My wife has been bringing up divorce for years and asking me to make simple changes that I haven’t made like more grocery shopping and planning/cooking some meals.

I have recently taken on more and more of the grocery shopping and planning but she’s says it’s all too little too late. She says she wants me to move out but she’s very manipulative and constantly says things wanting me to do the opposite. I live in a constant state of anxiety that I’ll do the wrong thing and then she lays into me that I’ve done it or everything wrong.

I don’t know what will happen next but any advice from this would be helpful and very appreciated.