Don’t date a porn addicted man, don’t be cool with porn. An HVM doesn’t jerk off to female exploitation & other women in general.

Icy_Mojito · 2020-06-09T15:03:29+00:00

This is painful to read

whatisfunemployment · 2020-06-09T15:02:10+00:00

Willing to bet the comments look like this:

"Stop controlling him and focus on YOUR insecurity."

Fitncurly · 2020-06-09T16:09:41+00:00

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PaciencaYFe · 2020-06-09T16:09:01+00:00

It's on r/deadbedrooms and no she did not leave

chateauduchat · 2020-06-09T15:18:59+00:00

I got second hand exhaustion reading this

jayda92 · 2020-06-09T15:26:27+00:00

Poor sis'. Hope she finds FDS in time..

Beata1415 · 2020-06-09T15:49:44+00:00

They can watch porn together /s

Eat_Pant_b0ss · 2020-06-09T19:23:24+00:00

There is this idea you need to stop loving them in order to leave when really you need to start loving yourself MORE than you love them. Then you'll choose to leave. After that, you'll stop loving them naturally.

mscristalconnors · 2020-06-09T15:58:31+00:00

Girl run! There’s plenty of men who do not watch porn. Get out!!!

LizardInFirst · 2020-06-09T17:21:13+00:00

I could have written this a few years ago. My ex had a dreadful porn addiction that he refused to address. Sex quickly dwindled to a few times a year and he was unable to ejaculate with me, ever. I stayed for much longer than I should have but I eventually left, and it was the BEST THING I ever did. I’m now dating someone new and I used the suggestions from this site to confirm that his views on porn are acceptable to me. He passed!

NewGirl_WhoDis · 2020-06-09T17:26:55+00:00

Girl, better run! You've wasted most of your late teens/ early 20s with him...

NewGirl_WhoDis · 2020-06-09T17:38:37+00:00

this is disgusting. imagine being so depraved that you lack every form of self control and you actually have to masturbate in your office bathroom 🤮🤮🤮🤮

Lavender_flow · 2020-06-09T19:17:16+00:00

Just break up with guys like that. It is NOT worth dating a porn addict. She will be going ROUND and ROUND emotionally, and more likely than not he will never actually fully stop. He might be clean for a while, but ultimately he will just go back to the porn. Him choosing porn over his partner says EVERYTHING about the relationship and he has some real mental issues. It is NEVER "just porn" there is always a HEAP of problems underneath, she needs to wake up and smell the porn sick guy and leave him. She is right about one thing, she will be WASTING her life and years of it sticking by a guy like this. Nah sis, time to level up and dump the loser.

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2020-06-09T16:33:43+00:00

Wow......

One of my long term relationship exes had a low sex drive. Now I'm wondering if he secretly had a porn addiction. I know I was considered very attractive by all this friends. Felt rejected and insecure everytime he refused sex.

bigthotstatus · 2020-06-09T18:46:57+00:00

Thankfully the majority of the comments on her post are encouraging her to leave him

2020-06-09T21:26:50+00:00

Ok..WHY is she trying every damn thing to convince this guy to want to have sex with her.

I know she said everything but the sex is good, bit I don’t think that’s true. She mentions that he “ignores” her when she makes these (god damned heroic) efforts. That doesn’t sound like someone who pays attention to her. Even if her efforts at seduction are falling flat with him, a loving boyfriend would acknowledge her!

Tatpixie13 · 2020-06-09T22:32:13+00:00

Honestly, and I know it sounds shitty. I would just start dating other people. That behavior doesn’t even deserve a breakup. Id just casually let him know that he is now a roommate and he can sleep in another room.

DivineHag · 2020-06-09T16:09:33+00:00

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balladwilds · 2020-06-09T19:20:54+00:00

unbelievable. she needs to get out and fast

kiwi_90 · 2020-06-09T15:09:14+00:00

Ugh. This is sad.

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kht777 · 2020-06-10T06:39:22+00:00

Wow, I mean, is he gay?! Cuz yikes

Title	Don’t date a porn addicted man, don’t be cool with porn. An HVM doesn’t jerk off to female exploitation & other women in general.
Author	idkwhattoputhere000
Upvotes	223
Comments	59
Date	June 9, 2020 2:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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