How many men here fit these standards?

Stunning-Spirit5275 · 2023-07-27T21:51:27+00:00

You forgot height, race and build

Diligent_Divide_4978 · 2023-07-27T20:54:05+00:00

You forgot 2 things.

Willing to simp.

Willing to treat you like a queen.

Not my words, yours.

Dismal-Visit-756 · 2023-07-27T21:21:05+00:00

Briefly reminder: good-looking guys don't need to fit all those things. This post is a kind of tee hee i'm looking for a simp/beta provider.

Relative_Editor_2179 · 2023-07-28T01:05:51+00:00

Has a profession or trade that pays decently well.

I work in banking and make 6 figures

Working or in school full time.

I work full time

Is putting money away for retirement

Where I live the government forces you to do this

Will be able to afford a house

I already own a house

Is loyal: won’t cheat

I don’t have the SMV to cheat

Doesn’t smoke

I don’t smoke because it is unpleasant

Doesn’t drink more than like a beer once a week, if at all

I don’t drink because it smells and tastes like shit

Doesn’t do drugs including weed m

Waste of money

Gentle

In a sense

Kind

Sort of

Manly

Not sure what this means. I don’t really have any feminine interests or personality traits. I like traditional male things like sports but I don’t think many would call me “manly”

A good leader; won’t lead his family into destruction

Well my team at work which I lead achieves KPIs

Doesn’t hate women: is not misogynistic

Probably not to your definition. I’m not a simp hence I would probably be seen as a misogynist

Is a 4/10 or higher

Subjective but I would probably be placed below 4 by a lot due to my race

Doesn’t watch porn more than once a week, if at all

I don’t watch porn

Doesn’t go to prostitutes or sugar babies or other sex workers

Waste of money

Is older than 25

Yes I am but this is not much of an achievement

Agreeable_Dust2855 · 2023-07-27T21:14:20+00:00

Less than 1 in 1000 men fit these standards. Probably less than 1 in 10,000. Just “manly” and “not misogynistic” exclude probably 99% of the population already lol very few manly men aren’t misogynistic.

platinirisms · 2023-07-27T21:57:42+00:00

Yes to everything except

A good leader

Depends on this definition, I don’t ‘lead’, I plan dates and holidays and stuff, but I’m not the boss of anything nor do I lead anyone, I don’t plan on leading my family into destruction like.

manly

Depends on your definition of manly, I’m a muscular dude with a thick beard, but I also like to cook and water flowers too.

newyork_ripper · 2023-07-27T22:16:33+00:00

Everything listed bar doesn't drink. And a lot of the milestones you've listed are stuff I've already done (home ownership, career orientation etc).

But I am an older non-incel in a happy relationship - not the target demographic that you're looking to bully, if my assumption of the intent behind this post is correct.

SilentFroggy · 2023-07-27T20:45:31+00:00

JFl I see myself being all of those except for

Doesn’t hate women: is not misogynistic

DarkAdmirable653 · 2023-07-28T03:14:44+00:00

I fit all of those but I'm not gonna be loyal

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-27T22:15:55+00:00

Ah man, no stoners? Lame

Windmill_flowers · 2023-07-28T01:27:25+00:00

I'm surprised your standards don't include these common criteria

Funny
Spontaneous
Outgoing
Emotionally available
Confident
Ambitious
Intelligent
Passionate

ToxapexHisui · 2023-07-27T21:17:45+00:00

Yooou don't need this. Just have a nice personality and you'll find someone for sure.

thotswillthot · 2023-07-28T00:43:09+00:00

All men cheat if allowed hence why slave owner toke it upon themselves to never be faithful men when given the option will sleep around as they see fit

Valuable-Marzipan761 · 2023-07-27T20:51:13+00:00

Gentle, kond and manly are hard to define but i'd say i fill the others.. none seem that rare.

biscuitcatapult · 2023-07-27T21:01:43+00:00

All but three of those.

Dismal-Visit-756 · 2023-07-27T21:01:43+00:00

I'm sub zero

ace52387 · 2023-07-27T21:11:28+00:00

Why older than 25? Being younger isnt somehow worse.

Im most of these things. Not that kind, not that manly (depending on the definition), watch porn more than once a week usually.

ComfortableOk5003 · 2023-07-27T22:01:19+00:00

Pays decently well is vague af, and differs by area. Better off having an actual number

Will be able to afford a house…by when? Where? How big?

