Ladies, we need to talk about this...

katiekat0214 · 2021-09-03T17:17:54+00:00

Since all pregnancies happen in the presence of sperm, there needs to be a huge push toward vasectomies. Men need to step up, take care of their own reproductive health and that of women's too, or women can just withhold. Oh, and all scrotes out there? Get fixed or die mad. What's that? What's that I hear? It's your body and you don't want it messed with? Gosh, sure sounds familiar.

FDS-GFY · 2021-09-03T21:22:23+00:00

Have you seen the Scrotes posting about knocking women up then taking the bounty to report her of she has an abortion? I wanted to post this but i appear to be blocked from posting photos.

Frogspocket · 2021-09-03T17:27:21+00:00

I'm extra disturbed over the "bounty" part. As though it wasn't already dystopian and hateful enough they really had to make it even more disgusting by giving hateful people a financial incentive to hurt women. The "texas bounty hunter" sub on Reddit was shockingly banned this morning. But they've just moved elsewhere online. They're celebrating the idea of collecting money off the suffering of women.

Ok_Occasion_5057 · 2021-09-03T21:20:07+00:00

My heart is will all the Texas women who don't want kids but cannot move out for any reasons. Make sure that you are

Have a long term contraceptive methods in place, plan B in the cupboard and familiar yourself with any sources of mail abortion in case you ever need it.
Don't have sex with a man unless you are certain that you are OK with having a baby with him
Learn how to shoot and own a gun. You need to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy.

crapcakes0987 · 2021-09-03T20:37:29+00:00

I already was avoiding men and planning to for the near future but now I will certainly be avoiding them until I get out of Texas. I won’t be getting married here or even casually dating, that’s for sure.

discoveringliberty · 2021-09-03T15:45:36+00:00

If I lived in Texas I would not be touching a man again until this horrific law was repealed. It's horrible because I know so many women don't have the choice to avoid men, the article even mentions that women who are raped are not exempt from this law, but for women who do have choice I hope they will consider not having sex as an option. Again, not ideal at all because women should be able to have sex without fearing that if they get pregnant they will be forced to have a baby, but I think this tactic would certainly make the male population in Texas think twice about supporting anti-abortion laws. If laws like this ever come to my country I will no longer be open to dating, having sex with or marrying any man.

Edit: I'm curious to hear from any FDSers who live in Texas? How are you doing?

Apprehensive_Ad_7917 · 2021-09-03T17:49:36+00:00

Heard a rough story about a woman who had a medical abortion that didn’t take and now she’s outside of the window for an abortion. So she likely won’t give birth to a health baby but is forced to continue the pregnancy. It’s not about life, it’s about punishing women.

illegallyabby · 2021-09-03T16:48:22+00:00

Let’s take our new unlicensed gun rights and take out margaritas to protest our loss of body autonomy. 😊

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2021-09-03T15:55:04+00:00

No reproductive rights? No sex then, scrotes. Married or otherwise, we need a sex strike until this law is repealed. The costs (both financial and health-wise) associated with female contraceptives are prohibitive. There are little to no consequences for men if they decide to dip out on a pregnancy or child, which is why there weren't many men at these protests, further proving that most men are indeed trash. If we're regulated to being livestock to be bred half to d--th, then we'll just need to stop doing what results in pregnancy.

FDS-GFY · 2021-09-03T21:25:43+00:00

When I went off the pill for health reasons, mail order kept sending it. I have stock piled about 25 months figuring at some point a woman I know will need it.

hopeful_flounder93 · 2021-09-03T20:01:02+00:00

I want women everywhere to boycott sex with men.

Watch this shit get reversed immediately.

swivelfishbowl · 2021-09-03T15:54:24+00:00

I live in Texas. I'm older, have a tubal ligation and an IUD. I'm still pretty terrified of what would happen if I got pregnant. It is still always possible even with these precautions.

Both of my pregnancies, I knew about 4 weeks along due to having hyperemesis gravidarum (extreme morning sickness). By the time I could figure out I was pregnant, and then make the hard decision to terminate, then make the appointment, I would likely be beyond the 6 week mark. This is insane.

Luckily my husband is a HVM, and has offered to get a vasectomy in the past due to my extreme anxiety about getting pregnant. I think we need to go ahead and schedule him in for the procedure.

Protoetype · 2021-09-03T19:59:10+00:00

I'm afraid for all of the Southern United States. I'm from NY and it never crossed my mind growing up that I could lose my reproductive rights. This should be the experience of EVERY girl in the USA.

I travel to the south often, I've met many of you gorgeous, kind women. you ladies don't deserve this.

To the young women in the south; Ignore all men, don't get married. Make your goal to get out. Motherhood is a scam and if you reaalllly want it, be a single mother by choice. Never give a man say over your life. Leave that church, they're trying to control your life.

That guy you're infatuated with? He will look like dog shit in a couple of years, I promise you. NEXT!

Hedy__Lamarr · 2021-09-03T20:29:17+00:00

Texas ladies need to stay away from men until this is overturned. Stay home and stay safe. And all woman worldwide need to overwhelm the reporting hotlines/websites with fake reports.

If the worst should happen and you're lucky enough to have the funds to leave the state for an abortion, do so but don't say a word to anyone.

