities that come with not being rebellious.

Even if you're white [I'm India], if you're rebellious, you get someone like this. I like a woman who will cook and clean for me. And if you're gonna bitch about women doing things for men, Bitch! I fuckin proposed and worked my ass off so I can be the man I am today. You don't slave after me. You GET to do these things for me.

Anyway, point being, don't do what everyone else is doing. Pick up your shit, see what's goin on, and be responsible. Indian or not. Hopefully, you don't end up like grandma over here.

vaker · 2013-12-16T01:51:43+00:00

progressive friends

Poor girl got mixed up in the wrong crowd and now suffering the consequences. :)

SgtBrutalisk · 2013-12-16T02:17:45+00:00

She posted in quite a few subreddits.

americnleprchaun · 2013-12-16T17:16:43+00:00

"I have only been with 18 guys" Lol, only 18? No guy wants to know that, much less marry the fact

Aerobus · 2013-12-15T22:51:43+00:00

Culture matters. No Indian guy wants a post wall whitewashed slut, when he can get a loyal submissive woman from India.

Indian guy here. I plan on taking college seriously and major in Engineering because I know that after I do this there will be Indian parents that will want to marry off their daughters to me (arranged marriage is still frequent in Indian culture). There is no way I'd consider her for marriage exactly for the reason you specified. In fact, I'd tell all my male Indian relatives and friends to not consider her.

neilmccauley1980 · 2013-12-16T02:22:27+00:00

File it under horror stories of women when they finally face the wall hahaha

through_a_ways · 2013-12-16T00:36:55+00:00

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W-Z-R · 2013-12-16T19:40:44+00:00

As a White guy into South Asian women-my RedPill Indian friends should not settle for that.

I don't support racism, but there is a certain element of "My people are less than White guys" and that would always be in her, they would always be the lesser, the one she settled for.

CptConfused · 2013-12-15T22:03:27+00:00

I've thought about this a lot recently. But is it not inevitable of today's society to produce women who behave this way?

A few blames, contraception being one sex is meaningless and disposable, pop culture doesn't teach you to be responsible, I think the big one is that women aren't encouraged to have children young any more and instead pursue careers, basically they're not encouraged to be women.

So they spend there teens and 20s living in this paradox, chasing alphas but can't breed.

Bean888 · 2013-12-16T01:06:42+00:00

Lol 'forever alone'

Archwinger · 2013-12-16T15:43:15+00:00

"I have only been with 18 guys."

That's her problem right there. She isn't whitewashed enough. Here in America, no matter how many cocks you've had inside of you, you always say 3.

Elecroam · 2013-12-16T15:26:33+00:00

If a woman dates exclusively outside her race, there is something wrong with her. Avoid this sort of woman at all costs.

LuckyGreenEyes · 2013-12-17T08:16:13+00:00

She can read what you're writing about her. She following these cross-posts. This is awful. I truly sorry for this human being. This person came to Reddit for help and is obviously very upset. I understand some "tough" advice, but calling her a "white-washed slut"... This is a person with deep feelings, like you or I. I hate seeing this side of humanity... Edit: Grammar

oaklad · 2014-01-08T02:48:14+00:00

This has nothing to do with being Indian, and everything to do with have led a very liberal lifestyle with lots of relationships. There are plenty of white, yellow, black, olive, tan, spray-tan (etc) women in this same situation. She broke free from her immigrant background and moved on. Good for her! I hope she finds whatever she is looking for.

KyfhoMyoba · 2014-03-02T02:28:12+00:00

"I have only been with 18 guys." "Only". Priceless.

googly_doosra · 2013-12-16T18:02:33+00:00

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EDIT: I am Indian (25). I sent messages to some indian girls on okc each and every single one of them read and ignored it. I sent follow ups asking them why, and they never had the guts to tell me. Average, plain-jane minority race chicks ignored ME.

I will never forget. Never forgive.

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[deleted] · 2013-12-16T02:27:18+00:00

Redditor for 8 hours, you're a Redditor for 13. Also I've read some of your posts and you sound really troll-ey.

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Title	Indian woman sleeps exclusively with white guys goes against her culture. Now 32, looking for a guy to start a family with.
Author	mistonag
Upvotes	131
Comments	388
Date	December 15, 2013 8:32 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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