A few of you may remember my story.

Life is good.

I sorted out my life, reconnected with friends and family, my friends are the best thing that could have happened to me after my kids.

When she started telling everyone about the divorce, people were sympathetic to her, even though she wanted out after meeting a married man at work. Found out later.

It hurt and I was broken, she even told me I was strong and was going to be ok, yeah they are heartless.

I started to work on myself, take care of my kids, after she moved out. I got the house, did renovations, threw out all the stuff she left behind. More than a year has passed, I'm happy and in a good place, I still have my off days and sleepless nights and I guess this could go on for a few more years. Financially things are getting better too. I enjoyed a three week vacation with my kids, it was fantastic. We did whatever we wanted and had lots of fun.

They were emotional when I dropped them off at my ex.

Fast forward, ex has been trying to get back into my life, I suspect to control me or her relationship failed. She recently emailed asking we meet. I told her I have no desire to meet with her. That felt good. And anything can be communicated through email.

Haven't heard from her again, though I suspect this won't be the last time.

She sees me walking around happy at my kids Events that she also shows up at, I usually say hello and will get on with my business.

Women have also discovered me again, it's funny how they come out of the woodwork when you are minding your own business, though I'm not interested currently, having too much fun with my new wardrobe, watches, videogames and going to places solo, with the kids or friends.

Just wanted to share.

The relationship may have ended but it's not the end of your life.

My advice to any man going through this.

Be patient, get you affairs sorted out, workout, or any other sports, as long as you do something and remember never to take them back years down the road. Most regret what they had and will try to come back, keep them in front of the door and never let them inside. And why would you want someone back who has been run through after she left?

Enjoy your life and peace.