Earlier today I was watching a music video that I had not watched in years and I felt so annoyed with the gratuious a*s shots of the model on it while all the dudes from the band got to be completely clothed from the neck down.

Then it hit me that I've spent a lot of time now carefully curating my enviroment ( shows I watch, social media accounts,music videos I watch,etc...) so women on them are not so "male gaze-y" even when they show lots of skin. It's been very subtle over the years but now I'm realizing I've made myself a nice internet bubble that is basically hipersexualization-free and the contrast with mainstream media is shocking and upsseting.

Has anyone else being through the same process?