I feel so dirty about this. So f dirty.

But wife was picked up for DV2 in front of our kid, against me. 6 months ago. Tried to work it out.

Went well. She got into PTI(a diversion program) but the drinking came back. She is screaming at me in front of the kid. I’m afraid dss will come back.

She is very reliant on me.

I feel like such a bitch to do this.

I’m not perfect, but I’ve never been violent or aggressive. She turns everything around to blame me and I’m starting to feel crazy.

I’m afraid to let her conclude the programming 2-4 weeks and then she really acts out and I get a worse divorce outcome.

How big of a bitch move is this? It’s going to eat at my soul if I do it but so will alimony and a shitty divorce.

To be clear I’m not doing it to get a favorable divorce, it’s because she is breaking everything we agreed on. Everything. And lying.