First he asked me to dinner, then "dinner and Netflix", to finally just "hang out at my hotel". This bait and switch bullshit has got to go 👋🏼👋🏼✌🏼️

AstridRavenGrae · 2019-12-24T09:53:25+00:00

Hang out at his hotel.. did he suddenly have a stroke and have you confused with a prostitute somehow? What a deranged idiot thinking that suggestion was going to get an enthusiastic response

Haltthemoon · 2019-12-24T08:14:56+00:00

Is he...holding a fish in his profile pic? That's a small ass fish. Girl, you wised up!

idiosyncraticg1 · 2019-12-24T09:32:39+00:00

I made a post like this a while ago!! Had dinner plans for days, then the day of he asks if we could just hang out at my place. Do guys really think that’s gonna work?

Ms_Tilly · 2019-12-24T13:51:59+00:00

Shit. I had one offer to get a hotel with me and I said hell Yeah because I was thirsty. And then he goes "hotels are expensive. My car is out front if you want to mess around". As usual I laughed in his face and walked tf away.

sadchild5 · 2019-12-24T11:19:18+00:00

the "subtle" date downgrade. a classic

somethibg- · 2019-12-24T08:44:32+00:00

lol I love your response. Nice and direct.

darkhorse8419 · 2019-12-24T08:02:32+00:00

Wow, he tried it

2019-12-24T09:57:36+00:00

What a fucking loser. Love that shutdown.

rftw2013 · 2019-12-24T13:05:15+00:00

Men have devolved to using online dating as a way to "order in" sex.

They make zero effort, and they get sex without paying a sex worker. What could be better? 🙄

NorthrnSwede · 2019-12-24T12:32:08+00:00

I'm just here taking notes from a Queen.

extraacct1234 · 2019-12-24T15:16:15+00:00

Just cut off man who ask you to "hang"

circescircus · 2019-12-24T14:53:59+00:00

I hope there's a chick out there somewhere, who agrees to meeting guys at their place for a first date, just so she can steal their valuables. They so deserve it.

curlygirl507 · 2019-12-24T13:09:08+00:00

This is what all of them want - every single solitary one. If they could all get away with it, they would. Then on top of that some of them want someone to abuse. Men who have any kind of respect for women or genuinely wish to have healthy relationships with women are rare as fuck and it makes me sick.

extraacct1234 · 2019-12-24T15:19:44+00:00

I would tell this guy "sure. I'll be over at 8" and then just block him.

wowthispostissad · 2019-12-24T17:59:24+00:00

Your response is amazing. Short and to the point.

Liz_Lemondrop · 2019-12-24T17:15:58+00:00

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pokersnob · 2019-12-25T03:46:59+00:00

I would have trolled 😂 made him pay for the hotel and kept him thinking im on the way

Liz_Lemondrop · 2019-12-24T14:50:03+00:00

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sgoodlow1 · 2022-06-19T23:39:08+00:00

Omg hell no….. it’s never any concrete decent offers. No I am not “hanging out “ anywhere smh

Title	First he asked me to dinner, then "dinner and Netflix", to finally just "hang out at my hotel". This bait and switch bullshit has got to go 👋🏼👋🏼✌🏼️
Author	Liz_Lemondrop
Upvotes	196
Comments	53
Date	December 24, 2019 7:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/eexvwt/first_he_asked_me_to_dinner_then_dinner_and/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/first-he-asked-me-to-dinner-then-dinner-and.686330 https://theredarchive.com/post/686330

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