Is internet lying ?

YourPersonaIJesus · 2022-11-24T12:13:05+00:00

There is a significant amount of grifting that happens within the pills. It's just a new way to look at modern data but in many cases it's greatly exaggerated and sensationalized for ad revenue. Stop looking for who is 100% right and wrong. That's binary, reductive thinking.

There are some truths to nearly every religion and philosophy out there and most are just a different way to view the same things. Pick one, learn it, apply it. When you're done, pick another, learn it, apply it until you find a system that works best for you.

What do you want from life and relationships? Do you want to get married and have kids? Or would you rather find a relationship where you don't build a family by choice, have fun, and travel for the rest of your days? Or are you introverted and prefer hookup culture instead so you can roam solo?

FellasImSorry · 2022-11-24T13:22:42+00:00

So you see happy couples in the actual world and wonder whether that’s the fake part and the shit people say on the internet when they’re trying to make money is real?

How is this even a question?

Is your hat on too tight?

It’s like “I see a lot of animals at the zoo, but then a read on a website that animals aren’t real, and I’m confused.”

“I tried using this cleaning product and it didn’t work, but the commercial said it was the best ever. Which is right?”

SweelFor- · 2022-11-24T13:29:40+00:00

I see happy couples irl everywhere ,

Either internet is lying or

What i see is fake

Take a guess

Catesa · 2022-11-24T13:16:09+00:00

Predatory people exist. And people who they target are people who show signs of being easily taken advantage of. Trauma responses are repulsive to normal people and attract predatory people.

So there are people out there who constantly are sourounded by people who want to take advantage of them. Their will have completely different experiences from people who are boundaried and look like they feel safe.

Internet allows people to meet other people who have similar problems and experiences as you. So guys who have a female predator problem will find each other and share how to deal with them and finally find some sense of belonging. Their worldview is affirmed. And they start sharing solutions, which are mostly reactive abuse. I will solve the problem proactively.

Algorithms that give you content that you "want" to watch don't help and funel people into echo chambers.

The actual world is a lot more diverse place. But you probably interact with only a part of it. Internet spaces reflect experiences of people who share that space. And people who gravitate towards the same spaces share similar experiences.

So in conclusion, internet is showing you stuff. And you get stuff that you pay attention to. Mostly people who are sharing how they want you to precieve their life. I went to work, ate tasty food, did hobbies is boring.

lilycamilly · 2022-11-24T15:50:26+00:00

The internet is absolutely lying to you.

thrifteddivacup · 2022-11-24T13:08:14+00:00

People take advantage of other people but overall I think the majority are not dedicated to this grift. From every person, I think most women are not gold diggers and most men in red pill aren't awful humans.

Even though I'm female I fell down the red pill hole and consumed so much of it's content I started to hate myself even though I try my best to be considerate to everyone, my partner thinks it's all hogwash, and I'm probably pretty average...it's a trap for people to get stuck in self loathing and gives them an unrealistic guideline to life.

If you have to ask "is the internet lying"? It probably isn't being 100% true.

goodboy92 · 2022-11-24T17:44:56+00:00

Now I am seeing what is the problem. With the advent of technology, social media and online games (LoL, CSGO, etc), guys and probably girls suddenly discover activities that are pleasant and supposedly safe, alll of this in the online ecosystem, you want something? Use an app. As a result, they saw that they don´t need to interact or even go outside of the house to search for answers because they know that this process is somehow painful (at first) so what they do is they search for answers inside social media, answers coming from people who only care about making a profit because as everyone already know Youtube content can be monetized, this answers can be a little truthful but is not 100%. These guys and girls, the consumers, they don´t wanna get hurt or be ridiculed, they don´t want to do trial and error, what they want is to have success at first and those YT channels sell all the supposedly things you must do or have in order to have a chance of success, even though those things are obvious thinks like grooming, taking a shower, earning more money and of course mastering yourself and your emotions.

Naus1987 · 2022-11-24T15:22:03+00:00

Let’s use a common red pill statistic for fun.

50% of marriages end in divorce.

That means 50% of marriages are successful. You probably see a lot of successful people.

This means you can be successful too!

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The truth is life is complicated and sometimes bad things happen. Kids die young. Some people never have relationships.

Just do what you want to do, and don’t worry about the statistics.

