Has anyone received hatemail from commenting or posting in this sub?

brainsandb00bs · 2020-04-17T02:22:54+00:00

I get hate mail a lot. Here on Reddit from being here but also sometimes just for existing as a woman with an opinion on the internet. When I get a lot after being on this sub that’s how I know my posts/comments are hitting a nerve in the manosphere. I see their hate as a good thing, I don’t want to be like the type of women they praise.

missamourcali · 2020-04-17T02:43:39+00:00

Yeah

But my favorite is how it invalidates everything else I have to say. Like, I could suggest brioche on r/toast and get told to fuck off, man hating bitch.

I'm sorry my brioche makes me too high value for you bagged bagel thin low lifes

cinderella_rising · 2020-04-17T03:06:56+00:00

I get incels trying to start chats with me. Their collective post history reads like a training manual for serial killers.

ReasonableSeaweed1 · 2020-04-17T02:22:18+00:00

I haven't gotten incel PMs for posting on this sub but I've gotten them for posting on other subs, mostly on ForeverAlone. Incels assume a lot of things of women, the two primary things being "there is no such thing as an ugly/lonely woman," and that "women have it easy and FDS is just holding out for Chad because women are all picky and stupid."

Nearby-Armadillo · 2020-04-17T02:23:58+00:00

Of course we do it's the internet

Rockymemorylane · 2020-04-17T02:36:34+00:00

Yeah. I even had one guy lurker message me, telling me not to comment or discuss anything with one of the girls on here because she is always angry and mad and you won't get nowhere. He told me, if you don't believe me, go look at her post/comment history and you'll see how mad of a woman she is.

Wtf. I blocked.

Lady_Schmoobleydong · 2020-04-17T03:30:19+00:00

My involvement in FDS and Vindicta has been used against me when responding to a rude comment on a photo that I posted.

I posted a wedding photo, and I was asked if I had Down syndrome (FFS). So I posted a link to r/DecidingToBeBetter, to which he responded along the lines of "I thought it was an inspirational story, but I guess you could use that sub too, because you're a bitter woman on FDS and Vindicta." He since deleted those comments.

It's funny because he could have checked my profile to see that I in fact do not have Down syndrome, but he found the time to search my profile for sniping back and used my involvement in these subs against me? Pathetic.

flandersmustash · 2020-04-17T07:20:59+00:00

Yep, guy disliked my opinion. Then decided I must be ugly because I had that opinion and came for my physical appearance as if he has even seen me.

Was hilarious.

xxlacey3110xx · 2020-04-17T09:52:05+00:00

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understatedalways · 2020-04-17T10:16:08+00:00

I get a lot but I never actually read them. I have hundreds of unread messages from them.

xxlacey3110xx · 2020-04-17T07:30:22+00:00

Yes, happened once and I blocked him and reported to sub admins so they could block him.. lurkers are so desperate

jayda92 · 2020-04-17T10:50:52+00:00

I see, I laugh, I block and delete. Those guys are hilarious. I always comfort myself with the knowledge that some basement dweller found a lot of truth in my words.

loftycries · 2020-04-17T13:35:14+00:00

I got one yesterday! I just laughed and blocked/deleted. I feel like it’s a rite of passage — I’m an official FDSer now. 🥰

_pecanpie_ · 2020-04-17T16:07:25+00:00

Do you report their accounts?

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2020-04-17T19:38:54+00:00

Yeah, most of us get them. Just ignore. I haven't gotten a single thoughtful / semi-intelligent message from them..... appears to be from the dregs of the internet

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-04-18T04:07:41+00:00

This is why I made a profile just for this sub, my main has too much personal stuff on it and some guys get a little bit crazy. I knew I was going to get fan mail, they can’t help but insert their rage into a woman’s life when they get triggered.

LadyGrimes · 2020-04-17T16:57:45+00:00

Nope my messaging is turned off.

Blackishcat27 · 2020-04-17T17:58:22+00:00

Just a ban from breaking mom's.

Davina33 · 2020-04-17T21:47:25+00:00

I've had loads. I've never made a post, only comment on this sub. I ended up disabled my inbox messages and chat feature. I've never replied to them. I just report then block. They are not worth a tap on my keyboard.

DazzlingMolasses7 · 2020-04-17T22:52:09+00:00

Yeah many times and if anything it makes me happy and makes me laugh. I read it, laugh, then delete. I don’t bother responding.

Think of it this way. Every time feminism movements have risen up in history, men lash out even stronger with more violence and bitterness than normal. Why? Because it means they know things are changing and are scared. They wouldn’t need to lash out if they didn’t feel like we were making real progress.

Whenever men are angry like this, remember it as one of the signs we are doing something right. The fact that so many men are doing it means it’s happening everywhere.

Title	Has anyone received hatemail from commenting or posting in this sub?
Author	xxlacey3110xx
Upvotes	42
Comments	54
Date	April 16, 2020 11:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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