I've recently separated from my wife and divorce is on the horizon. We've been married 23 years and I cant think of future anymore.

I'm caught between thinking about the happy times in our marriage and trying to remember the bad tough times so that I don't feel so much loss.

The reason's aren't important but right now life is hard. I'm already taking depression medication and have done for a year, my mood swings can be erratic.

I'm curious to hear from people about how they coped in those early days

Thanks