Choose you every time - until it’s not even a question in your mind

LocalFeministtttt · 2021-02-19T20:35:04+00:00

Jackie was always put like a bitch for knowing her self worth lol, meanwhile Donna was there being “not like other girls” sometimes

zombieeezzz · 2021-02-19T20:57:36+00:00

Reminder that the dude who plays Hyde is a serial rapist IRL. 🤬🤬

Sewud · 2021-02-19T20:10:40+00:00

The false choice presented by men: which one of these LVMs will you choose?

cryptohobo · 2021-02-20T00:46:12+00:00

To any women reading this who disagrees or is scared to choose herself: learn the consequences by reading the plethora of posts on the marriage subreddit where wives lament they didn’t choose themselves sooner and regret putting a man first. Choosing yourself is your power, it’s the only way to survive as it’s a man’s world. Every time you choose yourself you also filter out potentially bad suitors: it sends the clear message that you don’t need a relationship, you choose to be in one, and a HVM will show you that he’s worth that choice. Remember, it’s the male peacocks that approach the females with their beautiful feathers to impress them, not the other way around.

Think it’s hard? Consider that if you can be so quick to choose to give a man a chance there’s no excuse that you can’t be that generous with yourself. You’re more capable than you think!

midgetsinheaven · 2021-02-20T02:29:47+00:00

I absolutely fell in love with myself over the shutdown last year. Spending so much time with me was wonderful and I had so much fun. I randomly met a guy in October and we've been inseparable ever since. He mentioned how he needs to treat me better than any other guy because he knows how much competition there is out there. I told him the only person he's competing with is me. I was happy by myself before him. I'll be happy by myself after him. He's competing with me. When that sunk in, he upped his game big time!!!

GailaMonster · 2021-02-19T19:18:42+00:00

I hate how self-care, self-love, self-respect, self-preservation, and self-prioritization is vilified in women, but Jeff Bezos is deeply respected for being so self-interested that "putting himself first" now resembles the GDP of a small nation.

He's an example to all men, but a woman who loves herself and isn't shy about it is a stuck up B*tch? Nah.

RhiannonEmilia · 2021-02-19T20:32:26+00:00

Jackie was the best character yet always demonized just bc she wasn’t the cool girl 🙄

HengroenAndLlamrei · 2021-02-20T00:56:43+00:00

Never choose someone who doesn’t treat you even better than you treat yourself.

darkshadows2021 · 2021-02-19T20:28:05+00:00

Always me now. When it wasn't the choices affected me the most negatively so now I make sure to invest in myself and the interest I grow feeds those closest to me without using myself up.

saint-jezebel · 2021-02-19T22:40:48+00:00

It’s interesting. I was reading a post in a “neutral” pill sub earlier today and what’s funny is even the scrotes with dookie stained Hanes know that FDS is not just about “dating” or “strategy” but understanding that at the end of the day, women don’t need to do a damn thing compared to men and it’s preached to choose yourself over settling. Just like the fools in the meme, they can play stupid all they want but they know. They “know”. I will choose me all day everyday.

Bellebasi · 2021-02-20T01:35:47+00:00

This is my phone screensaver!! I’ve been working on loving myself so much that I would run into my arms - I love that visual

alien665 · 2021-02-20T00:48:27+00:00

I have chosen me for the past year and it feels amazing

breadandbunny · 2021-02-20T03:50:34+00:00

And it makes me sad when women don't love themselves this much. Anyone, really. It's important to have a good relationship with oneself.

tsunamibird · 2021-02-19T23:46:02+00:00

Good for her.

srghc8 · 2021-02-20T00:16:03+00:00

This resonates so much with me lately. I have been working hard to make sure that I am choosing me.

msundrstoodcmmndr · 2021-02-20T01:22:36+00:00

I literally just posted this yesterday of her saying she loves herself most. It’s the biggest mood.

Title	Choose you every time - until it’s not even a question in your mind
Author	NannuhBannan
Upvotes	3266
Comments	41
Date	February 19, 2021 6:58 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lnnjig/choose_you_every_time_until_its_not_even_a/
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