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[–]localgirlcultFDS Apprentice571 points572 points573 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Truly a pickme jackpot. Jealous that a woman is getting married and implies that the woman won't be as good of a house maid as Pickmeisha would be if only some guy, any guy, picked her. Please pick her, she won't "waste" money on things that make her happy, like doing her nails. She'll work twice as much as he will for no gratitude or reward, why hasn't she been picked yet for the maid position that she craves?
Anyway, this woman is her own biggest enemy. You KNOW that if any man in the future decided to stick around, even if he doesn't have the mindset of being completely useless around the house, she'll make him into a do-nothing by insisting to be a servant. This is the "I fix my Man a PLATE" mothergirlfriend.
[–]jayohday35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That phrase, about fixing the plate, makes me cringe so hard.
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I notice this why are pickmes jealous? I thought they fine with the way they do things in life or dating so I don't see why they get jealous at other females?
[–]TyrienneFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because they are still single?
[–]PasdepromessesFDS Disciple478 points479 points480 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Seriously, don’t rain on someone else’s parade. It’s not necessary at all.
Glad he stood up for his woman, as he should.
[–]PossibleDoughnutFDS Newbie46 points47 points48 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn right. All men SHOULD stand up for their partner.
[–]vmuzondiFDS Disciple617 points618 points619 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Must be so sad to be like this. Imagine your entire existence is centered around catering to a man. How depressing.
[–]foppish_aplombFDS Newbie254 points255 points256 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I feel like that woman was jealous and was trying to be snippy. Haters be everywhere
[–]vmuzondiFDS Disciple120 points121 points122 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For sure. She’s unhappy with her life, so she looks for ways to chip other people down too.
[–]BabeOfBlasphemy99 points100 points101 points 5 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
It IS sad. I lived it. I have traditional immigrant parents and so i was a totally subserviant woman like my mom. BUT American men aren't protectors and providers like my dad. So i had to work, clean, cook, go to school, raise kids, take care of him, laundry, grocery shopping, dr appointments, etc.
I was so busy that I stopped taking care of myself to care for others, my reward for good service was to be cheated on because I wasn't trying to "be sexy".
I thought he was just an ass who didn't appreciate all i did. So I went back to the old country after some healing, met a guy there, brought him back, thinking he'd be more like me, and he did the same shit too.
That taught me well that men everywhere are pretty much the same narcissistic shit so I have to put ME first to make sure I'm not a pile of ash after being used.
Pick mes need to understand there is no reward in being a servant, you let yourself go and they leave for a self indulgent woman who won't service them because they value challenge, novelty and looks above anything else. So put yourself first. Always.
Don't believe that "wall" bullshit either. Im 45 and I got men ALL over me. I seriously have at least a half dozen guys ask me out a week. They all say the same dumb shit too "women our age let themselves go". No, more like you drained them - and now I don't feel bad ghosting you after you pay for dinner cause I know you are a shallow fuck like my ex.
Putting investment in ME changed everything. I went from abandonned while fat and pregnant with two kids, teeth problems, no insurance, bank account cleaned out, no car, and no job to:
Healthy, new car, credit score in the 700s, my daughter became a dentist and fixed all my teeth, a career in medical Administration where I make more money than any guy I know, full insurance, savings in the bank, and i am currently house shopping.
I now have a better life than my exes and I am more stable than any american male I have met. I even have guys call me "the unicorn" because my shit is so put together.
I WISH I would have learned this at 18, instead of at 43
[–]miss_tokieFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You inspire me ♡
[–]-captainhookFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re honestly so inspiring. I’m glad you’re in a much better place now. Sorry you had to go through all that though. Your exes are scum
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t even do my own laundry.
[–]enemy0frealityFDS Apprentice229 points230 points231 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Isn't it said she can't even fathom a marriage where a woman is not supposed to be a maid?
[–][deleted] 322 points323 points324 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like the kinda guy who will do the laundry and pay for his wife to get her nails done however she pleases. I like this.
[–]supadupamuaksFDS Newbie71 points72 points73 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was thinking the same and yes I like it!
[–]four_qFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thats my husband and it’s literally the best thing ever. He calls himself the husbands laundry service and folds my laundry in a neat little pile every day
[–]penandfeatherFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My dad was like this (heck, he still is!). His work schedule was odd, so he’d be off in the middle of the week (firefighter).