Alpha_Aries · 2021-09-03T15:54:42+00:00

Shame on you, Texas government, and shame on the Supreme Court justices who allowed this.

rollierockie · 2021-09-03T16:50:44+00:00

The passage of this terrifies me. I’m afraid to move to university and have to deal with the possibility of something happening to result in me becoming pregnant. Can’t move yet, it’s too risky financially and I don’t have a degree yet. Can’t go to university out of state, it’s too expensive. I’m hoping I can leave this state, and hopefully country, soon. It’s becoming a hellhole.

shadowkittn · 2021-09-03T20:54:58+00:00

If you are a woman in Texas, from this point forward I would never talk about cramps, PMS, PCOS or any other indications that could give people information about your cycle to use against you or raise suspicion. Sisters, parents, boyfriends, co-workers, best friends..no one. When the doctor asks when was your last period ummm....you forgot. Unless it is absolutely medically necessary to share this information don't say a word to anyone. This entire situation is...horrifying.

honeybadgerattitude · 2021-09-03T16:02:54+00:00

It’s truly awful!! I feel so worried for the women this affects. The good part is that if you follow the link to Twitter in the article it shows you how women are flooding the whistleblower website with nonsense. That’s such a great idea! I’m not in the states so it won’t let me but if anyone who is wants to try, here’s the link Edit: if anyone knows how you can use a VPN to get around. I’m going to learn…

miss_peach94 · 2021-09-03T21:09:50+00:00

This is some handmaid's tale shit

SakuraGirl88 · 2021-09-03T21:23:46+00:00

I'm not in Texas. I live in Louisiana (which isn't much better). But I just know that my state will implement something like this at some point. I've never understood why what I do with my body is anyone's business but my own. But the same wackos who voted for this also complain about women draining the system who are mostly woc and low income who don't have access to efficient resources to care for their children 🤬.

Street_Narwhal_3361 · 2021-09-04T00:34:29+00:00

I think dressing in white and free bleeding in public might be the best way to protect oneself in TX. Since it’s everyone’s business what’s going on with with any/all wombs one might as well preemptively allay any fears about pregnancy status.

Edit: I guess it’s an anything goes type of deal down there now so you might as well open carry while you’re at it.

snowwy28 · 2021-09-03T23:24:52+00:00

I've been keeping an eye on this for a few days now and to say I'm in an utter rage is an understatement. I feel for my Queens in the US. Being in another country (Aus) and watching my fellow sisters have further sanctions placed upon their bodies just makes my blood boil.

From what I can see, it was all pushed through from ugly old religious scrotes wanting to control women's bodies even further. I thought church and state were meant to be separate? Freedom from religion etc?

I've also been watching a little dweeb on the net called Ben Shapiro who is a notorious pro lifer. He seems to label women wanting abortion "baby killers". At this point in time I couldn't give a fuck what you call me. Yep, I'm a baby killer. But I have a right to my life, and a right to happiness over someone who doesn't even exist in the word yet. As soon as a women gets pregnant she is no longer thought of as an individual or a person. She's just the incubator.

It just further cements the ideology that men don't think of us as people, just objects. This bill is going to set us back in the dark ages 😔

Antique_Fortune6974 · 2021-09-03T22:45:17+00:00

Get the hell outta Texas.

mitskiismygf · 2021-09-04T05:21:22+00:00

I’m really sick of this. I really think women should just withhold sex from all men without vasectomies until this bullshit stops. The “bounty” is ridiculous. I hope every woman with the means moves out of this awful state and I’ll be praying for every woman without the means. Here’s to Texas’s economy tanking.

imtryingtotryhere · 2021-09-04T06:11:16+00:00

I fear that the day will come women will be fined (or much much worse) for refusing to date, have sex, marry, put out babies, be bangmaids etc. all with LVM (who are the majority, let's face it). because it's our 'duty' to do those things and be subservient. I really think this might happen sooner than we think. I don't know how we can protect ourselves - physically and legally - if that happens.

Maleddie · 2021-09-03T23:04:30+00:00

It's honestly so shocking and appalling that I find it hard to think about. I also cannot believe how many states (I think 13?) have political leanings towards these sorts of views. How has this happened in a country that has always stood for freedom?

I'm from the UK. A few years ago our right-wing Conservative party made a deal with another right-wing party to enable them to take power in the UK (otherwise they didn't have enough for a majority). The other party was the DUP, a socially hard right Irish party that is anti-abortion, anti-gay rights etc. While the deal itself obviously bothered me, I was heartened that basically everyone in England INCLUDING actual Conservative politicians were completely sickened and disgusted that the deal had been made because it's widely considered that the DUP's views belong in Medieval times even by people on the right, and even though this country is fairly right-wing economically. The idea that those views are so mainstream in certain US states really blows my mind.

The new law is against federal law, right - why hasn't SCOTUS done something yet??

shoesfromparis135 · 2021-09-05T03:53:39+00:00

I stand with the women of Texas and vow to abstain from sex until this horrific legislation is reversed.

Outrageous-Bat2472 · 2021-09-03T15:38:30+00:00

Today I donated to The Lilith Fund to feel like I did SOMETHING to help.

Title	Ladies, we need to talk about this...
Author	Peak_Tree
Upvotes	417
Comments	74
Date	September 3, 2021 2:58 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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