Email from STBX

Feisty_Elderberry_96 · 2024-10-20T02:34:07+00:00

I know it's an uncontested divorce. But typically these are printed out and signed in front of a notary. Also, even though it's only 10 months --, seeing as she's acting like this -- maybe have a lawyer read it (probably worth the ,$500 he'll charge).

You never know what surprises might be in there, especially if she has a lawyer. Who knows, maybe she threw in a line about lifetime spousal support or something.

Just be careful.

dnbndnb · 2024-10-20T01:54:21+00:00

When THEY want something, they want it NOW. When you want something… meh.

techrmd3 · 2024-10-20T00:24:10+00:00

not strange at all

imagine a person so into their own headspace that they cannot even have a thought about someone else's feelings.

that is the mind set of a spouse who is divorcing, if they paused to actually think about someone else they might well not be filing unilaterally for divorce.

To the divorce filer this is just paperwork and busy work because they mentally 'moved on' from the marriage WAY BEFORE they decided to tell the other spouse via a divorce filing.

insanityisinherit · 2024-10-19T22:08:28+00:00

Beware. Her lawyer can draft up anything and call it a final decree, and if you sign it, it will be.

warwww · 2024-10-19T17:01:25+00:00

It’s just to gather a reaction from you. Just give a thumbs up and move on.

pikohina · 2024-10-19T13:58:35+00:00

Her lawyer should be emailing and sending the docs through postal. I wouldn’t sign any emailed docs.

This_Train340i · 2024-10-19T12:17:58+00:00

Sounds like you don't have a lawyer, which is rarely a good idea even in uncontested divorces.

oldschool818 · 2024-10-19T11:37:52+00:00

“Please direct all communication to my attorney.” And repeat as necessary.

Practical-Island-436 · 2024-10-19T11:34:08+00:00

Let the lawyers handle it, some of them love playing lawyer.

Gattsama · 2024-10-19T04:13:42+00:00

If you both have attorneys, then it was sent to the attorney. Just ignore her, contact your attorney, and proceed from there.

frogmicky · 2024-10-19T03:08:15+00:00

They get strange when divorcing lol.

Title	Email from STBX
Author	TexAgStros0806
Upvotes	12
Comments	17
Date	October 19, 2024 2:46 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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