Hi all, I am currently going through divorce. My still husband moved out this past Monday. He asked for a divorce a couple of months ago and quickly after started looking for a place eve though we had discussed doing it slowly for the sake of our daughter. He told me he doesn't love me romantically anymore, just as the mother of his child. I asked how long he's been processing for since he looks so put together. He said 9 years (we've been married for 9 years) and mentally checked out for 1 year. Today I look my daughter over to his place and dropped off some of his belongings and some of daughters belongings as well. He kissed me (passionately) and held me. Am I going crazy thinking that this isn't the way a person whose no longer in love or interested acts?

He'll ask how I'm doing (not good at all) but I say I'm okay. I asked him and you and he avoided answering and just said tired from work it's been exhausted. Is there a possibility he'll come home to his family? He's told me plenty times that it doesn't matter what I do or say he's not going to change his mind. He says he wants to be friends. He'll tell me things like you'll be okay, you've got this, I'm proud of you, etc.

I want a man's perspective on this! Please!