Long story short, my ex is basically demanding I bow to every little demand or she threatens to not let me take kids on vacation or have Christmas with them etc.

I’m not sure how to deal with this. She wanted to force me to get a babysitter when kids are old enough and don’t need it. She threatened legal action against that but realized she didn’t have a leg to stand on.

So now she’s trying to change drop off time/days. She refuses to tell me what she wants and says we need to meet in person and amend separation agreement.

I’m not sure where this has all come from. We coparented pretty well during this past year but now she’s talking down to me as a parent and trying to force things upon me. Any advice? I don’t want to be a pushover.