My wife and I are going to counseling this week, borderline on divorce. She spent a lot of time trying to convince me that divorce would be best for us. Eventually, I was convinced and agreed. Two days after she got the petition for divorce, she tells me she doesn’t want it and wants to go to counseling. But I’m still convinced that divorce would be better for us, and feel I’m doing counseling because I don’t want my kids living in another state and not sure if I’d be in this marriage 100%. I’m mostly unsure what to ask in counseling to help determine if both of us are wanting to save the marriage for us and the kids, or if I’m just wanting to half-ass this thing so I don’t lose my kids. Insight on what I’m saying in this or what I should ask the counselor would be very much appreciated.