2022-11-24T20:25:53+00:00

Your eyes aren’t lying friend; what you see is the truth and you are confused because you are being gaslit. Much of TRP hinges on logical fallacies, biological determinism and pseudoscience. Some RP claims can be easily debunked by just going into your local Walmart and taking a look around.

Knowing how to spot logical fallacies is a good step toward inoculating yourself against this sort of thing. It may not work for everyone, but it worked to help me kick some of my RP'ed thoughts. Also, read about Chinese communist brainwashing tactics because some of them are the same as those used by TRP influencers.

Mean_Mechanic9889 · 2022-11-25T01:30:41+00:00

Life's what you make it sometimes. You project your world view onto your experiences. I think to some pill types their reality is real to them, but people happy go lucky loving their girlfriend/boyfriend are probably more in reality.

Other comments are right, misery loves company. Don't let miserable people effect how you see the world, because how you view the world effects your life choices. Sending love

Ifhes · 2022-11-29T21:57:20+00:00

The former. Red pill and Black pill influencers are either working for someone bigger, getting views or building a cult like community to scam and sell the "secret to have all the women you want, be rich and do as you please without any effort because men are cool and women suck".

MaynardRosemary · 2022-11-25T21:43:04+00:00

Internet is not the real life, real life is more complex and bigger.

i know someone who is a dwarf and he is in a relationship with someone, and the stats tell you that men lower than 1,70 cant have a romantic relationship with women

KayRay1994 · 2022-11-27T18:13:07+00:00

the internet is simply a platform, a very free and easy to use platform at that - it’s also easy to look legit - the internet is full of liars

AssistTemporary8422 · 2022-11-24T21:17:05+00:00

Blackpill and redpill have some truth. But most of these people aren't actually qualified in psychology, and don't have the social experience either. They are just people who are on their computers all the time debating theory rather than going out and meeting real women.

jrr6415sun · 2022-11-24T18:28:36+00:00

You know this is the internet right? Learn things for yourself

LALdeSaintJust · 2022-11-24T15:00:59+00:00

Personally, I am convinced that there is truth to the blackpill. If you don't possess certain traits, it will be close to impossible to find a partner. However, incels commonly misidentify what traits really matter. Specifically, they put to much emphasis on physical traits.

absolutebeginners · 2022-11-24T15:55:54+00:00

Stop whining or you're banned

Ok-Cry2907 · 2022-11-25T07:03:00+00:00

I’m not gonna lie, I’ve been lurking on this subreddit for a long time trying to change my mind, but the redpill is the truth. The black pill is a little bit true too. Penis is more enjoyable to a woman if it’s over 7 inches. A lot of women lie to and gaslight men. A lot of the happy couples you see only look that way from the outside. You don’t know what’s really happening. The world is the woman’s oyster nowadays. She can look like Quasimodo and still have men lined up to sleep with her. A man can be handsome and still be rejected by Ms Quasimodo because his penis is only 6.5 inches and there’s another guy with a 8 inch penis.

theunamerican · 2022-11-24T16:59:11+00:00

how are incels making money off the blackpill?

the blackpill sphere is just a bunch of small channels, even wheat waffles the biggest BP youtuber can't be making much

ifexa887 · 2022-11-24T11:25:48+00:00

Maybe i should just stop asking these questions since nobody can answer it and join the dark side instead, they have higher numbers, i can't fight it alone, i should join em, maybe they're right

Fancy-Respect8729 · 2022-11-25T05:39:05+00:00

Of course people lie on the internet. It's marketing. To get you to buy shit you don't need. There's some nuggets of truth in red pill or awareness that helps. But you could say that about anything. But if you have a broken leg who should you go to? I'd see a qualified specialist not some guy off the internet that says broken legs aren't real.

AutoModerator · 2022-11-26T02:30:58+00:00

Your eyes are not deceiving you. RP is. What I bet you never see is an 18 year old beauty queen hanging off the arm of a 40 year old man, a super hot woman with a super ugly/fat guy (atleast, not usually). What you probably see is couples that are equally-yoked in education, socioeconomic levels, age, appearance, and values. And that's real.

lilium-fox · 2022-11-28T21:22:25+00:00

Never confuse the internet with real life. Real life is often different from what people say online.

Title	Is internet lying ?
Author	ifexa887
Upvotes	17
Comments	57
Date	November 24, 2022 10:57 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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