What if weed is legal where said man comes from

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-07-27T22:03:58+00:00

Accountant, School for CPA, Maxed retirement accounts, can buy a condo in cash, never cheated, no, no, no, if I want to be?, Sure, Yes, Yes, I don't hate women, I'm 5'7 so some women see me as 3/10 XD but I'm fit, got me I do but could stop if gf asked, HA I go to Sugar babies cuz girls don't want me despite meeting above standards, I'm 30.

malesareobjects · 2023-07-27T22:49:33+00:00

I fit a lot of those standards except being a lot afford a house and I'm 25.

No-Neighborhood-5851 · 2023-07-27T23:11:59+00:00

Has a profession or trade that pays decently well.

Yes

Working or in school full time.

Yes

Is putting money away for retirement

Have a few retirement accounts, but haven't contributed any money to them in over a year

Will be able to afford a house

Already own one

Is loyal: won’t cheat

Yes

Doesn’t smoke

Correct

Doesn’t drink more than like a beer once a week, if at all

Correct

Doesn’t do drugs including weed m

Correct

Gentle

Sure?

Kind

I try

Manly

Hard to feel like one when you're a 31 year old virgin

A good leader; won’t lead his family into destruction

Not really

Doesn’t hate women: is not misogynistic

I get frustrated with them, in regards to dating, but I don't hate them

Is a 4/10 or higher

I like to believe that I am. Probably a 6 right now, 7 if I can do it right. Can get to an 8 if I fix my diet

Doesn’t watch porn more than once a week, if at all

Lolno

Doesn’t go to prostitutes or sugar babies or other sex workers

Does OF count?

Is older than 25

Yes. 31

Sabrepill · 2023-07-28T05:04:07+00:00

I have no profession or trade, but a successful business

Don’t work more than a couple hours a week, pay other to work for me

Cheat: I’m not sure. I haven’t cheated yet.

I’m not misogynistic but am anti feminist and anti woke

Yes to everything else

ItoshiSae10 · 2023-07-28T06:16:23+00:00

``Will be able to afford a house``

This has become very hard in the current financial climate. My friend has been earning an above average salary for 2 years now and can barely afford it

``Is a 4/10 or higher``

I was about to say everything else applies to me and then this came up xD

Overall these are pretty reasonable standards

SecondEldenLord · 2023-07-28T07:11:13+00:00

Don't have a profession that pays decently yet

I work and do course at the same time

I am saving money for retirement, have a private pension

Cannot afford a house yet

I am loyal

I don't smoke

The only time I drink alcohol is only when I go out and that happens very rarely

Don't do drugs and never did

I am gently

I am kind

I could've been manlier but I do consider myself manly

Not sure about good leader, must have a family for that first

Don't hate women

I consider myself a 5/10

Well, I am celibate and I have sex maybe once or twice a year when I go to escorts back in my country so yeah, I do watch porn cause, well, I am young and horny and do not satisfy my sexual urges.

I do go to prostitutes but rarely cause I wanted to know how sex is. If I wouldn't have gone to escorts I still would've been a virgin at 32 cause I never had unpaid sex before.

I am 32.

Ok-Bell3376 · 2023-07-29T08:20:12+00:00

I can't cope with working full time so I can only work part time at the moment. I also drink a lot and see sex workers for cuddles and conversation.

I do have a savings account and pension set up though.

Sorry

Additional-Run-6026 · 2023-07-30T00:06:28+00:00

Drinking and watching porn once a week sounds a bit arbitrary.

eeekkkgg · 2023-08-04T01:26:01+00:00

Has a profession or trade that pays decently well.

Never had a proper job.

Working or in school full time.

lol no

Is putting money away for retirement

Nope.

Will be able to afford a house

Maybe if I inherit one.

Is loyal: won’t cheat

How the fuck should I know.

Doesn’t smoke

Yay, got one.

Doesn’t drink more than like a beer once a week, if at all

Or two.

Doesn’t do drugs including weed m

Well...

Gentle

Kind

I don't interact with people enough to have a meaningful social profile, these qualities simply can't be measured.

Manly

Fuck no. I'm roughly as manly as an underfed 8 year old boy.

A good leader; won’t lead his family into destruction

lol

Doesn’t hate women: is not misogynistic

Hey, got another one.

Is a 4/10 or higher

2/10 on a good day.

Doesn’t watch porn more than once a week, if at all

Why wouldn't I?

Doesn’t go to prostitutes or sugar babies or other sex workers

With my anxiety? Impossible.

Is older than 25

I'm a wizard, so yes.

So what's that overall? 5 out of 17?

How many men here fit these standards?

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