37 M 1 year post separation 1 toddler shared custody on 2-2-3 schedule. Looking to take a vacation in the coming months, solo trip, not sure what I am looking for other than an adventure/experience.

Anyone do this in the time post separation and have any general advice as well as location ideas ? I am in the north east of North America.

Recommendations for a long weekend 4 nights when I do not have my toddler as well as 1 week over Xmas (child will be with mom)?

Edit - based on recommendations so far I feel I need to qualify - not motivated by sex tourism.