It’s worse than you could ever imagine.

My wife is a family law attorney. I trusted her, believed in her and loved her. Little did I know that I was set up from the beginning.

I owned my home for almost twenty years when I married my wife. During my marriage I refinanced my home and put her on the title with understanding that if I die the house “would go to her and not to my ex wife” who was the mother of my young son. She also promised to put me on her title of her home as well. I merged assets with the understanding she would merge hers. I did, she didn’t. She used her child support that she was receiving from her ex husband to pay for her property in order not to commingle funds. She never put me on her home title and never planned to, she told she would to trick me to put her on mine. She was my wife and I believed her.

After three years of marriage I found out what she was doing and that she also secretly had nearly a million in cash, assets and retirement stashed away. I also discovered a lot of horrible and illegal things that she had done and kept hidden from me as well.

I asked her to take her name off my home or put my name on her home. She refused and I realized I was fucked, perfectly set up by my wife a divorce attorney. She emptied out my bank accounts, stole my car and came by with a moving truck and emptied out my home while I was at work. She has stalked me and my friends with hired private eyes and online.

We didn’t have a child together and she left my home just short of four years of being married. As a lawyer, she knew exactly what she was doing and later admitted it to me privately. She made sure that no one heard our agreements, that there was no written agreements, text messages or emails to substantiate my claim. She has 10 times what I have in savings and is grinding me slowly and surely into dust with attorneys fees. She wants my home, a home that she said she would never take, a home that I owned for nearly twenty years prior. She has a beautiful home, job, retirement and savings. I’m in my mid fifties and will have nothing left after a three year marriage because I trusted my wife the divorce attorney.

Every lawyer I spoke with, because I live in a no fault community property state, told me I’m screwed.

This divorce is entering its third year. She asking for several times more than what she’s legally entitled, to keep this divorce alive and to bury me in attorneys fees.

I don’t know what I can do. The system is flawed, especially when you are divorcing someone who knows how to work the system to their advantage.

She is a liar, crook, committed fraud and is a deviant. Plus a whole lot more.

Be careful who you marry, who you trust. Better yet don’t ever get married, the risks outweigh the rewards.