I’d come home from school and he’d be doing laundry and watching Oprah before getting dinner started for when my mom got home from work.
I didn’t realize, growing up, that his level of partnership was NOT the norm.
He was also the only dad who volunteered to help out in the classroom when I was in elementary school.
[–]GenethebunnyqueenFDS Newbie208 points209 points210 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
What did she expect? That a guy will be like - oh yes, i'll dump my wifefor you?
[–]VashtyGirlFDS Newbie128 points129 points130 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Naw she’s hoping someone else will see that she’s a gOoD wOmAn and ask her to do his laundry for the rest of his life (or until he gets bored)
[–]th3n3w3ston3Pickmeisha™️111 points112 points113 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I don't see how those nails would prevent anyone from doing laundry, should they wish to do so.
Unless this lady likes to do all her laundry by hand?!
[–]sashimi_girlFDS Newbie68 points69 points70 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That was what I was wondering. She’s not using a washboard, what’s the deal?
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[–]th3n3w3ston3Pickmeisha™️1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That is a good point. Thanks!
[–]munissaFDS Newbie48 points49 points50 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow how rude of her. And damnnn right he ain’t marrying her to do his laundry!
[–]JasmineAndClovesFDS Newbie77 points78 points79 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow. Never in a million years would I comment on someone’s engagement picture with a nasty remark about the woman’s manicure. She’s clearly just bitter. This reminds me of the time one of my colleagues got engaged. Her center stone was morganite, but the ring was not inexpensive or unattractive by any means. When she showed up to work all giddy and excited to show off the ring, one of our other coworkers had the nerve to scoff and say, “Is that -really- what you wanted? I hope he ran that by you first.”
Jeez! What’s so difficult about being happy for other people? 🙄
[–]saint-jezebelFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why no one will ever pick a pick me.
[–]tweinerrFDS Newbie43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because long nails make every day tasks impossible... Laundry? Fr? I'll give buttoning up a shirt a bit of a hassle at times but... Laundry could probably be done with your feet
[–]uglygalthrowFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Imagine insulting a man’s fiancee to his face, the nerve of people on the internet
[–]Pudding5050Pickmeisha™️32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
A little disturbing how she equals wife with maid.
[–]textbasedpanda25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Long nails doesn't prevent you from doing laundry anyway? Haters gonna hate i guess.
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I genuinely don't understand the thought process behind a comment like that. If I see another woman wearing or doing something harmless, but not my preference, I can't really define how much I don't care.
I just wanna ask her like girl, it's not your hand, that's not your husband, and she's not your wife. Why are you feeling any sort of way?
[–]tiniekittie40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I just want to say that I’m disappointed in this Pickme and I hope she gets picked
[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
God these women are the worst
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The is an awesome response, but I do seriously wonder how women with nails that long manage do certain things. I don’t think it would interfere with doing laundry, but it just seems like they would get in the way. Personally I wouldn’t know though, I’ve always kept my nails trimmed short.
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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel like he meant she is marrying him for sexual things not laundry. Am I the only one that unimpressed by his comment?
[–]EssssssssssssssFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good on him!
Those are some long ass nails though.
[–]chipcrazyFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Sorry but what’s a pickme?
[–]JessicaOkayyyFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s a woman that is willing to sacrifice everything for a man as long as they pick her. They will convince themselves they like doing a mans laundry, paying on the dates, and they won’t ask for much from a relationship but will slave away everyday for the man. All under the guise that they will be seen as the “cool girl” and that men will flock to them. ( I was unfortunately one of these woman before ). I remember saying I was fine with my boyfriend going to the strip club with his friends because it’s “no big deal” to be seen as the cool girl, but inside I actually hated it and wished he didn’t like going.
[–]chipcrazyFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah... reminds me of a few things in my past. Not fun!
Thanks for taking the time out and explaining. :)
[–]kettleodumplinsFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm just now getting used to Reddit and so I understand not knowing the terms. I'm a long time lurker & I still see a term I don't recognize from time to time.
The mods here set up a comprehensive "About" section with everything you need including a glossary of terms!
https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/glossaryofterms
[–]chipcrazyFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you!
[–]Gabbieeeeeeeeeeeeee1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"so pick me, love me, choose me" is all I can see here
[–]Champagne_bitchFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pick me is just jealous 😏
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